I've been told these things by friends and family. It upsets me, but I try not to show it. Sometimes I'll snap,but that makes people upset, and because I try to keep everyone happy with me, I give them a reaction they'd like to see. But it hurts my feelings, and I'm completely torn on wether I should keep them happy or myself happy. Anyways, I did this pic because I'm just upset right now and I kinda need to vent. Sorry for filling the gallery with useless teenager feels xP
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30 Mar, 2013, 11:19 am
(Note: I still have a lot of work to do on my science project so this is just a little filler becsuse it's been a while.)
30 Mar, 2013, 11:25 am
So yeah I know this problem. But I learned, that you can´t be happy, when you all your live are playing the actor. I mean that you should stand for yourself and show your read chracter. Just ignore the others and live you live how you want to live it. =)
30 Mar, 2013, 11:27 am
I feel so sorry 4 u. I cant believe ur told these things by family. That's horrible:(
30 Mar, 2013, 11:31 am
Some of mine: No offence but: your annoying, ewwww get away, creep, strange, weird, odd, not strong enough. *sits down at lunch table* everyone exept KurtzmanBXD (IRL) move away.
30 Mar, 2013, 11:31 am
I know how this feels,kid. You know, I've learned that it's better to make your self happy then trying to make other happy,because if you waste your time on doing the opposite than you're only going to get torn. You'll snap very easilly at others and hurt them the same way the hurt you,and that's not what we want,right? I can actually tell you that on this same week I've learned what I told you. I snapped at my best friend and now..I feel awful for that. So, think that for a bit.
30 Mar, 2013, 11:34 am
This has happened for years to me so Ive learned to absorb most of it, but it still doesnt mean it hurts. Saying, No offence then being a jerk to someone is just rude and thhey use the term "no offence" is, in my opinion, horrible.
30 Mar, 2013, 11:34 am
Thanks everyone ;) *hugs* Only a few family members say these things...my mom doesn't really like my clothing choice is great and my grandparents say my drawings look like aliens TT^TT I'm too scared to stand up for myself..I don't want to make it worse.
Padfoot: It's terrible your friends say that to you! Cuz you're so awesome! I don't know how people can be so mean to such awesome people :(
30 Mar, 2013, 11:38 am
Sometimes it's best to play a role and to hide your emotions from others. Sometimes it might even save your life. But you aren't being taken hostage and these people aren't captors you're trying to escape. Yeah, sometimes isn't now. Now you need to be yourself and let yourself show your feelings. The courage will make you a stronger person in the end. Sure, people fear and ridicule what they don't understand, but people once ridiculed the idea that the Earth was round. Reality doesn't care what other people think and no one has the opportunity to change if you can't let them know how you feel. Be real. Be you. Everything else will work out in time.
30 Mar, 2013, 11:38 am
Nyu: I snap on my sister a lot :/ I try not to, I don't like it.. I usually don't say anything at all though.
Scoobicon: That's terrible! I feel so bad for you :/ I don't see why people can be so mean, and think laughing and saying 'no offence' makes it any better...
30 Mar, 2013, 11:40 am
Rouge-Ranger: Thank-you so much, I needed the support. I try to be myself sometimes, and tell them how I feel, but it all comes out in hot tears and they end up laughing at me..
30 Mar, 2013, 11:41 am
I get insulted a lot by people also, i never show that it hurts, and i imagine sticking up for myself but ive never tried doing it. I figure that if them saying stuff to me makes them happy, then ill just ignore it, and let them be happy. Their happiness is more important than mine. Apparentely i have a really low self-esteem. I feel like the insults rubbed off and i feel like the people are right. I seem happy, but deep deep down inside im hurt badly and torn apart. Most of my family (besides my mom and a few others) never even remember me. A lot of them i havent seen in years, but if their happy without me then im happy. Im very tough on myself, never letting me cry or feel sad, but if the littlest bad thing happens to anyone else im completely sad.
Sorry for rambling...
30 Mar, 2013, 11:44 am
If you dont stop people from doing all this to you, then there never gonna stop, you need to stick up for yourself before it gets any worse(i should probably listen to my advice)
30 Mar, 2013, 11:48 am
dont feel bad we can all relate
30 Mar, 2013, 11:52 am
Cydnie: That's exactly how I act around them, I have plenty of this to say but no guts to say them...
Padfoot: A cat.. in a sink? Lol funny xD I wouldn't have any friends at school with stories like that.. but one of my friends ninja rolled through wal-mart xD
30 Mar, 2013, 12:10 pm
We are on the same boat.. Hope you feel better :D
30 Mar, 2013, 12:33 pm
I hear you.
30 Mar, 2013, 1:07 pm
Padfoot: Idk.. my friend is really crazy too...
Hedgrover: Haters are gonna hate xD But it's not very nice of them...
30 Mar, 2013, 1:07 pm
Vulpix: The feels TT^TT
30 Mar, 2013, 1:35 pm
I know how you feel, but people insult me by calling me normal -pouts- I'M NOT NORMAL!
-sigh- Aaaaaanyways! Just tell them that those things hurt you! My family says things like this, and more hurtful things because I'm a les,bian...
30 Mar, 2013, 2:34 pm
I feel sorry for you, I read the comments section, they are all your friends, the best anyone can have, be thankful, there are horrible people in this world who feel that they must hurt others to feel good about themselves, if you need help, ask your friends, never let the pain destroy your personality, stand up, don't let the people who oppress you keep your silence, speak out and speak loud, if you can't find the courage, find it in yourself, and through your friends, don't be sad, look through the cloud of pain and see the bright future, i couldn't tell you my expierience, but i could provide this help, i advise you as a friend to take it. stay strong, stay smiling....
30 Mar, 2013, 3:07 pm
Thank you Alpha :) I'm feeling better now, thankyou so much ^.^
HawkHeart: That's terrible! I feel so bad for you :/ That's rude of your family to treat you like that. I hate being called normal, but I also hate when people aren't nice to me because of my strangeness...
30 Mar, 2013, 3:11 pm
you are very welcome, I hate to see people sad, so i cheer them up, and help them out, i know what critisism feels like, i don't like it.
30 Mar, 2013, 7:57 pm
no you are way awesome (hug)
30 Mar, 2013, 8:07 pm
Thankies EmilyCat *hug*
02 Apr, 2013, 6:22 am
-hugs- I've felt like this.
02 Apr, 2013, 2:19 pm
Yeah my bff always says stuff about me and so does my parents. I always say, "Friends don't critisize friends, they encourage them." I feel like I suffer from depression cuz it runs in my family but I always find a reason to smile :) I'm also really ugly cuz I have braces, glasses, and acne. But I'm getting contacts and medication so I won't have to hear that anymore! XD
02 May, 2013, 1:36 am
bullys that is wat u r diling with ;)
26 May, 2013, 3:36 am
just know we will always be here for you see all these comments there your fans they care for you there all like family just know ILL be there for you ill hang on and wont let go none of those things are true to this day im still bullyed i say well atleast im not a lowlife jerk that only cares for themselves. we are here for you might not think so but jesus is watching you and hes helping you through these times so are we. We will stick up for you lile superglue. just know the love in your heart for people will help you