Before I start this message, I just want to say that your mental health matters, and I am just pointing out how i grew up, which is a household that is very blunt, and we say things how they are.

I understand everyone is going through their own shit that they need to cope with. What I don't like is when I genuinely ask what is wrong, the response is just nothing but self-pity. What's worse is when someone tells me, "no one understands me". First of all, that is fucking bullshit. At least ONE person knows what you are going through. And I don't appreciate a whole speech as to why I should pity you. I am not going to fucking do that. I was NEVER raised or taught to pity someone. You are not made of fucking glass, you hear me? So I am not going to treat you as if you are. I genuinely want to help others out with their problems, but if you only want to claim self-pity just so you can have attention, FORGET IT!! I have never and will never fall for that game. If you have something serious that you are willing to talk about, then fine. I respect that you are willing to open up, and we can have a discussion. I'm not a professional therapist, but I can do the best I can to give advice and suggestions. But know this, I will say it how it is. Blunt and simple.

Just remember, don't fuck with my emotions and don't take my willingness to listen for granted. Not everyone is like this