now, if you were hit for NO REASON at all? yes, then that would be ábuse. But simply getting punished for doing something stupid is clearly discipline

EXACTLY i totally agree with you

no actually i think beating your kid with a belt is really bad

mixed feelings abt it. but i agree to some extent. its outrageous how much ppl r effected by the tiniest thing a parent does. i mean its a parents job to decide on disoplen they put on thier child for misbehavior. while yes a lot of parents also take advantage and can be used for bad. its not necessarily supposed to be made as abus3.

think of it as perhaps money. it wasnt made to be abuse.
but there are ppl who abuse it n ppl who use it for good.

if that makes any sense.

physically disaplanning kids is bad and the argument that it's their kid so u shouldn't be concerned is stupid by hitting you kid you can very easily teach them to respond with anger and violence rather than being a normal person and taking the time and properly teaching kid what's right haha

@leopoldbutterssotch what if the kid responds better to the discipline though youcant just always calmly tell a kid not to do smth theyre just gonna do it again you need to gve them something to be scared of.so they wont do it

@dessa_chan thats pretty much what i was tryna say tbh lol but yes this is true

yea that's a horrible mind-set that literally is traumatizing your kid if your scaring them so bad they never do it again that's a problem and usually doesn't work and just builds resentment and sneaky kids but maybe i am just too woke

@leopoldbutterssotch well agree to disagree

physical abuse / disciplining messed me up and traumatized me as a little kid as well as so many others so people do have the right to be sensitive. it causes so many problems in the long run so it isn't a good thing at all

it didn't teach me to not do bad things it scared me into not doing them it genuinely made me afraid of every little thing and I always felt so unsafe at home so

@grace_ im really sorry that happened to you

idk i guess it depends on experience cuz i got disciplined and learned from it and saw it as discipline but i know now that others may have gotten it differently

yeah, sometimes kids are bad, ik a few times where i totally deserved it,
i can also think of a lot of times were it was over smth stup1d

there's a fine line, depends on who your kid is, really...

Yeah it does depend on experience and maybe your kids personality or whatever but it causes a lot of problems generally because kids shouldn't have to worry about getting beaten and stuff yknow? But I do get where yer coming from

i get it i hate like bad kids but ik i was a bad kid and my mom takes things too far

one time i was like not wanting to clean my room so i tried to show my mom i didnt want to and she treated that as disrespect AND SHE BANGED MY HEAD ON THE TABLE AND CHOKED ME TILL I WAS UNCONSCIOUS./srs.

but if its smth like a kid screaming bout an ipad by all means discipline them

ah yes hurting you child insted of putting the kid in time out.. I hated being hit. i allways preferred the cornor..
(this is just my personal opinion form experiences it only happened a few tines not a lot i was young)

I mean you're right that kids should definitely be punished for doing dumb ****, but i think hitting them isn't a good way of discipline.
All kids should be disciplined one way or another otherwise they turn into entitled adults when they grow up and they terrorize everyone. Instead of hitting they should instead be like put in time out or not allowed to use certain things like when my dad would discipline me, it clicked because the punishment was fair

it depends on the physical abuse .

whooping them with a belt is bad but its not as bad as ripping They're hair out or choking them out. also it depends if the kid did something very stupid or something minor lik spilling a cup.

i think the most you should be doing is whooping them with a belt , or slapping them.

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