i think i.still have feelings for someone but i don't really know how to talk to my boyfriend about it <///3,, i feel like long distance relationships don't work for m
thats a difficult situation. /nbr i think, its normal to have feelings for someone even if you're in a relationship. but its not good to act on it, or cheat. i cant give much advice, as i've never been in this situation. however, i think you should open up to your bf about it, it's not good to just keep that bottled up. and if the long distance relationship isnt working, also talk about that. but keep it civil, calm. i dont want anyone's feelings to be hurt or anything. :<
i hope that, if you talk about it, everything gets solved in the end n stuff. and dont feel bad about the feelings, either. like i said, it's perfectly normal. you cant just control who you're attracted to, after all.
@kyle-the-cat yeahh i really dont,want to upset him :disappointed: i haven't really gotten the time or courage to talk to him abt it because he's either offline or not in a great mood. i would never cheat on him because in any context it's wrong imo,, i feel at times like me and him would be better off as friends or that we should focus more on our friendship thank you for letting me talk about this though???? ive been overthinking this recently
you're welcome! ^^ and you dont have to talk about it now, do it at the time you feel most comfortable with. but dont hold it off for too long, either.
@kyle-the-cat yeah, i'll try to say something to him soon. i'm just kinda worried about his reaction nd stuff because i know he hasn't been the greatest mentally... i'm really hoping he'll be okay, but, realistically, i just don't know how things would turn out
i'm not sure how he'll react either. realistically, it might be bad. but talk about it calmly, and dont be too rude. if needed, take breaks from the conversation.
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11 Jun, 2025, 1:32 am
evrything ok?
im here if you need to talk /nf
11 Jun, 2025, 1:37 am
@kyle-the-cat thank you kyle <3/gen+p
i think i.still have feelings for someone but i don't really know how to talk to my boyfriend about it <///3,, i feel like long distance relationships don't work for m
11 Jun, 2025, 1:43 am
thats a difficult situation. /nbr
i think, its normal to have feelings for someone even if you're in a relationship. but its not good to act on it, or cheat.
i cant give much advice, as i've never been in this situation. however, i think you should open up to your bf about it, it's not good to just keep that bottled up.
and if the long distance relationship isnt working, also talk about that. but keep it civil, calm. i dont want anyone's feelings to be hurt or anything. :<
11 Jun, 2025, 1:44 am
i hope that, if you talk about it, everything gets solved in the end n stuff.
and dont feel bad about the feelings, either. like i said, it's perfectly normal. you cant just control who you're attracted to, after all.
11 Jun, 2025, 1:48 am
@kyle-the-cat yeahh i really dont,want to upset him :disappointed: i haven't really gotten the time or courage to talk to him abt it because he's either offline or not in a great mood. i would never cheat on him because in any context it's wrong imo,,
i feel at times like me and him would be better off as friends or that we should focus more on our friendship
thank you for letting me talk about this though???? ive been overthinking this recently
11 Jun, 2025, 1:48 am
i'll try and find an opportunity to talk to him about it ig,,
11 Jun, 2025, 1:50 am
you're welcome! ^^
and you dont have to talk about it now, do it at the time you feel most comfortable with. but dont hold it off for too long, either.
11 Jun, 2025, 1:53 am
@kyle-the-cat yeah, i'll try to say something to him soon. i'm just kinda worried about his reaction nd stuff because i know he hasn't been the greatest mentally... i'm really hoping he'll be okay, but, realistically, i just don't know how things would turn out
11 Jun, 2025, 2:02 am
i'm not sure how he'll react either. realistically, it might be bad. but talk about it calmly, and dont be too rude. if needed, take breaks from the conversation.
11 Jun, 2025, 2:02 am
good luck with everything. /gen
11 Jun, 2025, 2:03 am
@kyle-the-cat okqy i'll try to remember and do that when i do talk to him,,
thank ypu kyle i truly appreciate you letting me talk about this /gen
11 Jun, 2025, 2:04 am
thank yu
11 Jun, 2025, 2:08 am
you're welcome. im so glad i could help. <3 /p
11 Jun, 2025, 2:26 am
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