Can someone with extreme knowledge of queer identities PLEASE try and help me... I can't figure out my sеxuality :broken_heart:
explanation: ok so i'm omniromantic, girl preference. I'm like physically/aesthectically attracted to girls but not sеxually. I'm sеxually attracted to all other genders, boy preference.
HELP TS IS LIKE A STARBUCKS ORDER ATP :wilted_flower:
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24 Jul, 2025, 9:03 am
guys I'm not abrosеxual I'm just confused :broken_heart:
24 Jul, 2025, 9:04 am
IDK EITHER SORRYYY
24 Jul, 2025, 9:05 am
@EVIL_Osaka AUGHH it's ok I think I'll do more research later bc this is REALLY bothering me :wilted_flower:
24 Jul, 2025, 9:07 am
oouuff now THIS is bothering me :broken_heart:
im curious now shjh
24 Jul, 2025, 9:08 am
i dont know T_T for me i thougt i was pan then like 2-3 years later i was pan ace and then aroace pan then i thought i might be still a girl and maby a lez then i thought i was just aroace then i relized im aroace mlm ITS SO CUNFUZZING AHHHHHUFUTFTU- you might be berry s3xla it when you like girls and boys but girls more? or a aroace who dose not know yet my gusse lol
24 Jul, 2025, 9:09 am
@Sp4wn_P0int_Z3r0 FR :broken_heart: I WILL figure this out It'll just take time :pray:
24 Jul, 2025, 9:09 am
CRYING IDK *explodes in stress*
24 Jul, 2025, 9:10 am
@Sticksandstones102 thx but I don't think those labels fit me :/ I appreciate you trying to help tho!! :pray:
24 Jul, 2025, 9:10 am
@Gnab_nahcX3 REAL :broken_heart:
24 Jul, 2025, 9:20 am
IDK BRO SORRY
24 Jul, 2025, 9:21 am
AND IT'S OK :pray:
24 Jul, 2025, 9:23 am
OK GN
24 Jul, 2025, 9:32 am
GOODNIGHTTT AND HEH ITS SO HARD DOING IT ON MY PHONE
24 Jul, 2025, 9:34 am
This is what chat got said so dont go after me :disappointed:
What you’re describing sounds like a nuanced distinction between physical, sexual, and possibly romantic attraction—each of which can be directed toward different genders or people.
Let’s break it down:
1. Physical attraction
You feel drawn to someone’s looks, presence, or energy—this can include enjoying closeness, touch, or admiring their appearance. You mentioned you're physically attracted to a girl, which might mean you enjoy her presence or aesthetics, but not necessarily in a sexual or romantic way.
2. Sexual attraction
This is the desire to engage in sexual activity with someone. You said you're sexually attracted to other genders, meaning that your sexual interest is directed elsewhere, not toward the girl you’re physically attracted to.
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So, what could this be called?
Here are a few possibilities, depending on how you define and experience your feelings:
Aesthetic attraction: You find someone physically beautiful or appealing without wanting sex with them.
Sensual attraction: Desire for non-sexual touch or closeness (like cuddling, hugging) without sexual intent.
Split attraction model: Many people use this framework to describe differing romantic, sexual, sensual, and aesthetic attractions separately. For example:
You might be aesthetically/sensually attracted to women.
But sexually attracted to other genders.
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Labels (if you're looking for one)
You don’t need a label, but some people find them helpful. Depending on the fuller picture of your attractions, you might explore:
Biromantic, homoromantic, heteroromantic, etc. (if romantic attraction differs from sexual)
Graysexual, demisexual, or queerplatonic connections if your attractions don’t follow typical sexual norms
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Final thoughts
Your experience is valid and quite common. Attraction is not always a "package deal"—it's perfectly normal to be physically or emotionally drawn to someone but not sexually. Understanding and accepting that difference is a strong step toward self-awareness.
If you'd like to describe more about your romantic or emotional attractions, I can help you explore that too.
24 Jul, 2025, 9:44 am
@MollieLvsClaggor thx :pray:
24 Jul, 2025, 9:45 am
I knew all of that stuff already but its ok :sob:
24 Jul, 2025, 5:05 pm
I miss you
24 Jul, 2025, 5:05 pm
i need to bite your feet :disappointed:
24 Jul, 2025, 6:41 pm
GRGRGGR
25 Jul, 2025, 4:35 am
ur omni thats like... thats what it is
if you're attracted to both genders, you're omni, whether its romantic or sеxual. so if you arent sеxually attracted to women but you are to men, its still just being omni. you're just romantic pref towards women and sеxual pref towards men
i promise its not as complex as u think
25 Jul, 2025, 4:36 am
@Jisung ok ty... just like ppl made it seem complicated when I researched it bru :broken_heart:
25 Jul, 2025, 4:51 am
yes boi people js try too hard
25 Jul, 2025, 4:51 am
@Jisung fr :pray:
25 Jul, 2025, 6:17 am
i gtg to ohio now bye
25 Jul, 2025, 6:17 am
@MollieLvsClaggor what :sob:
25 Jul, 2025, 12:44 pm
I SAW A DEFTONES CD AND THOUGHT OF YOU
25 Jul, 2025, 3:55 pm
NOT CD I MEANT VINYL
25 Jul, 2025, 3:55 pm
I MISS YOUUU
25 Jul, 2025, 7:31 pm
@MollieLvsClaggor AW HEH
25 Jul, 2025, 7:32 pm
HEH AND HIHIHIHI
25 Jul, 2025, 7:33 pm
@MollieLvsClaggor HI
25 Jul, 2025, 7:34 pm
I WILL BRB IM WATCHING HAPPY GILMORE 2 RIGHT NOW SORRY I WON'T BE LONG :pray:
25 Jul, 2025, 7:34 pm
@MollieLvsClaggor OK :thumbsup:
25 Jul, 2025, 7:42 pm
IM BACK NOW HIIII HRUU
25 Jul, 2025, 7:44 pm
@MollieLvsClaggor I'M ALR
25 Jul, 2025, 7:44 pm
GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!