talk: by ArtisanLydi

recently ive vented alot more (which im very sorry for)
and while i really shouldnt vent, something came to my attention.

please do NOT like any of mine, or anyone elses vents EVER.
to those who do it:
im sure you dont mean it this way, but it comes across as really hurtful, and uncaring.
the fact that my last vent got OVER 25 likes b4 i deleted it,is extremely upsetting to me. alot of stuff is goin on rn, and seeing those makes it worse. sick of it. its honestly really upsetting.

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08 Apr, 2023, 5:59 pm
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CrystallizedDusk

08 Apr, 2023, 6:04 pm

I put up a post about this, it's that not okay. It's fine for long discussion but this is what I mean: Distressing the artist more than need be.

I hope you feel better sis and that folks listen...

Berry18

08 Apr, 2023, 6:06 pm

Yes, I wholeheartedly agree with you. People should never like vents. I hope you feel better!

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 6:07 pm

@CrystallizedDusk thx sis. just so dam tired of ppl on colors honestly- with a few exceptions ofc.
honestly if it werent for a few of u, id straight up leave.
crying my eyes out makin vents, and then crying MORE bcuz 25+ ppl LIKED it, isnt ok.

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 6:07 pm

@Berry18 ty girl!

Chadagon

08 Apr, 2023, 6:09 pm

Thats honestly concerning, I mean the more you like a post means it might end up on trending and LITERALLY NO ONE wants a post like that on trending especially the artist so please listen to us when we talk abt stuff like that. lydi I hope things get better and u mean so much to me love u /platonic ofc

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 6:16 pm

@Thayghan @-Howl- thx u two! and yeah thats why i took it down, like i really want my personal problems on trending?? lmao
this cr.ap better stop soon. -_-*

Flickerr

08 Apr, 2023, 6:17 pm

Everyone should have the right to vent when they need to! Its very dumb for people to go around liking ppls vents. I get they may like to show support but it actually shows disrespect. If I were you, i'd block whoever is doing this. Hope you feel better Nikki!

Unaone

08 Apr, 2023, 6:24 pm

tbh i feel like everything gets treated like a bigger deal than it is...

haha maybe you should just ignore me

Berry18

08 Apr, 2023, 6:28 pm

@ArtisanLydi We're all here for you, girl *Hugs*

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 6:37 pm

@-xArtistx- @Berry18 @LayaniaViolettiaSTAY thx yall i appreciate it

@Unaone most of the time id agree with you, but ive asked ppl not to do so multiple times, so it feels on purpose and disrespectful yk?

Flickerr

08 Apr, 2023, 6:39 pm

Ofc!!

Berry18

08 Apr, 2023, 6:40 pm

@-xArtistx- @LayaniaViolettiaSTAY

@ArtisanLydi We're here for you, come h3ll or high water, my friend!

angelic_mansion

08 Apr, 2023, 6:41 pm

ughh

its fr frustrating.
when ppl like vents, its just giving off that vibe that they only care about the art

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 6:48 pm

@angel_zupremacy fr. and most of the time idc if it gets 1 or 2 likes but TWENTY FIVE PLUS-
like for the love of pete ppl, please be considerate. -.-'

Flickerr

08 Apr, 2023, 6:50 pm

@ArtisanLydi Its very rare I get 25 likes BUT FOR A VENT?? Wth---

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 6:54 pm

@-xArtistx- fr.

Flickerr

08 Apr, 2023, 6:55 pm

@ArtisanLydi I wanna know who liked it- Ima like every single vent of theirs and see how they feel!

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 6:58 pm

@-xArtistx- pfft thanks girl. but dont. i dont wanna make someone else feel like sh*t just cuz i do, yk?

Flickerr

08 Apr, 2023, 6:59 pm

@ArtisanLydi I'm just mad at them-

Flickerr

08 Apr, 2023, 6:59 pm

Srry

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 7:00 pm

@-xArtistx- no dont be! thank you for caring! ur a good friend!! <3

Flickerr

08 Apr, 2023, 7:01 pm

Ofc!!! You are such a great person and you dont deserve this at all!

CrystallizedDusk

08 Apr, 2023, 7:01 pm

Yeah... I've honestly been thinking of quitting a few times too, but all of my friends are here. It's just not worth drama and fighting... and 25 likes? For a vent? When I barely get ANY on ANY PIECE OTHER THAN MY PROM POST? ON A FRIKKEN VENT????? IM NOT MAD BUT WHY IS IT LIKE THAT??? JM SO CONFUSED????

CrystallizedDusk

08 Apr, 2023, 7:04 pm

*sigh* people be wack... I just hope you dont take it to heart and try to have a good Easter... dont let folks bring you down. We're all here for you big sis, and these people NEED to quit because all liking does it hurt, not help. It's wrong. No, we shouldn't vent here, but for many Colors is a place to get away from life, especially bad parents. It's doing nothing, hurting artists and while it makes some people feel I guess appreciated, it's still wrong to do so...

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 7:05 pm

@CrystallizedDusk sammmme like i hit gold often enough but i mainy get like 3 silvers a post.
so getting 25+ for a vent was really upsetting. p_p

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 7:05 pm

@CrystallizedDusk thanks Sib! *hugs* TwT

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 7:06 pm

@-xArtistx- ty girlie! TuT

Flickerr

08 Apr, 2023, 7:07 pm

Ofc!!

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 7:14 pm

@LayaniaViolettiaSTAY dw and tysm!!

CrystallizedDusk

08 Apr, 2023, 7:25 pm

@LayaniaViolettiaSTAY I liked it by accident trying to get back to the feed on my PHONE-
Its understandable sometimes-

And np sis! You need a good Easter!

Platypunk00

08 Apr, 2023, 8:55 pm

Im very sry if i EVER hav done this babe! <333
if i have i meant it as i paid attention to how u were feeling... im sry if i made you feel that way!
<333 *big hugs*

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 8:57 pm

@Platypunk00 i dont think u ever had bae dww <3
and i dont mind if one or two ppl like em, its just when it gets 25+ likes that it hurts lol

Platypunk00

08 Apr, 2023, 9:00 pm

Ty bb... i luv you my lil girl, let me know if i ever make you feel this way tho... <3

ArtisanLydi

08 Apr, 2023, 9:01 pm

@Platypunk00 i will, but ur fine luv! i luv u! <3

Platypunk00

08 Apr, 2023, 9:03 pm

I wub u 2!! *eskimo kisses* <3

Mewsea

09 Apr, 2023, 12:53 am

This is one of the reasons why I feel like I can't make vent posts. Because it may end up on trending. :'0

Seriously, though. Don't feel bad about venting so much. I haven't been feeling too great lately either, so seeing vent posts helps me feel less alone.

Of course, I'm not happy that anyone would feel the need to make a vent post, but there's a certain comfort in knowing that you're not the only one struggling, so there's a silver lining in that.

Sorry. That may have sounded insensitive. But I do really hope you're getting all the love and support you need during this difficult time.

ArtisanLydi

09 Apr, 2023, 2:24 pm

@Mewsea ty! and no i agree! <3

Peripheral_Pillar

09 Apr, 2023, 3:46 pm

I've resorted to using likes as bookmarks instead of just "likes" as there isn't another built in way for me to keep track of comment conversations I've joined.

ArtisanLydi

09 Apr, 2023, 3:54 pm

@Peripheral_Pillar yeah i dont mind if ppl do That, but its when they bookmark it, dont say anything, and know ive asked em not to, yk?

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