PLEASE HELP by BlueBow_

Can someone with extreme knowledge of queer identities PLEASE try and help me... I can't figure out my sеxuality :broken_heart:

explanation: ok so i'm omniromantic, girl preference. I'm like physically/aesthectically attracted to girls but not sеxually. I'm sеxually attracted to all other genders, boy preference.

HELP TS IS LIKE A STARBUCKS ORDER ATP :wilted_flower:

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24 Jul, 2025, 9:00 am
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BlueBow_

24 Jul, 2025, 9:03 am

guys I'm not abrosеxual I'm just confused :broken_heart:

EVIL_Osaka

24 Jul, 2025, 9:04 am

IDK EITHER SORRYYY

BlueBow_

24 Jul, 2025, 9:05 am

@EVIL_Osaka AUGHH it's ok I think I'll do more research later bc this is REALLY bothering me :wilted_flower:

Sp4wn_P0int_Z3r0

24 Jul, 2025, 9:07 am

oouuff now THIS is bothering me :broken_heart:

im curious now shjh

Sticksandstones102

24 Jul, 2025, 9:08 am

i dont know T_T for me i thougt i was pan then like 2-3 years later i was pan ace and then aroace pan then i thought i might be still a girl and maby a lez then i thought i was just aroace then i relized im aroace mlm ITS SO CUNFUZZING AHHHHHUFUTFTU- you might be berry s3xla it when you like girls and boys but girls more? or a aroace who dose not know yet my gusse lol

BlueBow_

24 Jul, 2025, 9:09 am

@Sp4wn_P0int_Z3r0 FR :broken_heart: I WILL figure this out It'll just take time :pray:

Gnab_nahcX3

24 Jul, 2025, 9:09 am

CRYING IDK *explodes in stress*

BlueBow_

24 Jul, 2025, 9:10 am

@Sticksandstones102 thx but I don't think those labels fit me :/ I appreciate you trying to help tho!! :pray:

BlueBow_

24 Jul, 2025, 9:10 am

@Gnab_nahcX3 REAL :broken_heart:

MollieLvsClaggor

24 Jul, 2025, 9:20 am

IDK BRO SORRY

BlueBow_

24 Jul, 2025, 9:21 am

AND IT'S OK :pray:

BlueBow_

24 Jul, 2025, 9:23 am

OK GN

MollieLvsClaggor

24 Jul, 2025, 9:32 am

GOODNIGHTTT AND HEH ITS SO HARD DOING IT ON MY PHONE

MollieLvsClaggor

24 Jul, 2025, 9:34 am

This is what chat got said so dont go after me :disappointed:

What you’re describing sounds like a nuanced distinction between physical, sexual, and possibly romantic attraction—each of which can be directed toward different genders or people.

Let’s break it down:

1. Physical attraction

You feel drawn to someone’s looks, presence, or energy—this can include enjoying closeness, touch, or admiring their appearance. You mentioned you're physically attracted to a girl, which might mean you enjoy her presence or aesthetics, but not necessarily in a sexual or romantic way.

2. Sexual attraction

This is the desire to engage in sexual activity with someone. You said you're sexually attracted to other genders, meaning that your sexual interest is directed elsewhere, not toward the girl you’re physically attracted to.

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So, what could this be called?

Here are a few possibilities, depending on how you define and experience your feelings:

Aesthetic attraction: You find someone physically beautiful or appealing without wanting sex with them.

Sensual attraction: Desire for non-sexual touch or closeness (like cuddling, hugging) without sexual intent.

Split attraction model: Many people use this framework to describe differing romantic, sexual, sensual, and aesthetic attractions separately. For example:

You might be aesthetically/sensually attracted to women.

But sexually attracted to other genders.

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Labels (if you're looking for one)

You don’t need a label, but some people find them helpful. Depending on the fuller picture of your attractions, you might explore:

Biromantic, homoromantic, heteroromantic, etc. (if romantic attraction differs from sexual)

Graysexual, demisexual, or queerplatonic connections if your attractions don’t follow typical sexual norms

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Final thoughts

Your experience is valid and quite common. Attraction is not always a "package deal"—it's perfectly normal to be physically or emotionally drawn to someone but not sexually. Understanding and accepting that difference is a strong step toward self-awareness.

If you'd like to describe more about your romantic or emotional attractions, I can help you explore that too.

BlueBow_

24 Jul, 2025, 9:44 am

@MollieLvsClaggor thx :pray:

BlueBow_

24 Jul, 2025, 9:45 am

I knew all of that stuff already but its ok :sob:

MollieLvsClaggor

24 Jul, 2025, 5:05 pm

I miss you

MollieLvsClaggor

24 Jul, 2025, 5:05 pm

i need to bite your feet :disappointed:

MollieLvsClaggor

24 Jul, 2025, 6:41 pm

GRGRGGR

Jisung

25 Jul, 2025, 4:35 am

ur omni thats like... thats what it is
if you're attracted to both genders, you're omni, whether its romantic or sеxual. so if you arent sеxually attracted to women but you are to men, its still just being omni. you're just romantic pref towards women and sеxual pref towards men
i promise its not as complex as u think

BlueBow_

25 Jul, 2025, 4:36 am

@Jisung ok ty... just like ppl made it seem complicated when I researched it bru :broken_heart:

Jisung

25 Jul, 2025, 4:51 am

yes boi people js try too hard

BlueBow_

25 Jul, 2025, 4:51 am

@Jisung fr :pray:

MollieLvsClaggor

25 Jul, 2025, 6:17 am

i gtg to ohio now bye

BlueBow_

25 Jul, 2025, 6:17 am

@MollieLvsClaggor what :sob:

MollieLvsClaggor

25 Jul, 2025, 12:44 pm

I SAW A DEFTONES CD AND THOUGHT OF YOU

MollieLvsClaggor

25 Jul, 2025, 3:55 pm

NOT CD I MEANT VINYL

MollieLvsClaggor

25 Jul, 2025, 3:55 pm

I MISS YOUUU

BlueBow_

25 Jul, 2025, 7:31 pm

@MollieLvsClaggor AW HEH

MollieLvsClaggor

25 Jul, 2025, 7:32 pm

HEH AND HIHIHIHI

BlueBow_

25 Jul, 2025, 7:33 pm

@MollieLvsClaggor HI

MollieLvsClaggor

25 Jul, 2025, 7:34 pm

I WILL BRB IM WATCHING HAPPY GILMORE 2 RIGHT NOW SORRY I WON'T BE LONG :pray:

BlueBow_

25 Jul, 2025, 7:34 pm

@MollieLvsClaggor OK :thumbsup:

MollieLvsClaggor

25 Jul, 2025, 7:42 pm

IM BACK NOW HIIII HRUU

BlueBow_

25 Jul, 2025, 7:44 pm

@MollieLvsClaggor I'M ALR

MollieLvsClaggor

25 Jul, 2025, 7:44 pm

GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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