i am starting to think about what it would be like to try to be cheerful, happy, make jokes all the time. because honestly im very insicure and i just want to feel happy, & i think if i act happy a lot, then eventually i will feel better & i won't be as insicure as i am now. but i also worry that ppl may get the wrong idea, especially my family & friends, & they might think that im depressed when in reality im just trying to be happy and even though i might not currently be happy, i will one day
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20 Mar, 2025, 12:59 am
it will get better i promise
20 Mar, 2025, 12:59 am
*hugs u and starts to cry in ur arms* i need adviceeeeee! :(((
20 Mar, 2025, 1:01 am
idrk coz im also struggling but all i can say is one day youll know
20 Mar, 2025, 1:03 am
@ry_r4t Thank u for the support! :,)
20 Mar, 2025, 1:06 am
yw sry it was not much
20 Mar, 2025, 1:08 am
this is what i tend to do. im hurting inside but i push it down for others.
my parents have no idea im struggling :>
But anyways- in some ways it does help,but it gets tiring being "happy" all the time and trying to help everyone,means more stuff gets pushed on you and your holding all that weight.
but in some ways im a little happier then a year ago.
20 Mar, 2025, 1:08 am
@ry_r4t at least u gave me support! its better then none! :)
20 Mar, 2025, 1:09 am
@SunLight00000025 oh im sorry that you had/have to gp through that. i just really dont know if it will be good or bad untill try it...
20 Mar, 2025, 1:09 am
*go
20 Mar, 2025, 1:11 am
its alright ^ ^
yeah just gotta see what happens :3
if u do try it i hope u are alot happier! :sparkles:
20 Mar, 2025, 1:11 am
@SunLight00000025 okay! btw i follow u :3
20 Mar, 2025, 1:12 am
aw ty!! :sparkles:
20 Mar, 2025, 1:13 am
:,3 im still a lil worried
20 Mar, 2025, 1:14 am
@SunLight00000025 u should always put urself first and make sure ur ok before looking after someone else ur important too
20 Mar, 2025, 1:16 am
@ry_r4t eh.. im trying..ig..
everyones going through worse then me so theyre problems are more important. and this world needs happy souls to help everyone. :sparkles: :thumbsup:
20 Mar, 2025, 1:17 am
same i get u
20 Mar, 2025, 1:18 am
but i always try to be kind to myself first
20 Mar, 2025, 1:28 am
@JustAHuman heres ur tag!
20 Mar, 2025, 1:30 am
thanks just a min!
20 Mar, 2025, 1:37 am
as a fellow therapy friend i put people above myself. i want you to know that you arent alone in this. i'm going through a similar thing but im not going to say we're the same because every single person goes through different stuff, i want you to have a self care day. take a nice shower or bath and maybe start journaling? it helped me take a few steps out of depprision (not saying you're deppresed) but it could help. in the self care day i'd reccomend: nice bath/shower
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20 Mar, 2025, 1:37 am
@ry_r4t not rlly time for that rn XD
glad im not the only 1
20 Mar, 2025, 1:40 am
a snackie,+
a movie,+
a blanket
and although it might be hard, try telling friends or trusted family how you feel! i want you to know people love you and i bet you when you're out in public someone thinks ''they look a nice person'' i can almost bet you that! you arent alone, even if it seems like it.
20 Mar, 2025, 1:47 am
@JustAHuman thank you so much, i will look foward to try to make a day for my mental health as soon as possible. this has helped me a lot. :)
20 Mar, 2025, 1:50 am
@JustAHuman @SunLight00000025 @ry_r4t gn yall, and thank you for all the support and advice! <3
20 Mar, 2025, 1:51 am
mhm ofc! have a good sleep!
20 Mar, 2025, 1:52 am
@SunLight00000025 u too!
20 Mar, 2025, 1:53 am
@M0NST3R_EN3RGY thank you for the hug! :3
20 Mar, 2025, 1:58 am
@Lora-galaxy gn! no problem!
20 Mar, 2025, 6:50 am
hey i know wat will make you feel better... i followed you back AND you're invited to come to zen's wedding :) !
20 Mar, 2025, 11:05 am
@ryugl YAAAAAAAAAY!!! thank u!!!
09 Apr, 2025, 12:19 am
hey lora I am a bit woried abt you have not been online :(
09 Apr, 2025, 12:19 am
for days
27 Apr, 2025, 1:18 pm
@ry_r4t im sorry about that. sometimes my brain makes me leave for a long time cuz i have no motovation. :(