@jettythecat ive jus been overthinkin alot cuz i kinda like one of my irl friends. i told my partner abt it and they said it would be fine with them if i went for it, but i honestly have absolutely no idea how to and its been a bit stressful
@jettythecat no, its fine. honestly advice is probably the one thing i need rn. the only reason it was so easy to get w/ my partner was cuz she told me first so yeah
Ok, If it were me, I'd either go a serious route or a silly route. (I'm really weird ok) So, seriously, I'd wait until we were sitting near or together, then I'd get their attention and say something like, "Hey, I really like you, and was wondering if we could go out, maybe? It's fine if you say no." I am one hundred percent a people-pleaser so maybe don't say the end part? And the silly would just be like "Hey um, so, yeah, we're dating now and you're my pookie forever" (I'm so weird sorry)
@jettythecat yeah, ive been thinking going the silly rout n givin him a goofy äss cheesy card or sum around valintines or sum like that (sorry for the language btw if ur not fine w/ it i wont say that stuff around u)
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24 Jan, 2026, 7:03 am
aw... I'm here for you if you wanna talk
24 Jan, 2026, 7:07 am
@jettythecat yes, please i kinda need sum 1 to talk abt it with..
24 Jan, 2026, 7:08 am
oki, I'm here.
24 Jan, 2026, 7:12 am
@jettythecat ive jus been overthinkin alot cuz i kinda like one of my irl friends. i told my partner abt it and they said it would be fine with them if i went for it, but i honestly have absolutely no idea how to and its been a bit stressful
24 Jan, 2026, 7:13 am
hmm... I totally understand. I think maybe ease into it? If you don't want advice tho I get it.
24 Jan, 2026, 7:16 am
@jettythecat no, its fine. honestly advice is probably the one thing i need rn. the only reason it was so easy to get w/ my partner was cuz she told me first so yeah
24 Jan, 2026, 7:23 am
Ok, If it were me, I'd either go a serious route or a silly route. (I'm really weird ok) So, seriously, I'd wait until we were sitting near or together, then I'd get their attention and say something like, "Hey, I really like you, and was wondering if we could go out, maybe? It's fine if you say no." I am one hundred percent a people-pleaser so maybe don't say the end part? And the silly would just be like "Hey um, so, yeah, we're dating now and you're my pookie forever" (I'm so weird sorry)
24 Jan, 2026, 7:24 am
So I hope that helps, sorry, but I gotta go to bed it's currently midnight for me.
24 Jan, 2026, 7:27 am
@jettythecat yeah, ive been thinking going the silly rout n givin him a goofy äss cheesy card or sum around valintines or sum like that (sorry for the language btw if ur not fine w/ it i wont say that stuff around u)
24 Jan, 2026, 7:27 am
@jettythecat alr, gn