so, update- by Spoopy_Witch
im so sorry for how long ive been gone
I probably won't post much anymore but I'll definitely try and be on a bit more
mainly i wont be hre because I'm busy with life stuff such as;
stopping my perfectionism
starting to be more independent
thinking about what I want to do for a job (while i start on author stuff) so we know what collage/university for me to go too
and others
I'm so sorry, but I promise I'll try be around more often
love you all <3
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14 Jun, 2025, 3:23 pm
omg i missed youuu a lot
14 Jun, 2025, 4:25 pm
:thumbsup:
14 Jun, 2025, 5:01 pm
I fnd that perfectionism is something that works best when kept on a bridle, but not completely stopped.
It's good that a part of you wants everythint to be "perfect", but it's that you learn to keep it under your control, and not let it control you.
Embrace the desire to do better, and be better, without pushing it on yourself, or on others.
14 Jun, 2025, 10:32 pm
YO IDK IF U REMEBER ME (probs not) but im lolbit and cookie_minecraft1 :3 anyways...welcome back!! (grr am i late again?!?!????!??!?!?!?)
19 Jun, 2025, 3:39 pm
@_-Gubby-_
ofc I remember you, hi!!
19 Jun, 2025, 3:42 pm
@The_Adjudicator
I've never had a good mental head space (it got really bad once) and it still aint great
so now my perfectionism is worse because I beat myself up aboout it whenever I get something wrong
which is why I'm trying to get it under control..
20 Jun, 2025, 2:01 am
@Spoopy_Witch
I think maybe one large reason for that is we tend to compare ourselves to others. We think "if only I had so-and-so's hair" _or_ "such-and-such talent" _or_ other forms of self-degradation, and we tend to forget the things we can do/have, because of things we can't do/have. In many cases, these are things that we simply don't have yet, either because we're too young, or our life circumstances won't allow it.
20 Jun, 2025, 2:05 am
(Continued)
The trick is to convince yourself that you are good enough as you are, while having the quiet assursnce that you will still grow to be better. It required patience, but you'll someday discover more about yourself than you thought was ever there. But that discovery requires work and discipline.
Keep working at it. recognizing these things about yourself is strong evidence that you're moving in the right direction.
01 Jul, 2025, 3:34 pm
@The_Adjudicator
it will take time, but it wil get better, I'm sure
thanks :>