I don't rly like to vent, but i just h4t3 how whenever one of my friends vents, i just rly want to help them out and comfort them, but i just can't think up anything good at all, so i usually just don't comment, and it always gets to me later on and i feel like they might think i don't care abt them or something and ofc that's not true, but yeah. i suck at comforting ppl. sometimes I'll also say smth like "you ok? need to talk or smth?" or smth stupid like that.
idk.
i just want to help.
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03 Jun, 2025, 5:33 am
1, yummy art, 2, wwanna talk abt it?
- #eridan
03 Jun, 2025, 6:10 am
@Davesprite2-birdboy- 1. ty 2. sure ig.
I've always been kinda cowardly when it comes to drama, and i always run away from problems, altercations, etc.
and i think that affects/affected my ableness to help ppl in some way or another somehow.
i see a vent in the gallery, and i rly, REALLY want to help them, cause yk, They're my friends, but i just am not good with sympathy and empathy, i think? I'm rly bad at putting myself in other's shoes and i just can't think up anything good to help them.
03 Jun, 2025, 6:10 am
cont
03 Jun, 2025, 6:15 am
if it were real life I'd honestly give them a flower, ngl. i give flowers a lot when idk what i should say, or if i just find a flower. They're better at talking then me.
it feels like I'm in a cage watching my friends be down in the dumps. a cage so soundproof that i can't tell them i care, and i want to help. i just can't though.
ig that's what i want to say...
03 Jun, 2025, 6:20 am
Same here tbh-
My way of comforting friends are always the same.
Well, because i didn't experience a childhood (meh, not a vent- :sob:) i always act childish.
Example:
Rando ahh fake friend irl: "*yapping lol* I just rlly miss him.."
Me: "*usual comforting*"
My goddàmn mind: 'AUGH- MAN- CHICKEN NUGGETZ-'
I can literally never take anything seriously-
03 Jun, 2025, 6:22 am
it sucks. Socialization's a ***** sometimes, and the human brain gets confusing as a wwhole. And though its hard sometimes, a lack of being able to express sympathy and empathy is something i feel ppl need to get the heII ovver.
03 Jun, 2025, 6:23 am
@-CosmoC4t- fr, i just can't be serious sometimes, maybe that has a part in my problem too :0
03 Jun, 2025, 6:24 am
@Davesprite2-birdboy- yeah, get over it humanity! I've been shamed at my house for 'not feeling emotion'
03 Jun, 2025, 6:25 am
i had no socialization as a kid, and barely any now.
03 Jun, 2025, 6:31 am
@_-Foxy-Lily-_
my problems involve shxtty parents, me heh... (:sparkles:OfC:sparkles:), fake friends, etc lol ^^
03 Jun, 2025, 6:35 am
@-CosmoC4t- i don't have any irl or online fake friends, so yesh-
but everything else is too real :disappointed:
03 Jun, 2025, 6:38 am
@_-Foxy-Lily-_
*dRaMaTiC sNiFf* (help-)
03 Jun, 2025, 6:45 am
@-CosmoC4t- everytime you write sniff
i don't read it like the crying sniff
i read it like the smelling sniff :innocent:
03 Jun, 2025, 6:46 am
@_-Foxy-Lily-_
...
(bxtch- :innocent:)
03 Jun, 2025, 6:50 am
@-CosmoC4t- MUHEHEHE
03 Jun, 2025, 6:52 am
@_-Foxy-Lily-_
*casually removes from The Xesco ^^*
03 Jun, 2025, 6:55 am
Yes! Society is full of ovvergrowwn grubs!
(homestuck troll terms pardon)
03 Jun, 2025, 7:07 am
@Davesprite2-birdboy- yesh overgrown grubs-
03 Jun, 2025, 7:12 am
i get that 2
cod, u want to support them, but u dont want to overstep boundarys
sometimes i can relate to them, but i dont want to say, as to me, it makes me feel Like im making it bout myself
03 Jun, 2025, 7:26 am
@BrightheartXmisty eh, i don't rly feel like I'm stepping over boundaries, more like i just don't know what to say.
03 Jun, 2025, 9:01 am
ok off topic but srry for saying i didn't like you a couple weeks ago i gen think i have some personality disorder ... or i was just tryna be tuff :broken_heart: :wilted_flower:
03 Jun, 2025, 4:14 pm
@channyloverslover well ur already forgiven bc i don't even remember that happening :,)
03 Jun, 2025, 4:15 pm
when i like said i dont like you bc u bring down other Christians jsjjs sorry i didn't mean that
03 Jun, 2025, 4:16 pm
I commented this on yr other acc but your not rly online on that lol but I'm rly Sorry 4 disappearing I'll explain in a post!
03 Jun, 2025, 4:22 pm
@channyloverslover ohhh that-
yesh its alr, ur good :3
03 Jun, 2025, 4:23 pm
@THAT_SCRAPS-v- OH MY GOSH I THOUGHT I'D NEVER SEE YOU AGAIN!!!!!!
04 Jun, 2025, 5:28 pm
same, dw abt it
ur an amazing fren, and the venter knows that deep down, whoever it is :3
04 Jun, 2025, 6:07 pm
@-B0RD3RS- ur too nice TvT tysm for that :...3333
05 Jun, 2025, 2:30 am
ikwym :( dw, tho, cause you've been very helpful when you comment under my vents <3
05 Jun, 2025, 3:48 am
@CroftersLover have i? tysm... :3
05 Jun, 2025, 5:49 am
omg u r so much help
i mean whenever im on here just talking to u makes me feel better
@THAT_SCRAPS-v- OH MY GOSH WHERE DID U GO
I THLUGHT U WERE NEVER COMING BACK
05 Jun, 2025, 5:52 am
@bumblebee54 glad i helped :3
05 Jun, 2025, 5:54 am
:)
05 Jun, 2025, 5:55 am
ur just such a good friend and i hope u know it
also can i tag u something cus im a bit confused
05 Jun, 2025, 6:06 am
@bumblebee54 sure you can tag me :3
05 Jun, 2025, 6:21 am
ok