Am i the A-hole? by Russel_Fluff
[Your early! but TW for the following content: SA, sewer slide mentions, slurs, and c-consent??]
So theres this guy who kinda like, touches girls without their consent and when they want to break up he'd threaten them or say that he'll keep himself safe
I called him out cus it was getting annoying and said in a very (probably) passive aggressive way "dude stop its annoying fr fr" and like always he said that hes gonna keep himself safe
Now i didnt really care and my friends were there to provide more evidence but his 2 friends that were in the server were telling me to apologize? one of them said this "I do too, I hope he really doesn't hurt himself either I just think that russy could've done better by again, making a separate chat instead of tramama dumping this chat with many people who weren't involved, and to be honest I think an apology from russy would make things better for 'N' since now he is conserving self harm and I think most of it comes from russy not handling this situation better, although I understand his actions and how badly this made him look, I still think she should apologize for making this situation even worse by telling everyone" and his other friend said "He deserves an apology." Which in my opinion he doesnt? Becuase we've told him to stop the touching and usage of slurs but he doesn't
We went back and forth and eventually he sent my brother a text about how he's grateful for him being there for him but the thing is.. he sent the same one to-
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06 Feb, 2025, 2:33 am
woahg rus posting finally
06 Feb, 2025, 2:39 am
-his friend (whos a girl)
Now im thinkinh "Dam.. i messed up, hes gonna die cus of me.." so i hop off and play pjsk
a few minuites later eveyone is happy n stuff so i want to know why. I read the chats and... he joined back
N LITTERALLY JOINED BACK MAKING HIMSELF THE VICTIM
at this point none of my friends are on my side because i "drove a guy to sewerslide", not even my parents (who were aware of the situation) took my side.. only my 2 best friends (Thank you @Indigo_Idiot!)
N thanks me and says something sloppy like "yeah thank you for brining the situation to light cus if you didnt id probaly groomed everyone in the school lmaoo"
my friend (who took my side a little) was like "Hey I just wanted to say thanks for speaking out bout N if you didn’t it probably would not have came up. Thank you also for saving me from being a victim too I appreciate and I am in your debt"
06 Feb, 2025, 2:44 am
What's goodie gang?
Lowkey I wanted to speak about this situation for a while now gang.. um so like N is kind of a bad person. Like worse that you think
Yeah we all know that saying racist slurs and saying that he's gonna "krill himself" on a daily basis but he can't let this one girl go
I understand clingy but if said girl is scared sh-tless because she thought now that he'll break into her house and kidnap her, don't you think it's crossing some boundary? Speaking of 'boundaries' N has 0 care for consent which is important in a relationship, no consent makes you a rapist and a bad person. If she tell you to stop shouldn't you.. I don't know.. STOP?? But no instead you grab her wrists and yank her. Like what tf, touching her is also in this scenario. Something that he also does?? Also no personal space, jesus..
Mainly on the thighs even if she's uncomfortable, p-rv-rt.. like let go maybe???
His behavior isn't limited to only S it goes to someone in this server,
S-xting someone is okay sometimes if it's your bbg but to a random friend is.. probably not okay.. s-xting and calling them slurs, during s-xting I honestly wouldn't be surprised if you were pulling your pork, typing one handed, j-rking it, str-king it, ect though you had a "girlfriend" at the time, you lustful creature. When asked to stop(saying slurs) he said "S-Sorry I can't help it.. the demons.. the parasites.. its like a dr-g... I-I can't stop!!"
Nobody asked him to put down the c-garette.. they asked him to 'stop saying slurs it makes people, if not everyone, uncomfortable'
Now.. I understand being used for money.. but ho, your letting them and buying them stuff when they say so when you can say no (SHOCKER TO LITERALLY NOBODY!!!) then proceeding to call the person who he bought snack n sh-t for the n word (Hard r!??) when asked why he said "She let's me cus I buy her stuff" wow.. its almost like saying "Hey! I helped a Mexican over the boarder I get to call them whatever slur I want " (Im mexican btw)
OH a few more things if I do say. He has a list, a (if I do say so myself) a d-ddy list, if your name is on said list you have a good chance of getting gr-ped and groomed by this gentleman (How creepy!)
-J
-R
-L
-K
-L
-M
-K
-S
He also want to change himself for S. Want to "rip out his vocal cords for her" because he thinks that she finds his voice uncomfortable and unnerving when the obvious answer for that is, STOP TOUTCHING HER. Also I'm h-lla petty so, remember when Nelson called me l-stful? Yeah.., I don't grope women and look deeply into my "bbg's" chest
If ho really loved someone then maybe you wouldn't.. talk to other girls? Like, sh-t, I talked to other girls within a relationship but not (probably) making comments about how hawt and sm-xy they are!!
If you want evidence then ask. I might give some
Meow this didn't send in the morning so I resent it now! Stay safe everyone ‼️
If any victims want to speak up then please, go ahead! I wanted to bring more light to this situation (which probably isn't legal..) and I lowkey want to boot him out of the server but that's up to the owner fr fr
06 Feb, 2025, 2:45 am
I said that btw, umm also i got banned from the sevrer for 6 days so until friday because of the cretins who wanted me to apologize wouldve harrased the owner for not doing so
So guys, am i in the wrong, the right or both? I dont actually know??
06 Feb, 2025, 2:46 am
@downpour heh... yeah, i might post a few doodles
06 Feb, 2025, 2:47 am
damn pooks sounds complicated i hope you feel better that guy is a CREEP
06 Feb, 2025, 2:53 am
@downpour Augh I might crash out cus how is he gonna apologize to me and not the people he fiddled with??
06 Feb, 2025, 2:54 am
Its over tho and in the end i literally lost
06 Feb, 2025, 2:57 am
yikes. he is so crazy