ex friend said he was 'joking around' about making fun of my trans identity and my masculinity. saying 'boys don't wear nail polish' and 'you may feel masculine, but you're still a girl'. i don't want those gender-role-confoming sh!theads in my life. too toxic, and i have have better things to do anyway, like care for my baby Jax and my friends. they care, and that matters to me more than anything at this point