evrryone stand up and clap

the definition of it means u literally cannot be grооmed by someone younger they have to be older than u :wilted_flower: lets not make uneducated takes on something that hasnt happened to u

also guys. im not talking abt the rei thing, he didnt grôom me, we're pretty level. idk abt anyone else though

ppl throw around the word grôom i get that, but goddämn

@senketsuakochan brother you dont have any idea what ive been through or if ive been grôomed or not you dont know me??

if youve been grооmed youd know they have to be older :wilted_flower:

@senketsuakochan totally makes sense

ikr it really des

>> not every circumstance of vulnerability is the same for everyone i wish people got this

@studlustforever yes

@senketsuakochan the textbook def is preparing someone for a specific purpose or activity. vulnerability is a huge factor for the victim. dont know if you know this but everybody can have different amounts of vulnerability

thats not the textbook definition is lol it has nothing to do with preparation for anything :sob: grооming is purposefully forming an emotional relationship with someone younger meant to manipulate

please educate yourself

@senketsuakochan you pulled that from your äss :sob:

no i didnt lol ive done my research due to wanting to figure out if what my grооmer did to me was grооming. you're an uneducated 14 year old idiot who thinks everything you say is right just cuz u heard it from your friends. you're an uneducated messenger pigeon who instead of actually researching your claim you just act like you're sure of what youre saying.

@senketsuakochan u mad?

dont sit here and tell me to educate myself on something thats happened to me, thanks. :heart:

im not mad lol im telling the truth cuz you're an idiot

@senketsuakochan no girl i know what its like to be grôomed i was 8 lol youre just slow :joy: just bc ur grôomer was older doesnt mean thats the only way ppl get grôomed the world doesnt revolve around you :open_mouth:

god i hate arguing with uneducated, stupid people

ur actually stupid *** LOL you were 8 and by what ur saying ur grооmer was also 8? like dude an 8 year old doesnt evwn know what the word manipulation means. stop pulling shıt out ur *** and educate urself

@senketsuakochan no? he was 40. i never said i was grôomed by another 8 year old. im trying to sympathize with victims who WERE. unlike you apparently

YOU need to educate yourself

if both the gr00mer and the victim are the same age or both minors that would probably go under cocsa (child on child s--ual abuse)

@chanslaptop thank u for being smart

@chanslaptop grôoming doesnt have to be séxual

its still gro0ming hello sensetkuchan or whatever ur name is?

@senketsuakochan so not gr00ming per say but a seperate, equally traumatizing thing

i fear ur sympathizing for cocsa victims which is extremely reasonable. but what ur sayng ISNT grооming. thanks minjun for being educated and basically stating what i was gna say

@ollss its not ur sped

:ok: :purple_heart:

@senketsuakochan again, grôoming doesnt have to be séxual. do i have to show you a subway surfers playthrough for you to actually pay attention

@senketsuakochan >> hi im a victim i also think its possible and here is every situation i can think of where this could be a possibility: fame imbalance, mental illness, mental disability, workplace abuse, and also younger doesnt have to mean like. 12 and 14 or whatever, they can be fully grown adults where one is younger, and the ******** doesnt have to just be for preparing for adult activities of age it can be getting someone into something Wrong youre into when theyre vulnerable, +

girl that doesnt change the fact that they need to be older LOL

so tell me why age is the only factor that makes grôoming actually grôoming?

@senketsuakochan

@studlustforever hi ur literally proving my point by mentioning the fact theyre older

@studlustFOREVER THANK YOU

@jojo_ thats true. gr00ming is just manipulating someone vulnerable (like a child) to build trust and an emotional connection

its not that its common its just that it IS possible under certain circumstances, i dont see why this supposedly hasnt happened to one person ever alive and cant fall under the label, not trying to argue or discredit anyone but i just dont understand the view point

@jojo_ because if ur 14 and another 14 year old forms a emotional relationship with you to manipulate you theyre literally just manipulating you and not groоming :sob: its only considered grооming if 1: theyre older and 2: theres either romantic or sеxual tendencies involved

@chanslaptop YEAH THATS MY POINT :sob:

im not saying children cant be grôomed (thats most of the victims of it) im saying anybody vulnerable can be.

>> oh yeah i should have clarified i meant older as in both are adults and the manipulator is still the younger of the pair

dude ok so ur literally js agreeing with us??? hello??? 'anyone vulnerable can be grооmed' well yes exactly! that doesnt change the fact that the grооmer must be older

why dont we just call it cocsa when they're both minors and gr00ming when the gr00mer is older and leave it at that?

@senketsuakochan lmao no, grôoming doesnt have to involve anything séxual , though in most cases it does, it doesnt have to

@chanslaptop its not JUST séxual assault

@senketsuakochan no, the grôomer doesnt have to be older but there must be a power imbalance

@jojo_ reread what i said u idiot, i said ROMANTIC or SЕXUAL

@studlustforever my response didnt send for some reason. but yes in the situation you're talking about it IS considered grооming. but in the situation i am referring to is between two 14 year olds.

>> i get the view of it being less likely to happen but i dont think its impossible or hasnt happened to anyone ever

@senketsuakochan there ARE famous 14 year olds with other 14 year old fans bro

@jojo_ and thats like normal :sob: god forbid a famous 14 year old wants a relationship?

@senketsuakochan chat i think youre mistaking grôoming and being a literal predator??? :skull:

im speechless i think youre confused

im not mistaking it lol i said they have to be older that doesnt mean they need to be an adult

@senketsuakochan yeah but its 1 thing if someone famous gets in a relationship with somebody. its another if they use their fame to create a power imbalance

well my post was abt rei bruh

@senketsuakochan oh bruh this arguement is stupid asf then, im sorry for calling you names mb :open_mouth:

bruh ok :sob: dide

chat if u need this info, i was 12 and he was 13 at the time