I wanna apologize this.. by Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

Using the wrong pronouns for ppl or characters

I'm sorry for doing this my stupid brain for some reason expects half the people to be the wrong gender. It takes me a while to get pronouns correct.
I ESPECIALLY struggle with nonbinary

So I'm really sorry if I misgender you.

I've gotten some hate for this..

so I'm sorry

:')

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06 Jun, 2025, 1:19 am
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Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

06 Jun, 2025, 1:20 am

am dumb :angel:

Alex_034

06 Jun, 2025, 1:23 am

im dumb too but it's okay!! :nail_care: :sparkles:

H0W-TH3-ST4RS-SH1N3

06 Jun, 2025, 1:30 am

happens to me quite alot, so you're okay!

nonvluna

06 Jun, 2025, 1:44 am

meh its fine happens to me so much mainly bc i haven't come out to my family yet lol its not a big deal anyways

Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

06 Jun, 2025, 1:52 am

@Alex_034 yay twins :angel:

Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

06 Jun, 2025, 1:53 am

@H0W-TH3-ST4RS-SH1N3 I'm glad it's not just me :sob:

Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

06 Jun, 2025, 1:53 am

@nonvluna your like the one nobinary person whose pronouns i have right

Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

06 Jun, 2025, 1:53 am

you're*

nonvluna

06 Jun, 2025, 1:54 am

@Meowy_a_Meowdracorn
lol yipppeee

Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

06 Jun, 2025, 1:55 am

@nonvluna I'll still mess them up somehow :pensive:

drawing_-gentlemen

06 Jun, 2025, 1:56 am

IM IDAHO!!

Alex_034

06 Jun, 2025, 1:56 am

slayyy twinsies!!

nonvluna

06 Jun, 2025, 1:58 am

LOL

nonvluna

06 Jun, 2025, 1:58 am

rippppp

Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

06 Jun, 2025, 2:01 am

@nonvluna :pensive:

nonvluna

06 Jun, 2025, 2:04 am

@Meowy_a_Meowdracorn
:disappointed:

The_Adjudicator

06 Jun, 2025, 2:40 am

At the risk of getting a bit of hate thrown my way, I'm just gong to say it out straight. You did nothing wrong.

If something isn't immediately obvious, you shouldn't be blamed for being unsure, or making an educated guess.
Or, to put it more simply, you are not at fault for not knowing someone else who doesn't even know who they are.

When you know who you are, you don't need to have someone else validate you, or correctly identify you. You are still you, regardless of what others may think.

Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

06 Jun, 2025, 2:47 am

@The_Adjudicator Thanks
I just want to say
You are a very wise person and I really enjoy reading what you have to say as most of the time I agree with it :)

THAT_SCRAPS-v-

06 Jun, 2025, 6:49 am

immso bad at it i just type theyre entire username :skull: :sob:

Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

06 Jun, 2025, 1:03 pm

@THAT_SCRAPS-v- LOL :sob:

Meowy_a_Meowdracorn

06 Jun, 2025, 1:03 pm

@THAT_SCRAPS-v- thats so smart tho

The_Adjudicator

06 Jun, 2025, 1:10 pm

@THAT_SCRAPS-v-
Same here. I usually prefer to avoid using pronouns altogether for that reason. It used to be something that didn't really matter much to most people, or it was made obvious for the most part, but now it feels like we've forgotten who we are, and need to have our identities validated bck to us.
@Meowy_a_Meowdracorn
Maybe I'm a bit stuck in the old ways, but there is logic and reason behind some of the things that worked so well in the past. No need to fix something not broken.

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