Help? by BlueBerryMilk

So, before i say ANYTHING, i want to make sure you know im not trying to self diagnose in any way, im just trying to get help from people who have this or know alot about it

So ive, for a while, have thought that something about me is, different. Im kind of starting to think i may have inattentive àdhd. im not quite sure so i was hoping someone could kinda give me some, idk, advice???
I get distracted incredibly easily, either while someone is talking or while im doing work/tasks. My me-

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28 Apr, 2023, 11:50 pm
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BlueBerryMilk

28 Apr, 2023, 11:56 pm

-mory is either incredibly good (usually specific details from something that happen to me years ago) or incredibly bad (I can't remember something my mom said to me a second ago, i walk into a room and forget what im doing almost immediately). Im disorganized like they'res no tomorrow...dont look at my room or my school papers (+ i lose something about 4 times a day). Im constantly spacing out. And i get bored with things really easily and have a hard time sticking to routines.

I can't talk a-

BlueBerryMilk

29 Apr, 2023, 12:00 am

-bout it with my parents because of my uncle. He has Hyperactive **** and thats what they think **** is, that it just stops there. I tried telling my mom last year and she immediately shut me down saying "No. you're miles away from ****". the bottom line is, i don't think i can get help from them, so im really looking for any guidance i can find. ik this is lengthy, but i really do need help...

skinnygremlin

29 Apr, 2023, 12:33 am

@BlueBerryMilk Really sorry to hear that you've been struggling with this, I've got a lot of the same symptoms you do so I think I kinda know what you mean. I don't know much about the topic, but you're definitely not alone. I can assure you that. There are so many different types of it and I wish your parents could see that. I don't think I have any real advice or guidance for you, but I'm sure you'll figure everything out eventually. Maybe you could try asking somebody at school for help? Just hang in there, things will get better if you just keep trying. Proud of you :)

BlueBerryMilk

29 Apr, 2023, 12:41 am

@Dijitalis Thanks man, i think you've mentioned to me before that you may have ****. I think people, such as my parents, need to know that things are very different for guys and girls (im in the girls section, cause i was, yaknow, born FeMale). Take your brother for example, bros bat shít feral (no offense)

BlueBerryMilk

29 Apr, 2023, 12:42 am

love that it gets censored-

R3belAngel

29 Apr, 2023, 12:49 am

Im so sorry, hopef its not **** UnU my sister has it and i rlly hope u go through what my sister went :) <3

skinnygremlin

29 Apr, 2023, 12:51 am

@BlueBerryMilk BRO HE REALLY IS, poor little dude has got issues

skinnygremlin

29 Apr, 2023, 12:51 am

regardless of gender, it's a pretty serious thing that needs plenty of attention

BlueBerryMilk

29 Apr, 2023, 12:53 am

@Dijitalis My friend who has **** was talking about it to me, she said that if you don't get help, it can really jack you up in the future. It can give you anxiety n'stuff and can hurt your self esteem.

BlueBerryMilk

29 Apr, 2023, 12:54 am

@Dijitalis I cant really blame him, but hes bouncing off the walls constantly....and hes loud...

BlueBerryMilk

29 Apr, 2023, 12:58 am

@R3belAngel oh, thank you btw

skinnygremlin

29 Apr, 2023, 1:02 am

@BlueBerryMilk ye, it's almost like he's on crack 24/7

skinnygremlin

29 Apr, 2023, 1:35 am

@BlueBerryMilk bro me and my little brother just fought over mr. smee's hand in marriage

sleepystrutter

29 Apr, 2023, 5:14 pm

watch the bluey episode army, it's shows a good respiration* of àdhd (*idk how to spell that)

BlueBerryMilk

29 Apr, 2023, 5:35 pm

@sleepybagchan28_ ill give it a try :)

sleepystrutter

29 Apr, 2023, 7:18 pm

@BlueBerryMilk thanks :)

BlueBerryMilk

29 Apr, 2023, 10:37 pm

@Dijitalis Tbh im thinking about explaining Inattentive Ádhd to my mom. i kinda have a plan formulating too.

skinnygremlin

29 Apr, 2023, 10:54 pm

@BlueBerryMilk you should totally go for it, I really hope she understands

BlueBerryMilk

29 Apr, 2023, 10:54 pm

@Dijitalis kinda scared to tbh, dunno if she would believe me

skinnygremlin

29 Apr, 2023, 10:59 pm

@BlueBerryMilk you've got this, I think it's worth a try

BlueBerryMilk

29 Apr, 2023, 11:02 pm

@Dijitalis thanks man, it may take me a while, but i will

skinnygremlin

29 Apr, 2023, 11:13 pm

@BlueBerryMilk anytime, pal :)

Otter_Gerl

21 Jul, 2023, 7:10 pm

i am the same!

one thing i try to do is put noise canceling headphones on while working. i also have a check list and reminders to help.
this is comming from a young teen whose whole fam has ADHD and some àutism

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