call out post on @/-Thoe- by DameDame

so i got this ex right? his name is actually connor. ik his full name ight. so let me tell u what he has done to multiple people, including myself. so he has faked his death so many times and then randomly comes back. he has lied abt his age as well. mk so look, i tried to leave him bc he was cheating on me. so i left, i came back bc he kept saying he was gonna khs so yea. i dated him once again, he was still cheating on me. he was using multiple different accs to cheat on me bc i wasnt poly-

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DameDame

03 Mar, 2025, 11:23 pm

dont comment yet

DameDame

03 Mar, 2025, 11:26 pm

he was using those accs to act like different people and kept telling people when they we're abt to break up with him, he was gonna khs. like he did to me. so today, actually, i hasnt heard from him since November 11th. abt 5 months. he was texting me abt how he changed and he sorry? like dude. i thought u were fücking dead?!(well not fr) also while we were dating he kept gaslighting me into thinking he wasnt cheating so i wouldnt leave him. tbh there's more but i dont remember it all. so anyway

DameDame

03 Mar, 2025, 11:26 pm

can u help me explain this post more? @Murder_Goose

Murder_Goose

03 Mar, 2025, 11:27 pm

yes I can

Murder_Goose

03 Mar, 2025, 11:27 pm

OG members of colors, I'm sure you all remember the connor drama

Murder_Goose

03 Mar, 2025, 11:28 pm

Connor aka @/-Thoe- has been causing more chaos under this alias that is supposedly his middle name. Pls remember guys he is 10!!!

DameDame

03 Mar, 2025, 11:29 pm

and he told me he was 15 just to date me.

Murder_Goose

03 Mar, 2025, 11:30 pm

He has cheated on multiple people using fake accs and threatening to khs ect. Not only is he trying to make 'amends' he is trying to guilt trip me and others into feeling sorry and make US feel like WE are the problem

Murder_Goose

03 Mar, 2025, 11:31 pm

If you do happen to find his acc you can look at the bottom posts and find EVIDENCE that he has done this multiple times

DameDame

03 Mar, 2025, 11:32 pm

exactly! he oftens push aside important matters as well. like when people put boundries on thekr relationship with him.

Murder_Goose

03 Mar, 2025, 11:33 pm

yes I have one specific post that shows that clearly

Murder_Goose

03 Mar, 2025, 11:34 pm

It is constant and it needs to stop NOW!

Murder_Goose

03 Mar, 2025, 11:35 pm

Im done. Anyone who comments i will take in the post with @/nutty_oaks so they can see all the evidence together

DameDame

03 Mar, 2025, 11:59 pm

for any1 who sees this, tag as much people as u can!!

Nutty_Oaks

04 Mar, 2025, 3:18 am

Oh god...
Jeezus, I come back for a minute, and all I see is he said
"sorry" under one of my posts :skull:

He tried dating me a few times and got really weird in the past.

Honestly, blocking seems like the right call. Faking a death, cheating, and lying about your age? Yeah, I can see why people are so upset rn. Ya'll deserve to be angry. Doesn't matter if he's 10, he should know better than this

DameDame

04 Mar, 2025, 3:33 am

EXACTLY. he literally liked me on the first day, we met. PLUS he only lied abt his age to date people(including myself) like bro ik it aint my fault, but i feel like a predator bc like ima b 16 next month, april 1st. and dude was 10 :skull: LIKEEE WHATTT also he was just really manipulative during our relationship anyway. he kept telling me he wasnt cheating(gaslighting tf out of me) and dude actdently texted from 1 of his alts he was using to cheat on me. b smarter bro. @Nutty_Oaks

also hiiii

DameDame

04 Mar, 2025, 3:34 am

i love ur art!!! i been wanting to say that 4 a while but i get nervous and shi

Nutty_Oaks

04 Mar, 2025, 5:15 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Bro was dumb as fck, lmao-

Also, thinking about it, I feel so gross about it. I just turned 18, and he asked a couple months back. Now knowing he is 10, I'm so glad I found out this info.

Hopefully your feeling better though, that sht does not sound easy to go through..

Also, Hello! Happy early birthday!! ^w^

Nutty_Oaks

04 Mar, 2025, 5:15 am

Lol naw, I get that. Thank you though, I'm glad you enjoy it ^^

DameDame

04 Mar, 2025, 11:40 am

awhhh thank u :D

its fine tho. shi happens, yk? life is life! plus i can def find some1 better than him especially bc i dont do online dating no mo bc bro i aint being lied to again sooo i aint doing that shi.

also np!! i like ur artstyle a ton for some reason!! also i used to watch A TONNNNN of happy tree family as a little kid :D @Nutty_Oaks

chat it was fire

DameDame

04 Mar, 2025, 11:44 am

also it aint really our fault, yk? we didnt know his actual age, yk? even so, connor was just a person begging for people to date him, plus he was weird asf with the questions he was asking me :skull: BROOO I CANT EVEN REMEMBER THE SHI HE ASKED ME. ALL IK IS THAT IT WAS WEIRD AF

also thank u :D

i sadly gotta post my old sona bc i made that drawing back in January :sob: @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

04 Mar, 2025, 4:46 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Good for you! You deserve someone that shouldn't be tricking you, that just ain't cool of em.

And I know life is life, but I'm sure the time and place made things uncomfy. You got mad and disappointed, don't down play your emotions, okay?

This is a serious madder, and I'm glad you made a call out post, it helped a lot I'm sure :yellow_heart:

Lol thank you! I just grab art styles from random people and call it a day :sweat_smile:

Bro, HTF is fire though!! :fire: :fire:

Nutty_Oaks

04 Mar, 2025, 4:51 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
The only person to blame is him.
I have a friend, who of recently, been outed by a minor, because they lied about their age, and now was harrassing him, because the minor couldn't have just said they were underaged and backed off :skull:

You aren't at fault. At all. Okay? Conner is a dck, no matter how old he is. He violated so many things, it's not funny.

I'm glad we are handling this now, so thank you for speaking up, I know that can be hard sometimes :yellow_heart:

Nutty_Oaks

04 Mar, 2025, 4:55 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Yeaaahh... He said a lot of weird sht too. He asked me to draw a bunch of sht, to date me, several times, and asked me, several times that night, if I could be his dad :skull:

Like.. Last year, I've just been dealing with shtty person after shtty person. He wasn't as bad, but dear god he was weird as fck. I feel so gross about him rn.

Nutty_Oaks

04 Mar, 2025, 4:56 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Lol I feel that. Are you re-vamping them up, or just repostin'? Your sona looks awesome btw, love it ^^

DameDame

04 Mar, 2025, 8:22 pm

thankk uuuu :D @Nutty_Oaks

also yea i remade my sona recently and i didnt think i was finna change my sona later on after i drew my lil b-day drawing but i did so yuh.

also i agree he was very weird and it made me so fücking uncomfortable around him. also im not trynna down play my emotions or nothing, its just like idk sometimes i dont wanna talk abt things or im over it. i only made a call out post bc i heard of the things that happened with others while they were with him, so i wanted peopl

DameDame

04 Mar, 2025, 8:25 pm

people to know abt the type of person he is. bc honestly no1 should b around that type of person, it can destory u mentally. and he honestly made me so depressed. bc he used to push my feeling aside when i talked to him abt how i felt when he kept being dry and the fact that he wouldnt really say ily u back, he would go, ty? like who says ty to ily? like whatttt, also thats weird to ask some1 to b ur dad, i mean u can have parental figures and shi but asking some1 to b ur dad? also he told me-

DameDame

04 Mar, 2025, 8:28 pm

he told me that he wouldnt b dating me if their ex didnt off themselves...yeahhh, i didnt like that at all. bc u arent supposed to tell that to ur "boyfriend" :skull: it will make them feel shiťty. also thank u for the compliment!!! i like urs too!!! ur actually my inspiration for some of my art too :D, its gone now, but i been wanting to draw my fav character from happy, but im not good at animal things or things like that @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 12:36 am

...thats not funny. i didnt know. dont joke abt that. @Ex0tic_BUtters

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 12:47 am

yea but that isnt an excuse for your actions but anyway dont joke abt that bc i was being lied to and used. it was not my fault. he manipulated me into dating him bc he literally would beg me to fūcking date him so anyway. just dont joke abt it. bc i dont find it funny. and im sorry 4 being rude but please dont make jokes like that. @Ex0tic_BUtters

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 1:52 am

Btw, uhm... Ex0tic_BUtters has no excuse for that joke. Like you said, it's no excuse. Manipulation can happen, it's not something you can see or control (I should know, I've been and seen those situations..)

Even then, just cause you didn't take your meds or have no friends, serve you no right. It's highly rude
You are not at fault, okay? I just want to make that clear. If I could hug you, I would, and tell it over and over :yellow_heart:
You deserved better

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 1:58 am

BRO ME TOO

bc i really wanna find a guy that wont use me yk?

(i dont date women anymore bc they cheated a ton and used me. same with the first guy i dated which is what this call out post is abt) @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 1:59 am

bud, im traumatized too thats the only reason y im good at it. bc idk if i been in that situation b4, ik what to say, yk?

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:00 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
HES SO BAD AT COMMUNICATING I CAAANNTTT!!! :sob:
I tried confronting him once (I was pssed cause he was being annoying) AND HE SEEMED LIKE A BRICK WALL. Bro can't confront for sht :skull:

And I'm sorry, my memory is horrible, so no... :sweat_smile:

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:00 am

i also dont mind venting but doing it without asking is something i dont like bc what if im currently dealing with something else at the moment and i cant handle anymore stress, yk? also i love yapping :D

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:02 am

BRO IS A BRICK WALLLL

I ALWAYS ASKED HIM WHAT HE DID THAT DAY OR HOW HE WAS TO START UP A CONVO AND HE WOULD GO "idk" and stop texting me :sob: @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:02 am

u cool btw

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:03 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Naw I could tell. I figured I needed to say something. I have a friend, like I said, who has been going through some similar sht.
It's hard, and I can understand not being mentally okay. No one expects you to be, and you shouldn't pretend. If they wanted to vent, they can do it somewhere else, or at least try to relate to the situation, not that

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:04 am

yeaaaa. but if i dont offer to listen to u or u dont ask, then dont randomly vent to me. @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:05 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Oh okay! Thats really cool to have a dream like that so young! I hope you ace it. It's gonna be tricky, like any other profession, so I pray (I'm an athiest too, lol) that you get that dream job ^^

kevinhartlaugh96

05 Mar, 2025, 2:06 am

wait is teddy active again or am i not understanding lol?? :sob: that bih tried dating m on multiple accounts

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:07 am

me too honestly, i got 2 more years to prepare for college!! i am not prepare for 11 grade, i got a.c.t :sob: @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:07 am

yea he is @maladroit_

i sadly did date him :sob:

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:08 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Never dated before, but same. I don't blame ya for the Lady part, though. Like, that amount of times I've been traumatized isn't fun. And I can't even imagine what it must have been like to be in a relationship :skull:

It's important to set up a boundry, and I'm so happy you're able to do that. If people say it's stupid, block em. They just don't get it at that point

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:08 am

Naw, same though, I feel that lol XP

kevinhartlaugh96

05 Mar, 2025, 2:09 am

rahh i guess i should start stalking him again :worried:
did he make a different account or smn,,??

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:10 am

yea i block all the toxic bc like whatttt. i got enough ptsd and trauma as it is @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:10 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Naw cause fr though! I can understand if something big happened, and you need to vent, but if it's about your day to day life, or unrelated to the topic, go speak to someone else or wait. Don't start spewing bullsht unless you KNOW it's okay (wether verbally or conversation goes to that direction)

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:11 am

diff acc, but hes saying it aint him, even tho they act and type the same way. im not getting involved with him, it wasjust a awareness post @maladroit_

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:11 am

@Nutty_Oaks

LITERALLY!!!

kevinhartlaugh96

05 Mar, 2025, 2:11 am

oh alr

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:13 am

yea @maladroit_

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:14 am

I love yapping too, it's so much fun ^^

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:15 am

HE TOTALLY DID THAT!!! I would try to talk, he wouldn't say anything, then sent emojis, then asked why I didn't send anymore.

The caucasity of this btch :face_palm:

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:16 am

yap yap!! w words @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:16 am

Lol thanks, you're pretty chill as well :sunglasses:

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:17 am

literally. he asked y i wanted to break up with him after i sent 3 to 5 paragraphs of y i didnt wanna b with him @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:17 am

I feel that though. Like, it's not that hard to read the room a little. Unless your really close, please don't 0_0

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:18 am

:0 THANK U, i appreciation it dawg! @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:18 am

EXACTLY!!! @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:19 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Damn. Hopefully you pass! I've never gone to any school, so I dunno what that is...

I'm hoping to do some collage work as well after joining the Military. Gonna try and be a nurse :sparkles:
(traviling one too, maybe)

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:20 am

Fr though, that trauma an sht be too much to deal with people's whiny a3se3 :pensive: :nail_care:

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:21 am

I HOPE U GET THAT DAWGGG

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:21 am

literally lol @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:21 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Bro dence asf :skull:
Couse, he is a ten year old, apparently, they can't be a decent human being or understand jack sht!

I coulda understood by the first one istg :pensive:

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:22 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Me too! It's gonna be a bit of a journy, but I hope to achieve it... and earn some good cash to live 0-0
(I was such a slow typer, sorry :sob:)

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:25 am

nah u cool dw!! i have to delete things anyway bc well people wanna read the call out post anyway lol.
also if u need help lik researching, i got u!! @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:28 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Lol they don't need to do that XD
I get it though, just to keep em aware, and thats important :sparkles:

And I'm good! I appreciate it though. But! As a new adult, I gotta be adulty, and research my own things!!
*ADHD screaming in horror in the background*

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:31 am

REALLL I HATE MY ADHD AND ITS SO BAD :sob: im failing geometry bc of it!! starting Algerbra 2 next year, im cookedddd @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:34 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Naawww, you officially burnt :skull:

ADHD ******************!!!! I have a low GPA, and I wanna fix it, but my stupid brain is like "HaHa, Instagram" :skull:

I wish you the best of luck, fellow soilder of illness

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:34 am

sucks*

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:37 am

it does, and i might b autistic, as well bc almost all of my autistic friends literally call me autistic, and they mean it :skull: and i act super special with texture and i hate changes to my shedulces. that y 1 of friends think im autistic. but idk tbh, ima get my self checked out when im 18 sooo @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:38 am

im def burnt btw, im super depressed rn :sob: bc of my damn school. bro we're 4 milli in fücking debt @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:41 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Lol maybe. I did a LOT of self research to see if I even have ASD (considering everyone besides my dad and I had ASD). To my conclusion, I don't. But! It's always good to research. Try doing research, online testing (I think the more official Autism test thingy is called RAADS test or whatever), seeing how other people are...

If you tend to relate, or see yourself more, then yeah, try to look into it, otherwise, I wouldn't worry ^^

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:43 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
FOUR MILL??
Dude, might as well set the school on fire, it's cheeper then this sht :sob:
I hope you still do alright despite depression and burn out, thats gotta be tough :pensive:

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:47 am

i did that, it says i have a strong chance of having autism. i got a 160 @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:48 am

yea, i got too much shi going on and its draining meee :sob: plus fouscing is so hard, like i cant do it, and i et yelled at for not doing work, like dawg, im trying

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:50 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
I got 9 :skull:
Lol yeah, if it's something that high, it's definitely good to do some self research till then

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:51 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Right!! Like, you're trying your best, and people keep stacking! It's tiring, and I understand that. I believe school kids take breaks at summer, so hopefully you have rest time till then :pray:

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:53 am

nope, i gotta get a job to save up to get nd car and i gotta study to get my permit @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:53 am

9? BRO I MIGHT B COOKE LOL (ima just get myself checked out at 18 bc its easier) @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:54 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Damn :/
Well, ether way, just try to take it easy when you can, okie dokie? Thats super important, and recommended, always

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 2:57 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Like I said! I did research, and I got none! What you see is other disorders or trauma! :sob:

But yeah, 9 compared to 160? I think you just might be cooked :sob:
Hopefully! Even if you can't get one, if you do enough research and are fully sure, you really don't need a diagnosis. Not unless you need medication or stuff (I dunno how it works with that-)

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:59 am

i dnt take anymore medicine for my adhd, bc my parents forget to give tome but im supposed to take it during school days so i can focus and shi. i dont like researching a ton ngl so that y i rather go to the doctors instead yk? @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 2:59 am

i actually have severe anxiety, im always anxious abt every lil thing so i dont really know how to take things easy lol

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 3:01 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Bro, can I have some? My intrusive thoughts will worsen, but I need the energy to focus, pleeeaaassee!! :sob: :pray:
I understand. Sometimes it's just easier, and it actually gts things done quicker. Course, could take so much longer, but oh well

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 3:03 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
"Welcome, to Jarassic Park"
*Starts showing random Anxious people cryin' in the corner while party rock plays in the background*

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 3:04 am

oh? lol @Nutty_Oaks

bro u aint getting nothing done with my anxiety. u take days to finish everything

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 3:08 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Yeah, I get that. Having anxiety + ADHD makes doing anything an absolute nightmare :skull:

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 3:15 am

Yes yes it dows!!!! its makes me upset!!!! and i got major depression on top of that!!! @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 3:18 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
I don't think mine is Major, but depression is a piece of sht. Makes doing anything so, so much harder.. :/

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 3:24 am

it fr does :sob: @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 3:25 am

i got dianoised with major depression when i was 12. but i had it since i was abt 7 bc of my trauma @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 3:30 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Damn, that sucks. At least you know about it! I've been suspecting since late 15. Hopefully you have things to help manage it at all?

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 3:33 am

nope. i got in trouble for forgetting to take my pills but its not my fault bc they kept the pills in their room so it was hard for me to remember to take them. they didnt want me to over-d0sed even tho i actually have a huge fear of death @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 3:34 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
At least they are being catious. But, having ADHD/Depression, you're more likely to forget about it. It's good to set alarms or things, but even then, they should also be asking, or even reminding.. :/

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 3:36 am

well they also forget, i also have short term memory too sooo. plus i aint got a phone ether, only my tv and switch. i use my tv for socials. i got a tv Internet browser on there @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 3:39 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
I mean, same though-
I promise you, my memory is the size of a walnut. I'll forget how to spell, what an Apple is (it's happened).. Trust me, I know how it feels. Even my friends make fun of it :skull:

But I see. I don't have a phone, ether. Still, you could always put sticky notes around, I guess

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 3:40 am

i dont have sticky notes :skull: @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 3:41 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Well- XD
Hopefully you can remember your meds still at times :sweat_smile:

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 3:44 am

i dont take any meds no mo. so im just a depressive, unfocused asf, emotional, nervous wreck 24/7 @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 3:47 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Ay, twinsy! :'D
Naw, that sucks. Hopefully you're able to take the meds again if you're wanting too. Must sucks bein' like that all the time :/

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 3:49 am

yeaaaaa :D
funfact i got a twin irl! we're fraternal bc im biologically born a girl sadly, but dw guys, i transified my self and became a man >:D @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 3:52 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Oh neato! That must be interesting, having a twin :}
And congrats on finding out you are trans! it's definitely a journy, but I hope you're feeling happier after finding out?

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 3:54 am

no. not really, my parents hate me lol. i never felt like a girl anyway soooo. i got no supportive family members only my friends. my dad said i can b a guy when im 1i and im moved out. CANT WAIT CHATTTT @Nutty_Oaks

also i should go to bed, i got school tomorrow, but am i gonna do that? yes, yes i am, not b4 i watch tv for 20 mins

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 5:07 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Lol real. Well, I hope you get some good sleep!
I hope you're feeling better after everything though.
Get some sleep, hope school goes well! ^^

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 11:01 am

thanks,i did actually :D @Nutty_Oaks

Deadrose_Emoji

05 Mar, 2025, 7:48 pm

Now znd Again I'M SO FCKIN' SRR FOR NOT BEING ONLINE GPSH I SHOULDVE WENT ONINE ,
I think That You should js let that fcker go and If he tries and Do sm To u Blackmail Him , He was daing and cheating on U .. also Theathning to KHS Which Is def a toxic Partener , Js get him from yo' Life . ( I uhh Not fully Sure if U wanna Stay with Him r not but js He def deosnt deserve a person Like U

Deadrose_Emoji

05 Mar, 2025, 7:49 pm

I hope things are gettin' bettr , again Srr for not being Online , I didnt wanna Go online of how Pissed i Was at shi And I think Id be mean. Srr Hope You doin' better <3/p

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 8:27 pm

he broke up 5 months ago. the thing is that he kept manipulating me and using me, cheating. when i tried to break up with him, he said he was gonna khs, so i went back and i left again bc he was dry and just yk it didnt work out. and uhhh he "khs". i didnt hear from him in 5 months @-L3M0N-

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 8:27 pm

we not he in the beginning

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 8:28 pm

yea but if i tell u something, like im traumatized by or sensitive abt, dont make jokes abt it. i dont make jokes abt urs, so u shouldnt make any abt mine. @Ex0tic_BUtters

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 8:40 pm

that was not what i said at all for one.

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 8:40 pm

plus all i said was not to joke abt my trauma? @Ex0tic_BUtters

like i dont think thats asking for much.

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 8:44 pm

y? im honestly just trynna have a convo with u. @Ex0tic_BUtters

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 8:50 pm

bro literally quit bc i was trynna set boundries -_-
i cant with kids no more.

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 9:02 pm

@/Ex0tic_BUtters quitted btw @Nutty_Oaks so yea

Deadrose_Emoji

05 Mar, 2025, 9:15 pm

Ohhhh , I mean at least he'snow queit ...

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 9:35 pm

well i techinally heard from him recently.

also some1. decided they didnt wanna b friends qith me bc i was setting boundaries with them -_- i think thats stupid but wtv. hru? :D @-L3M0N-

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 9:40 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Of course they did -_-
Like, I thought I was being nice, your over here tryin' to prove a point...

They just might be one of those "I need attention!!" people.

I get it, but thats no excuse for that type of behaviour istg

Deadrose_Emoji

05 Mar, 2025, 9:41 pm

Heh , at least he Isn't annoying u as much . Me? well Uh IG I'm Alr Nothin' much up to ya know ? js Hatin' Life XD

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 9:47 pm

yea ik :sob: if u saw what i said earlier. and they start talking abt i was so much older than them to b friends with them (like its a 3 year difference. shes lesbian. and im gay. i dont date online no mo or younger people. and said she shouldnt b talking to strangers. bro was making excuses but its wtv idec) @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 9:48 pm

oh- really shi! u okay tho buds?

i blocked my ex bc hes toxic and i dont wanna b even more depressed. @-L3M0N-

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 9:49 pm

What, the fck? :sob:
Bro, your on an app filled with strangers that make art, what the hell you yappin' about?? (I was playing mario-)

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 9:51 pm

I HONESTLY DONT KNOW??!!!!

i may b a lil pïssy bc of my monthly cycle. im trans. but i am gonna b setting boundries for things i do not like. like what??? im not abt to take that shi sitting down tf? u may b like a kid but idc, u need to understand boundries and dont blame not taking ur pills on the fact ur being disrespectful. @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 9:51 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Bro, I understand if your an adult to child, or teen to someone under or older then that, but three years ain't gonna get you harrassed that much bud -_-

I can't with kids no mo. Like, they are ether pretty chill, sweet, or the worst person you will ever meet
Also, joking about trauma? Someone elses, per say?
No, hell naw. Not unless you know them and know it's okay, will it be acceptable.

I love dark humor, but bro can't take a damn hint :skull:

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 9:53 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
EXACTLY!!
Also, you can be pssy, that kid was being a dooshbag

(my memory is horrible, I'm sorry, it takes me a minute to remember messages)

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 9:54 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Right, cause like, boundarys are something EVERYONE should respect, no matter how old you are.

If someone says don't talk about their ex, don't.
If someone doesn't like you talking about their trauma/joking about it, JUST CLOSE YOUR TRAP AND BE RESPECTFUL!!
It isn't that hard to adjust simple requests :sob:

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 9:55 pm

literally!! im currently sensitive to those jokes rn bc im trynna get better so obv ima b pïssy abt u making jokes abt my trauma. like dude i told them since i dont make jokes abt their trauma, they shouldnt abt mine, (its called respect. btw :D) and then they hit me with i dont wanna b friends no mo. and basically calling me sensitive. @Nutty_Oaks i mean but shi.

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 9:56 pm

I LOVE DARK HUMOR TOO!!!

(specifically abt my rac ist trauma bc i really b hitting people with, "yk, this white women called me the hard r.") @Nutty_Oaks im not done hold on

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 9:56 pm

i mean i am but shi**

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 9:57 pm

IT LITERALLY ISNT!!! I HAVE NEVER ONCE JOKED ABT THEIR TRUAMA IF I DID I WOULD B IN THE WRONG @Nutty_Oaks
im done now

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 9:59 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Naw, you both didn't seem much friends, more they just wanted to be a whinh btch :skull:

Like, yeah, be respectful. It's one of the first things of human decency you should learn! :skull:

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:01 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
EXACTLY! Like, I don't mind people joking about my trauma or issues, AS LONG AS YOU KNOW ME AND KNOW ITS OKAY!

Whats not okay, is doing it to someone you don't even know their favourite color for fcks sake :skull:

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:02 pm

yeahhhh we were but they kept saying they we're gonna kts and it was triggering, bc yk, im lil sewerslide. but i have a phobia but im still recovering from my illnesses and shi. yk?

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:02 pm

LITERALLY!!!

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:03 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Right! Like, if I joked about yours, I would apologies if you told me that wasn't okay. I'm not gonna throw random crp outa my a33, just so I can avoid the issue. I have enough courage to take fault, verbally or physically!

They, still seem like a five year old if they couldn't

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:04 pm

we're friends but ummm we barely talked bc the things they said made me uncomfortable. but i didnt wanna say anything until now tbh. but anyway!! they know not to joke abt my trauma unless i do it first. its simple.
bc if i dont hit u with "LOL" or "LMAO" im being serious. @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:05 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Naw, I get that. I had a friend like that too. Next time someone pulls that sht, and you are actually tired of em, block them. It doesn't matter, they could legit be the worst person you'll ever meet if you keep them.

I'm just glad they quit, they seem like a pain

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:05 pm

EXACTLY

she was 13, she didnt turn 13 too long ago tho @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:05 pm

they didnt quit quit, they're gonna come back, they quit over 20 times just this year. @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:06 pm

also ima start trying to set boundries with things and people bc yk. its good to set them so yk what lines not to cross @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:07 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Right! It's not to hard to hold off the dark humor for a minute..

I would say to let it all out now. They quit, so you should be allowed to say whatever you want. If you don't, thats okay, but know I am all ears :fairy:

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:08 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
O-O
Well, thats fun. It's fine if they are on here, but even at 13, you know better than to pull that crp

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:09 pm

thnks dawg :D i appreciate it!! :D

im trying, its hard to speak abt things sometimes bc i dont want people to hate me :D @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:09 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Brotha euugghhhh...

20??? Bro, just quit already. If Colors is being such a problem, don't stay!!

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:10 pm

I DID AT 13!!! THAT WAS ALMOST 3 YEARS AGO AN I KNEW NOT TO B RUDE BC LIKE Y WOULD I DO THAT?? (im a people pleaser) @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:10 pm

exactly :skull: @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:10 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Oh okay! Good for you, it's important to do that!
Are there any boundrys I crossed, that I should know? I want to be respectful to you and your comfort

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:12 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
I understand. If you need to do it in a private post, I'd recommend it. Or, if talking about other things eases you, then thats okay. I just don't want this drama to linger on (it can be a pain to fester)

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:12 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
EXACTLY! (I'm a people pleaser too, lmao-)

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:13 pm

nah nah its cool!! u didnt cross anything but if u did dw ill tell u :D @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:13 pm

us core!!! :D

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:15 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Thats good! I'll try my best :blush:

Lol yes XD

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:17 pm

:D ur so cool dawg lol!!

also do u wanna add me on switch? i just like knowing when my friends r online so i can know when to text them or when to not text them @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:19 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
I can't rn, sorry. Even though I'm an adult, I got strict/over protective parents, and I'm scared of them (my mum), sorry!

I'd love to, but maybe at some point...

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:19 pm

nah its cool dont even wrry abt it :D @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:21 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Alrighty, thank you for understanding! :blush:
(they don't even know about colors, soo...)

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:23 pm

oh 0-0 @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:23 pm

i got strict parents too but they dont know how to use the switch good enough to catch me doing shi @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:23 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Yeaaahhh :sweat_smile:
I won't go into details about it all, dw

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:24 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Lmao I got gamer parents. At least you can get away with this

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:25 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
I should probably get off. My dads gonna be playing Donky Kong, and I don't wanna get caught.

I'll probably be back on tonight though!

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:25 pm

i do too but they use ps5s and shi. and plus they realized if they take my shi im not gonna leave my room anyway @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:26 pm

kk :D love ya :D /p (if u dont want me saying that lmk, i just tell every1 i love them lol) @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:27 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Lol it's just useless XD
Well, I'm still thankful on your end

Nutty_Oaks

05 Mar, 2025, 10:27 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Naw, you're good! I'm used to it! ^^

I'll cya later <3

DameDame

05 Mar, 2025, 10:28 pm

kk :D and yea pretty much :D dont have special kids guys. im an ambivert but i like staying inside more and i only go out for band shi @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

06 Mar, 2025, 3:03 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Huh! I love going out an about. Beats getting stuck inside all the time

DameDame

06 Mar, 2025, 11:41 am

yeaa, its honestly bc of my social anxiety is y i dont like going out @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

06 Mar, 2025, 9:30 pm

@Nutty_Oaks
HEYYYYY HRUUUUU

Nutty_Oaks

07 Mar, 2025, 5:08 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
HELLO!!
Sorry! I was busy today... and exhausted :dizzy_face:
I've been alright, just drove for a few hours... and hung out in our new little cozy corner in our house, it's pretty great ^^

How about you? How are you?

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 11:44 am

tired tbh!!! but im doing great ^^

bro y r u my only notication :sob: what the flip, im joking idrc abt notications anywayyyy, u should decorate ur lil corner

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 11:45 am

@Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 8:38 pm

yeah, i been a pïssy mood all week anyway...but the shït u said is still messed up.

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 8:38 pm

im also not gonna hurt myself bc u were rude.

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 8:41 pm

also no i am not okay either. not abt u. i dont hate u, i never said that but *I* dont think i wanna b friends with u bc of what u said, bc that was messed up. im srry i just cant deal with some1 joking abt my trauma like i never said u could so dont. im srry i just dont wanna do it. it was good while it lasted tho. bye alex. @Pink_Bone

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 8:45 pm

im not done actually.

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 8:47 pm

Listen, i already said this BUT even if u dont take ur medicine, it doesnt give you a excuse to randomly joke abt something i went thru, like i went thru so much. and i hated how u just joked abt it. like i have never ONCE joked abt something u were sensitive abt? u wanna know y? its bc i think abt what i say b4 i say it and i think abt how it will affect others. i dont say wtv on my mind just in case i hurt some1 feelings so next time whenever u joke abt something think abt how it would affect-

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 8:50 pm

some1, not if its funny or not. how it would make them feel. think twice b4 u say it. bc that was disrespectful and i wont b doing a second chance with u. bc of what u said, i hope u can reflect on that, and understand that. im truly sorry but i cant deal with this while im trynna deal with my own trauma, and feelings rn. i hope u get better. venting is off limits btw. basically dont talk to me no mo, or anything. goodbye for good alex. @Pink_Bone

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 9:46 pm

@Nutty_Oaks
HIIIIII

Nutty_Oaks

07 Mar, 2025, 9:46 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Yo!

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 9:47 pm

hruuuu :D @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

07 Mar, 2025, 9:50 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
I'm doin' alright! Just watchin' Bluey and chillin' with my sis

How about you? (I might be on an off, sorry for random pauses)

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 9:53 pm

BLUEYY!!! THATS MY SPECIAL SHOWWW!!! @Nutty_Oaks

:0 i got a sister too rahhhh, well she's older, abt t b 20 lol

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 9:54 pm

bro reach auntie status /jk. i love my big sister dawg!!!

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 9:54 pm

also idk how im feeling and u cool dw.

000-honeypot-000

07 Mar, 2025, 9:56 pm

omg i didnt actually know he did that thats disgusting actually ew

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 9:58 pm

theres more but its uhh gone now :c @000-honeypot-000

but yea, he gaslighted me into staying with him and told me he was gonna khs if i left. and uhh yeah. and i didnt hear from in him in 5 months so i thought he was dead and uhhh i didnt hear from him until the day i posted this

Nutty_Oaks

07 Mar, 2025, 9:58 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
My sis is 10, so thats why I can chat rn (shes to fixated on her game, lol)

Bluey is such a comfort show, though!
Also, happy early birthday to your sis! (lots of birthdays for you guys soon, huh?)

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 10:02 pm

her bday in august but months go by so quick for meee!! @Nutty_Oaks

000-honeypot-000

07 Mar, 2025, 10:02 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian he also misgendered my partner when he new that she likes to identify as a girl

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 10:03 pm

and bluey is one of the shows that know how to talk abt sensitive topics and is able to teach it to kids so they understand what not to do. @Nutty_Oaks

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 10:04 pm

HE MISIDENTIF ME BC IM TRANS BRO CALLED ME A GIRL SO MANY TIMES LIKE BRO ST FU @000-honeypot-000

000-honeypot-000

07 Mar, 2025, 10:05 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian HE ALSO FLIRTED WITH ME WHEN I SAID I HAVE A PARTNER LIKE BRO

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 10:07 pm

BRO GET OUTTTTT

he also liked me on the first day of meeting me :skull: ima tag u somewhere else @000-honeypot-000

000-honeypot-000

07 Mar, 2025, 10:07 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian alr

Nutty_Oaks

07 Mar, 2025, 10:11 pm

Naw, cause I get it

Nutty_Oaks

07 Mar, 2025, 10:15 pm

Exactly! My faves are Makenzie and Jack, cause I vibe with em on a personal level..

And they are beans :yellow_heart:

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 10:16 pm

BINGOOOOO

SHES ME FR (we gotta talk somewhere else so they can see what i said to their apology)

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 10:16 pm

@Nutty_Oaks

Murder_Goose

07 Mar, 2025, 10:34 pm

WAIT HE APOLOGIZED?!?? Tagg plsss

DameDame

07 Mar, 2025, 10:54 pm

not him goofy. @Murder_Goose love u tho /p

its some1 else

Murder_Goose

07 Mar, 2025, 11:05 pm

XD ohhhhhh

DameDame

08 Mar, 2025, 12:57 pm

bruh. @Nutty_Oaks

look.

Nutty_Oaks

08 Mar, 2025, 4:29 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Brotha uugghhh :skull:
Like, that's not how you break things off..

DameDame

08 Mar, 2025, 4:55 pm

better things to worry abt is crazy like

(JOKE JOKE!! ILL EXPLAIN THE CONTEXT OF THE JOKE IF U NEED ME TO)

just tell me to fücking kms atp /jk @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

08 Mar, 2025, 5:28 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Lol like FR though!

DameDame

08 Mar, 2025, 5:51 pm

nah bc that's annoying ngl, like broski i didnt have to b ur friend. i didnt have to b nice(well yes i do, im a people pleaser) i didnt have to let u vent, but i did bc i cared. @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

08 Mar, 2025, 8:52 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Exactly though! Like, as being friends, you gotta listen and care. Not be a doosh or ungrateful for everything..

Just sucks :/

DameDame

09 Mar, 2025, 2:29 am

it does :sob: but ig they didnt grow up and they told people that im not friends with them bc of a bad joke, i mean yea, no duh. that was rude @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

09 Mar, 2025, 4:38 am

@SillyLilGooberDemian
Bruh :skull:
At least it wasn't anything worse, I'm thankful for yeah

DameDame

09 Mar, 2025, 2:14 pm

i agree, bc trust me, i would have said something a lot worse bc i dont take disrespect @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

09 Mar, 2025, 4:04 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
I get that. I'm glad/proud you stuck with your morals. It really does show maturity between the two :)

DameDame

09 Mar, 2025, 4:14 pm

probably bc im also older and i would get my ašs beat if i was a rude lil peice of shït to any1 (i was taught manners and i was taught to respect every1 no matter the age or im getting my ašs fücked up :sob:) @Nutty_Oaks

Nutty_Oaks

09 Mar, 2025, 4:50 pm

@SillyLilGooberDemian
I feel that :skull:
Still, I'd rather have learned manners and respect, then end up like that

DameDame

09 Mar, 2025, 6:08 pm

real shi @Nutty_Oaks

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