okay start doing little things before you know you are going to want to cut. ex: when i start to get upset ill cut off all my nail so i cant rip/dig into at my skin
its hard. i never cut but i did have Dermatillomania ill say a prayer best is to look forward to healing its small but it helps dont give up :) u got this <3
@ry_r4t had a good point with drawing draw thing that make u happy incouraging things too :3 even writing something "dont forget you quitting this okay :)" or reasons why you want to quit sometime its like a trance writing reminder can help u remember why your quitting :) help you to snap out of the urge
personally, when i cut im more angry than sad so what i do is i keep a pillow and a knife and i stab the pillow repeatedly untili feel better or i rip paper or throw non-breakable items against the walls
i'm so sorry about what ever happened, i cutted myself too and sometimes i still want to. sh'it that's frustrating. life sometimes isn't ''very happy'' but remember that you are so important for me, the friends here are the only real friends that i have so please d it for me ok? i don't like seeing people feel bad
here were my ways when it got bad -music (full blast) -red pen/marker -holding an ice cube in your hand -reading -braiding someones hair -hugging a stuffed animal as hard as you can -calling a friend -yoga? (idk either) -long walks -try and learn something new -draw -cut paper instead -organize your room -start a new show -watching the sunset or the moon -write a poem -try a new hobby
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25 Mar, 2025, 3:43 am
Hide anything sharp around you.
25 Mar, 2025, 3:44 am
Yes, also try not to think about doing it as much.
25 Mar, 2025, 3:44 am
And uh just... Yes, just talk to someone about it.
25 Mar, 2025, 3:45 am
Throw away anything sharp
25 Mar, 2025, 3:45 am
Im using 20% of my brain power cause I am preserving my power but ill add 20% more.
25 Mar, 2025, 3:45 am
and talk to a ********* or smth
25 Mar, 2025, 3:46 am
@AbbyTh3UglyW31rd0 Smart.
25 Mar, 2025, 3:46 am
thérapīst
25 Mar, 2025, 3:46 am
@ConceptArtist ty
25 Mar, 2025, 3:46 am
I hope you overcome this habit!
25 Mar, 2025, 3:46 am
@AbbyTh3UglyW31rd0 Your welcome.
25 Mar, 2025, 3:46 am
@AbbyTh3UglyW31rd0 my parents dont know so i can't go to therápy
25 Mar, 2025, 3:47 am
draw on urself with marker or use an elastic band on ur rist and snap it against ur rist
25 Mar, 2025, 3:47 am
okay start doing little things before you know you are going to want to cut.
ex: when i start to get upset ill cut off all my nail so i cant rip/dig into at my skin
25 Mar, 2025, 3:47 am
its hard. i never cut but i did have Dermatillomania ill say a prayer best is to look forward to healing its small but it helps dont give up :) u got this <3
25 Mar, 2025, 3:47 am
@Character-Login7 try telling them even if they get mad
25 Mar, 2025, 3:48 am
i do it all the time i am now 5 days clean
25 Mar, 2025, 3:49 am
@ry_r4t Why didnt I think of that, amazing <--
25 Mar, 2025, 3:49 am
it helps
25 Mar, 2025, 3:50 am
@zoni_lilly That is also a good option.
25 Mar, 2025, 3:50 am
ye
25 Mar, 2025, 3:51 am
You see, we all care about you.
25 Mar, 2025, 3:55 am
@ry_r4t Yes, we are all caught up in life.
25 Mar, 2025, 3:56 am
whatever....
25 Mar, 2025, 3:57 am
@ry_r4t?
25 Mar, 2025, 3:57 am
im sry for my pointless info
25 Mar, 2025, 3:57 am
if u feel like cuting softly trace your finger(s) across your skinand take deep breaths
25 Mar, 2025, 3:57 am
@ry_r4t had a good point with drawing draw thing that make u happy incouraging things too :3 even writing something "dont forget you quitting this okay :)" or reasons why you want to quit sometime its like a trance writing reminder can help u remember why your quitting :) help you to snap out of the urge
25 Mar, 2025, 3:59 am
@ry_r4t Its not pointless.
25 Mar, 2025, 4:00 am
yup
25 Mar, 2025, 4:00 am
I go now.
25 Mar, 2025, 4:05 am
bye
25 Mar, 2025, 4:06 am
Bye @ry_r4t!
25 Mar, 2025, 4:06 am
bye
25 Mar, 2025, 4:34 am
i used to struggle with that as well. I came over it by just not only stopping but also thinking positive thoughts as well @Character-Login7
25 Mar, 2025, 4:45 am
Treat your self (ex. don't cut for a week and go to the movies)
25 Mar, 2025, 4:47 am
There are sites online to look into that can teach you many ways to handle this type of distress. @Character-Login7
25 Mar, 2025, 6:04 am
i get a rubber band and slap it against my arm when i have the urge, hope this helps
25 Mar, 2025, 6:38 am
>> if its cold enough wear long sleeve/gloves + jacket/hoodie so the sleeves are tedious to try and remove
25 Mar, 2025, 6:38 am
>> or wear a lot of bracelets
25 Mar, 2025, 4:41 pm
personally, when i cut im more angry than sad so what i do is i keep a pillow and a knife and i stab the pillow repeatedly untili feel better or i rip paper or throw non-breakable items against the walls
25 Mar, 2025, 6:10 pm
use fingernails instead
25 Mar, 2025, 9:16 pm
Try painting on your legs or use markers
27 Mar, 2025, 10:49 pm
Use fidgets..?
27 Mar, 2025, 10:50 pm
(Maybe??) :'D
28 Mar, 2025, 8:32 pm
brother sorry i didn't notice this paint
i'm so sorry about what ever happened, i cutted myself too and sometimes i still want to. sh'it that's frustrating. life sometimes isn't ''very happy'' but remember that you are so important for me, the friends here are the only real friends that i have so please d it for me ok? i don't like seeing people feel bad
29 Mar, 2025, 7:48 pm
are you okay...? you never vent so i just supposed you were....idk...happy?
30 Mar, 2025, 7:08 pm
@IAmSodax uhhh i wasnt ok then bc family stuff but im doing better now in this moment :3 thx for asking btw
30 Mar, 2025, 9:06 pm
well i hope ur recovering, please know you're loved by people and that you have a future near you
13 Apr, 2025, 8:17 am
here were my ways when it got bad
-music (full blast)
-red pen/marker
-holding an ice cube in your hand
-reading
-braiding someones hair
-hugging a stuffed animal as hard as you can
-calling a friend
-yoga? (idk either)
-long walks
-try and learn something new
-draw
-cut paper instead
-organize your room
-start a new show
-watching the sunset or the moon
-write a poem
-try a new hobby
hope this helps :grin:
27 Apr, 2025, 12:18 am
Try hiding it somewhere you wont find it or maybe out the window please get better ( i think im way to late commenting this :| )