listen. by Theformerdq10

everybody (exepct those who are too uncomfortable with it)
explain what happened with @berry18.
i just want to know what happened, and will not give an opinion unless prompted.
i'm not gonna choose sides or pick battles. i just want to be up to speed.

edit: WȚF?! ONE OF MY FAVORITE ARTSTS BLOCKED ME CAUSE OF THIS WHOLE THING WHEN I DONT EVEN UNDERSTAND WHATS GOING ON. I WAS BLOCKED CAUSE OF WHO IM FRIENDS WITH. THATS NOT OKAY.
I DIDNT EVEN HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THIS.
That is NOT fair!!

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ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 2:28 am

they just said they dont support trans rights

but they also said they would never bully a trans person either

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:29 am

@Outsweeters but did they say that they're AGAINST It or anything?
like, can you show me what they said? again, just wanna know what happened.

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:32 am

@ImmortalEyes can yiu show me what they said?

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 2:36 am

they also very specifically said they dont hate trans people they simply just disagree do to their beliefs
idk its a very dispraportionate response on everyones ends tho
while its frustrating that its one less trans supporter it is definitely not ok to boycott/bully/threaten/harass a person who isnt doing anything beside explaining what they believe
its insane and painting our/ theLGBTQIA+ community in a really bad light acting like this

h34rtSTEEL

24 Jun, 2023, 2:37 am

they said they were a christian and also said there are two genders
correct me if im wrong please

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 2:37 am

if you hit their username you can just read their posts

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:38 am

@ImmortalEyes right, yeah..

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:42 am

@hemorrhageV2 i see what you mean.
but, did they go out of their way to bully people, or...??

echoblue

24 Jun, 2023, 2:42 am

@Theformerdq10 HEWWO :3

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:43 am

@hemorrhageV2 and at this point, nothing is right or wrong. both points of views are understandable and idk if everybody has the full story.

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:47 am

@hemorrhageV2 obviously!! i mean if they were actually trying to hurt people, i'd be blocking them too!
trans rights are definitely something underrated and yall deserve to be heard.
then again, from what i heard they made a mistake and are trying to fix it. i dont wanna pick sides without knowing both sides.

QuandaleDingle

24 Jun, 2023, 2:48 am

anywaysss im gonna delete my comment so colors doesnt ban me for being involvled :skull:

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 2:49 am

@Theformerdq10
a user literally said " you say anything like that again and you'll regret it" thats a threat
the harrassment is the mutiple users making posts telling berry18 to get banned and to leave colors

while religion doesn't seem like a good excuse you gotta understand that to a Christian the most important relationship is between them and their God

you cant just expect someone to turn away from their religion because "its 2023"

QuandaleDingle

24 Jun, 2023, 2:50 am

i think it was smthn about their religion---- i dont think they rly said anythinb BAD but some of the stuff they said was pretty offensive to trans rights---

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:51 am

@hemorrhageV2 no problem!! i dont want a fight on here as much as you do!! colors is supposed to be a place for people to be themselvs!!

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:52 am

@ImmortalEyes hmm. so people ARE openly attacking them about this?

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:52 am

@QuandaleDingle right, that makes sense...

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 2:52 am

again trans people deserve to be supported

they need all the help they can get

but just like transphobia disgusts me

ostracizing someone for their religious beliefs also disgusts me

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 2:53 am

@Theformerdq10

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:53 am

@ImmortalEyes yeah, i agree... tha doesn't seem right.

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 2:53 am

i just want people to get along ;-;

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:56 am

@hemorrhageV2 hey, thats progress!! good!!

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:56 am

@ImmortalEyes yeah, me niether.

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 2:57 am

@hemorrhageV2 i do understand im sorry too if i got a lil winded their religion is a sensitive topic for me as well

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 2:58 am

@ImmortalEyes @hemorrhageV2 coming onto the same page is exactly what needs to happen, not all this drama!

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 3:05 am

this is the last thing ill say about:

combatting hate with hate will only lead to more hate. its like trying to put out fire with fire.
and dragging it on instead of agreeing to disgree, is just a waste of time and emotions

there will always be people who dont support you and people that will its a waste of breath trying to convince someone who isnt ready yet

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 3:06 am

and bullying them will definitely not get them on your side

youll only anchor them more in their own beliefs

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 3:07 am

and if getting them on your side isnt your goal then wth are we doing here

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 3:11 am

@ImmortalEyes ....trying to get informed of the situation instead of instantly picking sides...?

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 3:15 am

@Theformerdq10 sorry lol i meant in general as LGBTQIA /being alive on earth
not specifically this post
sorry for the confusion

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 3:20 am

@ImmortalEyes np.
and idk if you saw the edit, but i was just blocked by like one of my favorite artists. its not fair.

ImmortalEyes

24 Jun, 2023, 3:23 am

@Theformerdq10 whaaat??? they blocked you for asking a question? thats so weird??

cipherz

24 Jun, 2023, 3:31 am

I assume the edit is about me?
I'm not mad at you or anything, dw.
Just blocked ya because it'd make me uncomfortable chatting with you.
/nm

cipherz

24 Jun, 2023, 3:36 am

@ImmortalEyes I blocked them because they're friends with friends of Hailsss.

Maya1

24 Jun, 2023, 7:37 am

Ye. Its not fair. Right now everything is unfair :(

CrystallizedDusk

24 Jun, 2023, 12:39 pm

Morning. Just writing to say I'll most likely be at work, but: If you dont want to be friends, just tell me. You seem upset and I really dont want anything else to be tacked on to you. NEVER be afraid to tell me something like that, because I dont wanna force you to stay in a friendship where you're hurt or uncomfortable, cuz that isnt one. And if it's for other reasons, I totally get it!

CrystallizedDusk

24 Jun, 2023, 12:40 pm

And no, I'm not saying this to break up the friendship, even though it sounds like it. I just want the best for you hon, and if that means we go our own ways, I'm fine with that.

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 1:28 pm

@CrystallizedDusk sis, no. its not you, its everybody else. and besides, im just a little annoyed is all!!! youre my sis and best friend. why would i end that over somehing as petty as this?

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 1:29 pm

@CrystallizedDusk i feicing (platonicly) love you, and that will never change, i promise.

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 1:30 pm

@cipherz jus the fact that i'm not and i dont even know who hailss is...

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 1:42 pm

@CrystallizedDusk I absolutely do NOT want to stop being friends!!! you're cool and nice and sweet and god dam i wanna just hug you.
and if i was mad at you, trust me, i'd tell you!!! you're not the problem here!!!

Theformerdq10

24 Jun, 2023, 1:42 pm

@CrystallizedDusk so NO. i refuse to stop being friends. >:)

CrystallizedDusk

24 Jun, 2023, 3:01 pm

Thank you sis.. that really helps. And a lot of hate is on me and Berry both, and while it may suck sadly you'll have to expect people to block or DNI with you simply because of me. I wish it wasnt like this but I made my choice and I'm sticking with it regardless if it can be reversed... I just dont like that you're getting blocked and things for being my little sister though, but I dont think I can do much..

CrystallizedDusk

24 Jun, 2023, 3:03 pm

And yes you kinda are friend with friends of Hailey. I was a buddy during the Sleepii drama and we kinda stopped talking, but Ezla is my bestie and she and Hailey are close.

Theformerdq10

25 Jun, 2023, 1:13 am

@CrystallizedDusk ohhhh.
but we're stil friends right??? sisters??

CrystallizedDusk

25 Jun, 2023, 1:30 am

Of course!

nO wAy, NoT wItH sUcH a SwEeT aNd FuNnY pErSoN (/sarc)

Theformerdq10

25 Jun, 2023, 1:31 am

*hugs*

Theformerdq10

25 Jun, 2023, 1:31 am

@CrystallizedDusk

CrystallizedDusk

25 Jun, 2023, 1:39 am

*hugs* I love ya Flower. Believe it or not I've always wanted a little sister, friend or actual, so this is actually really nice to me!

Theformerdq10

25 Jun, 2023, 1:56 am

@CrystallizedDusk SAMME!! :D

CrystallizedDusk

25 Jun, 2023, 2:03 am

I dunno what but I feel like that "cool" and "laid-back" (I dont know what counts anymore-) older sister that absolutely goes ape on folks that hurt you and it's a freaking HONOR-

CrystallizedDusk

25 Jun, 2023, 2:03 am

*why... sometimes I hate my phone.

Theformerdq10

25 Jun, 2023, 2:04 am

@CrystallizedDusk PFF- XD
your the best lol

CrystallizedDusk

25 Jun, 2023, 2:23 am

I try, hon, I try :)

CrystallizedDusk

25 Jun, 2023, 2:32 am

Gonna hop off soon, but I have a gift for you. Probably post it tomorrow if my 3Ds cooperates.. have a good night.

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