so!! my homo/transphobic aunt wants to come to my birthday party
.... i rly dont wanna deal with her sh!t but shes been feeling down recently and she asked to go
what should i do..? i love her but... this is the first birthday ill be able to have using my real name and gender..
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07 Jan, 2020, 6:10 am
she knows..! or. well. i came out to her one (1) time a few years ago and she said i was a girl and i IMMEDIATELY went back into the closet with her
i feel like i should set rules to use my real name and pronouns but idk if thats unreasonable or not... i love her to bits and i *want* her there but i wouldnt be comfortable with deadnaming and misgendering so its hard to decide
07 Jan, 2020, 8:27 am
i wouldnt invite her imo, but as Eden said, maybe try and see if she will use your proper gender/name? and if not then just call her by the wrong gender and name to show her how it feels