A Simple Step-by-Step Guide on How to Apologize ! by lampyridae

1. Acknowledge your mistakes and understand why what you did was harmful

2. Explain your intentions, but don't try to justify your behavior

3. Focus on what you did without blaming the other person - Show empathy
:thumbsdown: -> I'm sorry that you feel that way.
:thumbsup: -> I'm sorry that I made you feel that way.

4. Avoid using but or other excuses - This will make your apology sound backhanded

5. Ask for forgiveness without being forceful - Expain how you'll do better
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Hope this helps !

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03 Aug, 2024, 8:16 pm
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lampyridae

03 Aug, 2024, 8:17 pm

Feel free to repost !

-_Ace_-

03 Aug, 2024, 8:18 pm

@K-TOE poko frfr

kaiisakaizi

03 Aug, 2024, 8:18 pm

...

K-TOE

03 Aug, 2024, 8:19 pm

@mari-_- real (they commented on my main help me)

lampyridae

03 Aug, 2024, 8:24 pm

@kittyqueen64 HELP LOLLLL

-_Ace_-

03 Aug, 2024, 8:25 pm

@K-TOE im glad you said ew serves her right

kaiisakaizi

03 Aug, 2024, 8:25 pm

@mari-_-
they

-_Ace_-

03 Aug, 2024, 8:29 pm

@kaiisakaizi my bad i didn't know

Inkcap_Shroom

04 Aug, 2024, 12:19 am

@kittyqueen64

...whos Poko?

JOYRID3

04 Aug, 2024, 3:35 pm

@Im_a_Dragon they're a user thats been in some hot water w the community after drawing a minor giving h3ad to them (dont look up what 'giving h3ad means') and they fetishise trans masc ppl !! they deleted their main account but they made several new ones.

Inkcap_Shroom

04 Aug, 2024, 3:39 pm

Oh, thier terrible.
And, Unfortunately I do know what that means :disappointed:

Inkcap_Shroom

04 Aug, 2024, 3:39 pm

@yejuns_ekitten

SlipstreamCL

10 Aug, 2024, 2:50 am

This is great advice! :]

yukon

27 Aug, 2024, 9:51 pm

I HATE APOLOGIZING ITS SO EMBARRASSING AND PETTY

XxGalaxyAmelia_56xX

12 Oct, 2024, 2:05 am

So cute!

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