i reeally really wish i could just leave colors and never open this stupid game again at times.
while alot of good stuff has happened to me on here, the bad outweighs it.
siggh.
so sick of the constant venting on here, while its good to vent sometimes, doin it constantly is called ★TRAUMA DUMPING★ and while ive been guilty of this myself in the past, i try really hard to not vent so much.
im sorry your going through alot,
but i cant be your thera.pist either.
if i unfollow you , just assume-
The Colors! Gallery moderators will look at it as soon as possible.
Comments
05 Mar, 2023, 2:07 pm
that your vents were too much. i love helping others but
im here for actual art- not vents or feelings or sob stories or to be your personal thera.pist or a superhero to come save u from k!lling urself.
nothing against anyone personally.
quite frankly if it werent for like 10 ppl on here
id straight up leave and never return.
and ps. unless you are hails, inkdraws, ratsdoesart, platypunk00 , coffee dont spam me pls.
05 Mar, 2023, 2:09 pm
@_Coffee_ @rats_does_art i wont leave rn but i just wish ppl would stop the b s on here. ready to chuck my switch at a wall TvT
05 Mar, 2023, 2:14 pm
@_Coffee_ nah u dont,
its just hard to block cause like these be ppl i was fond of 10 seconds ago TwT
05 Mar, 2023, 2:15 pm
@rats_does_art fr tho! like man, i just wanna talk to my bf, my friends, and draw-
thats not that much to ask for!! Dx
05 Mar, 2023, 2:15 pm
@rats_does_art
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what they said.
literally the ppl in my bio are the only ppl thats keeping me here
05 Mar, 2023, 2:16 pm
@angel_supremacy same here. xc
05 Mar, 2023, 2:17 pm
Yeah, this place gets into drama and whatnot too often although it's meant for art. :/
05 Mar, 2023, 2:18 pm
@rats_does_art nooo your fine!! you dont do it that often!
i mean like the ppl who literally Every. fcking. pic. is a vent! like they dont even draw other than "vent" TwT
05 Mar, 2023, 2:18 pm
@ArtisanLydi
yeah-
also im curious to know if i vent like, a lot-
typically i dont but when i do, its usually very heavy-(idk what trauma dumping is)
05 Mar, 2023, 2:19 pm
@GeekyGamer156 fr! i wish the drama would just stop!!
05 Mar, 2023, 2:21 pm
You poor bean... *hands some muffins*
Honestly...? I've been feeling kinda like that too. These vents are getting out of hand. I love helping people, but I'm stretching myself thin emotionally, and I'm about ready to just unfollow everyone and to follow my friends and artists I look up to... I really hate being like that, especially hurt people, but it hurts me just as much, more when I have no idea how to help. That's also why Spooks_Crypt is a vent alt as well, so I dont bother anyone here...
I really hope you feel better sis.. and I wish I could help....
05 Mar, 2023, 2:21 pm
@angel_supremacy no, i dont think of you as venting alot! i dont mind ppl venting sometimes, i just dont like the constant venters on here!
trauma dumping is when you drop literally every issue in ur life onto others that you dont really know 'that well'
- like stuff you should tell an actual ther.apist but instead your telling a complete stranger! xc
05 Mar, 2023, 2:22 pm
@GeekyGamer156 Someone gets it! I've started some, and I still apologise, but this drama needs to stop.
05 Mar, 2023, 2:23 pm
@InkDrawz same here sib! i wanna help others but like, my mental health cant support ME let alone joe online-
05 Mar, 2023, 2:23 pm
@ArtisanLydi
oohh-
ok thank u for explaining trauma dump :''3
05 Mar, 2023, 2:25 pm
@angel_supremacy np! :D
05 Mar, 2023, 2:51 pm
Yupp.. same here. I'm hurting already from stuff at home and physically from this STUPID PERIOD. I'll GLADLY help people like you, Sol, Yarn, Firefly, etc. but I cant do much for other people and it's getting to me worse than the vents themselves....
05 Mar, 2023, 3:15 pm
NO!! plz bae dont leave!! <3
I need u!! <3
05 Mar, 2023, 3:20 pm
Bae Bae !!! <3 Plz Dont!!!
05 Mar, 2023, 3:22 pm
@InkDrawz same here bestie TwT
05 Mar, 2023, 3:23 pm
@Platypunk00 no im not leaving love! im not ever leaving you!! i just mean im so sick of colors cr.ap. xc
05 Mar, 2023, 3:24 pm
OH Thank God!!! <3 U had me sooo sooo worried hun!! <3<3<3
05 Mar, 2023, 3:25 pm
@Platypunk00 sorry hun i didnt mean to worry you!! Dx
i love you! <3
05 Mar, 2023, 3:44 pm
@Glory_10 i wont, dont worry! just needed to talk about it, mostly!
05 Mar, 2023, 3:55 pm
@ArtisanLydi I know what you mean! Like why can't people just draw art instead of venting? T-T And I'm sorry if I've vented before, I do try not to. >_< But Colors really wouldn't be the same without you. You've been so kind to everyone! ^-^
05 Mar, 2023, 4:00 pm
@Heroine-of-Winds aww tysm! and noo you dont vent almost at all! i vent more than you do!! xD
i dont mind ppl venting/ or helping my friends so much, i just hate it when ppl do nothing BUT vent! like i know life sucks sometimes- but this IS an ART app!! lol TvT
and i hate saying that too cause i dont like being harsh/mean to ppl who obviously need help! xc
05 Mar, 2023, 4:04 pm
You're welcome! Ok good, I hope I don't.
And yes! Same here, like if it's your friend that needs to vent and they don't do it very often, then that's fine, but not people that vent 24/7!! And yes!! This is a DRAWING app, not for ranting T-T
And you're not being mean! That's just how it is, anyone would get annoyed at that, I know I do! n_n
05 Mar, 2023, 4:11 pm
tysm for understanding @Heroine-of-Winds !!
it seems like colors gets harder to deal with daily!
hopefully unfollowing some ppl will help me see less of that!! TvT
05 Mar, 2023, 4:53 pm
Yw!! Yeah, it's getting pretty bad. Hopefully unfollowing people will help you! :)
05 Mar, 2023, 6:36 pm
@InkDrawz @ArtisanLydi who's azz needs to be beat-eth? :>
05 Mar, 2023, 6:37 pm
@Strings_Again nah it really aint anyone in particular, its more like the whole group of colors ppl lol TwT
05 Mar, 2023, 6:39 pm
@ArtisanLydi so I can 'collectivley' whoop azz? :>
05 Mar, 2023, 6:40 pm
@Strings_Again yEs?! gOoDlUcK iG-
05 Mar, 2023, 8:04 pm
yeah I understand abt the too much venting. on colors I just want to see art, and make a few friends every now and then. I love ur art btw!!
05 Mar, 2023, 9:01 pm
@ChromeWolf thanks for the advice!!
05 Mar, 2023, 9:02 pm
@Eevee_Boba tysm!! and yeah i agree! TwT
06 Mar, 2023, 4:23 am
Just ignore them, and you'll be ignored. Simple as that. Tbh, I never see any "vent" posts, save yours (no offense)
Someone making vent posts? don't tell them to stop, unfollow or leave 'em be, and you can draw, and talk to your friends to your hearts content.
06 Mar, 2023, 9:17 am
@Wind_Waker yeah i unfollowed like 100 ppl-
makes me feel bad to not make them feel better, but i just cant. TwT
06 Mar, 2023, 9:19 am
@Wind_Waker and normally i do just ignore em, but when your whole feed is vents its kinda hard to! xD
07 Mar, 2023, 12:48 am
Yeah, it's really bad. I mostly stopped jumping into New Scribbles because that's where they all seem to land. This site is for art. Not venting.
It's part of the reason why I unfollowed about fifty people (That and my choice to mostly not follow people if I can't speak their language).
And you can report the SH/KYS vents. Unfortunately I've seen a lot of stupid petty vents that are really just little kids overreacting and being too obsessed with the moment or something. Sometimes I even try to find a post where they say they're under 13 so I can get rid of them.
Even then, a lot of people defend those who post a lot of vents, claiming Colors to be their only place to vent at. There's probably somebody in real-life who can actually or even willingly handle them. They just have to find one. If they can't they don't have good friends, or they're not close enough to do that. (Or they're using that friend solely to vent to. Then that's on them.)
If you find somebody here who will willingly listen to your vents, go ahead, talk to them. You don't need to announce it to the public. Put it on NSFW or an account specifically for venting. Contact them on a site that allows private chatting. Get their email or something, if you really think you can trust each other with it.
Vents. That's why I'm mostly not here right now.
I wanna leave sometimes too.
(This an evaluation/opinion/persuasive[?] essay, not an attempt at venting about vents. Really sorry if it looks like that. I'll delete it if it does. Or you can.)
I also once found an old satire post about vents/rants. I kinda wanna show it to you. Do you mind? :D
07 Mar, 2023, 12:53 am
@Unaone no go ahead- id like to see it!
and i totally agree!! i still vent on here my fair share, partly since i dont have someone irl to talk to bout it, but it really dosent excuse it! for me or anyone else- ITS. FREAKIN. INCONSIDERATE.! like bruh i came here to draw- not save them from k!lling themselves!! TwT
07 Mar, 2023, 1:06 am
I just rewatched it and it's mostly about rants about the 2013 Colors Gallery. It's still funny, but most of the rants it parodies are controlled now (ponies, NSFW, etc.). There was some tracing drama recently so there's still some stuff that applies.
Uh, still wanna see it?
07 Mar, 2023, 1:08 am
@Unaone yes please! if you could tag me that'd be great!
but fr, all the drama and vents on here gotta stop!! TwT