help by fizzarolifan909

soo....i wanna come out as he/they to people but its so hard i need advice (btw my family cant know cuz they transphobic) but like how do i just come out? like i look like a boy but im having trouble asking my friends and people to refer to me as he/they im worried cuz what if a teacher finds out and tells my parents??? anyways guys please help i dunno what to do and wanna cry. i dont even feel comfortablein my own skin so i wanna come out but im so scared please give me advice yall ily guys

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21 Feb, 2025, 2:20 am
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STREETY_

21 Feb, 2025, 2:36 am

if you have any trans or non binary friends ask them how they came out or try to use they them or she he to kinda lean into it ig this could help again i dont know much about this much im a cis dude but i still go by he they idk

fizzarolifan909

21 Feb, 2025, 2:43 am

thx so much ill try that i really appreciateit

Bloodbell

22 Feb, 2025, 1:51 am

ur teachers not gonna tell your parents, if you have good friends theyll understand and respect you and i would wait until youre an adult to tell your parents because 1, you could be misunderstanding your feelings and you need time to truly figure out who you are and mature as a person before you try to transition and 2, if they dont undersant and kick you out youll have a job and you can live your life without them
im trans and ik even though these feelings are hard you just need time

fizzarolifan909

22 Feb, 2025, 2:01 am

@Bloodbell thx so much for the advice

Bloodbell

22 Feb, 2025, 2:03 am

please use it, and dont be afraid to express yourself

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