This friend (lets call him Blue) was well..
I don't know how to put this.
I met him here on Colors, back when I only had one acc.
He was nice and new. So, we talked and got to know each other.
Soon, we had discord and everything was going fine.
I used to tease him, I thought it was fine.
Turns out, it wasn't to him. It was mean.
So, I stopped.
We had an interesting bond.
He often gave me fanart of me and my boyfriend.
I appreciated it very much, I love fanart.
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27 Oct, 2024, 8:10 pm
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But, he felt like I owed him with fanart of him.
So, I obliged.
We both had NSFW accs (I gave him his)
and half of my acc is his requests of very inappropriate things.
One time, he made me a list to do all of that.
I actually thought about it and...it felt weird.
So, after I completed the first thing on the list, I said no to the rest.
It seemed like he didn't care and moved on.
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27 Oct, 2024, 8:19 pm
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Blue was in the server with me and my boyfriend.
He often asked for vcs. We didn't mind that tbh, and its not rlly something I mind now.
But, he did also make commentary about my boyfriend gushing over me. (He once posted the 'its fine' dog over a comment abt my boyfriend and how much he loved me)
Blue had conflict with, my boyfriend's cousin, K.
K and him often did not get along.
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27 Oct, 2024, 8:25 pm
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K often said that Blue was not Screw's boyfriend and did not need to act like this.
It felt jealous to her.
I've only seen 2 instances of this happening.
He left the server after the second time, complaining abt how K hated him on Twitter.
I talked to Blue's girlfriend (lets call her Pink)
Pink was talking to Blue and she sent me a screenshot of Blue calling K a whöre.
So, I sent the screenshot to my boyfriend.
He was mad.
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27 Oct, 2024, 8:30 pm
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We went back and forth of sending screenshot after screenshot of things Blue said and did.
Pink was sending me messages defending Blue, I understand now that she didn't want to think that her boyfriend was a bad person.
We changed the rules of the server so Pink and Blue can't be invited back in the server without Screw's invite.
We blocked Pink and Blue on Twitter and Discord.
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27 Oct, 2024, 8:36 pm
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We ignored Blue for a while, until I realized abt his NSFW acc.
I gave him it, so I took it away.
It felt petty to me, but I wanted to get revenge. It still feels petty to me now.
But, I still did it.
I deleted his posts, his replies, and his likes.
But, I found something interesting in his likes.
It was an controversial genre of inappropriate things. (I will not say anything about it)
Screw, me, and one of our close friends, H, confronted him about it and he admitted it.
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27 Oct, 2024, 8:41 pm
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We didn't have to pry it out of him, we asked and he said yes.
He felt ashamed of it as well.
We also tried to tell Pink but she blocked us before we could tell her.
After a while, Blue asked if we can talk.
We settled our differences and suddenly, we were back on good terms.
I was worried for him, so I obliged.
He blocked me after he wanted to apologize to everyone else in the server and the others denined.
So, I thought it was over.
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27 Oct, 2024, 8:48 pm
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(I unblocked Pink and Blue before I 'made up' with him.
I didnt rlly feel like they would message me again so why bother-)
Pink reached out to me after Blue broke up with her.
He told her that his device got taken away, but he told people in another server that he broke up with her.
He left the relationship without telling her that he was breaking up with her.
I told Pink about Blue's actions, and she felt worse.
I decided to tell some of Blue's close friends about his actions.
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27 Oct, 2024, 8:52 pm
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I told 5 of his close friends, one of them already knew about the drama so I didn't rlly bother to send screenshots.
Most of them didn't want anything else to do with this. I understood and let them be.
One of them tried to defend Blue about that he changed, and I wasn't saying that he didn't.
I did say at the end that I'm not apposing to him changing and learning from his actions.
One of them had a mental breakdown.
We're not gonna talk about it.
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27 Oct, 2024, 9:01 pm
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And one of them believed me that his actions were uncalled for. This was the only friend that did.
(I didn't care if they stayed friends with him tbh.)
Pink and I felt like no one listened to us, but we didnt care.
Bc if Blue gets exposed, they were going to be the friends that knew abt it and did nothing.
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27 Oct, 2024, 9:04 pm
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Thats where it ends.
That's it.
I do not want hate towards Blue or any of his friends.
This is only to spread information, not hate.
I wanted to settle this privately with only a few friends of his, not expecting them to believe me.
But, since Pink planned to come out abt it, I decided to as well.
So, alright fine,
Let's talk.
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27 Oct, 2024, 9:06 pm
jeez hope this dies down bc that must be a lot to take in
27 Oct, 2024, 9:07 pm
Ok, so I've gotten points of view from everyone, and, um. I do not know what to do. Honestly the best thing I can say is to ignore each other. What happened is over, and you don't need to communicate with each other. Don't do anything. Don't spread hate. Don't do "acts of revenge". It's over now and it's best to leave it in the past.
27 Oct, 2024, 9:10 pm
@-skull-
I believe that's the best thing as well.
This is just to spread information, not to spread hate.
I've already blocked the people involved, its over.
27 Oct, 2024, 9:28 pm
lol i block alot people
27 Oct, 2024, 9:37 pm
@Ruby_hurt
Me too
27 Oct, 2024, 9:46 pm
@CatPNG oh ya blue also making fun of you
27 Oct, 2024, 9:48 pm
on his birthday or after
27 Oct, 2024, 9:53 pm
@Ruby_hurt
tbh i do not care anymore
28 Oct, 2024, 3:25 pm
@Xphantom that would make sense knowing his gf used to defend him in any case
28 Oct, 2024, 5:17 pm
yikes I'm so sorry this happened
I hope u feel better soon
(Ik who ur talking abt btw)
06 Dec, 2024, 3:02 am
is it ok that i have a crash on my cuz
08 Dec, 2024, 3:14 am
@ekt11614
What???