ok so this may sound rlly weird nd dramatic but tmrw my class is going swimming and im not going bc im just rlly uncomfortable w water but my teacher is making me sit at then back of A RANDOM class BY MYSELF and do work and idk wat class. and i asked if my mum could just pick me up early and she got rlly mad nd im like rlly stressed srry for minor vent :c
okay so you can get swimsuits with bra pads in them, ones that have sleeves and shorts on them to cover ur armpits and thighs btw :3 just try to focus on the positives, maybe youll make new friends and enjoy urself!!! just think like this water=fun new people=possible friends!
@TigGEr4LiFe awh, im sorry about that! my other advice is to try not make eye contact with her if ur not comfortable around her and ignore her if she makes any comments :)
also try to look confident (ie dont constantly look down bc people will pick up on that) and if you look confident and relaxed, then you might start to feel confident after a while? :)
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03 Nov, 2025, 8:18 pm
@exclamation
03 Nov, 2025, 8:18 pm
yello!
03 Nov, 2025, 8:18 pm
anybody lurking will get bitten by me btw
03 Nov, 2025, 8:21 pm
ok so this may sound rlly weird nd dramatic but tmrw my class is going swimming and im not going bc im just rlly uncomfortable w water but my teacher is making me sit at then back of A RANDOM class BY MYSELF and do work and idk wat class. and i asked if my mum could just pick me up early and she got rlly mad nd im like rlly stressed
srry for minor vent :c
03 Nov, 2025, 8:21 pm
now i CAN see it
03 Nov, 2025, 8:22 pm
no no its totally understandable
03 Nov, 2025, 8:22 pm
i got some advice :3 (have done this b4)
03 Nov, 2025, 8:22 pm
okieee @exclamation
03 Nov, 2025, 8:23 pm
okay so you can get swimsuits with bra pads in them, ones that have sleeves and shorts on them to cover ur armpits and thighs btw :3
just try to focus on the positives, maybe youll make new friends and enjoy urself!!! just think like this
water=fun
new people=possible friends!
03 Nov, 2025, 8:24 pm
you can also get tuck in ones but those are usually for transitioned adults i think
03 Nov, 2025, 8:24 pm
thats all my advice :3
03 Nov, 2025, 8:24 pm
i believe in u tho, u got this >:D
03 Nov, 2025, 8:25 pm
ya ig!
but yk wen i said i was going thru a friend breakup well....
shes in the class just below mine nd she might say smth if im in her class...
03 Nov, 2025, 8:26 pm
i just went in a normal swimsuit and shaved but thats just me bc my body hairs are noticable becuase im deep brunette
03 Nov, 2025, 8:26 pm
@exclamation
03 Nov, 2025, 8:27 pm
yh thats understanding
03 Nov, 2025, 8:27 pm
@TigGEr4LiFe awh, im sorry about that!
my other advice is to try not make eye contact with her if ur not comfortable around her and ignore her if she makes any comments :)
03 Nov, 2025, 8:28 pm
if u can and social anxiety doesnt get in the way, making friends or being friendly in general might boost ur confidence :D
03 Nov, 2025, 8:28 pm
okie tysm for deh advise ur a rlly good friend!
03 Nov, 2025, 8:28 pm
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03 Nov, 2025, 8:30 pm
also try to look confident (ie dont constantly look down bc people will pick up on that) and if you look confident and relaxed, then you might start to feel confident after a while? :)
03 Nov, 2025, 8:30 pm
anytime pooks ♥♥♥♥♡♡♥
goodluck, and im rooting fo u!!!!
03 Nov, 2025, 8:30 pm
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03 Nov, 2025, 8:32 pm
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03 Nov, 2025, 8:32 pm
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03 Nov, 2025, 11:09 pm
@exclamation oo im rlly nervous bc wen we go outside i wont rlly know anyone
im praying 1 of da ppl from mai class will be there too!!!
04 Nov, 2025, 5:39 pm
@exclamation it went okie, 1 person from my class who i have MAJOR BEEF WITH was there but oter that that it was alr
04 Nov, 2025, 5:40 pm
@TigGEr4LiFe im glad it went okay!!! told ya youd be fine!! n_n
04 Nov, 2025, 5:48 pm
@exclamation xD ♥♡
04 Nov, 2025, 6:03 pm
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