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31 Mar, 2019, 1:38 am
sexually doesnt matter, as long as you dont go harrassing each other for no reason, im pansexual. But i will say everyone has different ideas and how they look at things, i hate homophobs but i guess if your nice about your reasons i can grow go like you, this is such a stupid thing to fight over lmao
21 Apr, 2019, 1:36 am
i don't know i just work here -
jk, i started out thinking i was ace, then lesbian. i came out but now im trans and gay so im the total opposite. it's weird
02 Jun, 2019, 7:16 pm
Honestly ive always felt attraction to both genders, I didnt realize that wasnt normal until i was like 10. My parents found out when I turned 13, their reaction was okay i guess my mom is pretty religious so i didnt expect much from her she'll ocasionally ask if I still swing both ways or bring up how she wouldnt go to my wedding if I married a girl pretty normal stuff but it still hurts
09 Aug, 2019, 4:37 am
my parents have always raised me and my brother to be accepting of this kinda stuff, but i never grew up with it all kinda in my face
but ever since kindegarden i always felt like maybe i was ment to be with ladies
and so in 6th grade i got a gf
and just recently i figured out that i wasnt a butch lesb, i was a trans guy. im pretty sure im pan, but im still trying to work things out. my mom thinks im too young to be trans but shes still trying to find help for me
01 Jun, 2020, 4:38 pm
I just know im NOT STRAIGHT (and if i end up being straight once i discover myself then that'll be wacky).
I would consider myself a Pan-romantic Ace. My sexuality swings around like a fuc.king roller coaster man. And im genderfluid. <3 HAPPY PRIDE MONTH <3 get clapped homophobes
21 Feb, 2022, 6:38 pm
I am bi
06 May, 2022, 3:30 am
im ******** and **********
06 May, 2022, 3:32 am
omg bi.****** and demi.******
15 Jun, 2022, 3:20 am
well.. prepare for this rant..
15 Jun, 2022, 3:27 am
at first i thought i was le$bian, then i thought i was bi then i started to think maybe i wasnt attracted to anyone , so for a while i was aro ace, then i thought i was demi$exual and bi then i was bi and ace, then i had finally found out im pan and a demigirl , this all started 1 year ago, also my parents are extremely ********** so i cant come out even if i wanted.
15 Jun, 2022, 3:28 am
h0 m0 phobic
16 Jun, 2022, 1:45 am
Im Bi.
I once had a crush on this boy.
Then, we played truth or dare.
He picked truth.
I asked:
"Who's your crush?"
You know, 13 year old girls do that.
He replied:
(insert new crushs name)
I had NO idea who that was.
I met her... I felt attracted.
I mean..
I thought I was straight.
But..??
Am I Les bian?
No..
I had a huge crush.
Im still not sure if 100% Im Bi, but Im 99% sure.
I've always really felt attracted to both genders.
Just, never reconigis it.
16 Jun, 2022, 1:45 am
(Dont tell my parents)
10 Jul, 2022, 2:03 pm
lets see, thought i was bi for a day till i found Pan fit the discription better, i think of myself as artificial Ace. i know Ace$exual has diffrent meaning and i check those, however i still have to deal with the H0rny from time to time instead of never. after about a year i was caught and mom & dad took my eletricals. wouldn't've been a big deal if i hadnt aquired a bf long distance. longest 94 days of my life, through luck i managed to contact him and get my comuter bit back for internet, through a great friend he gifted me his spare phone after i told him why i dont have one. i didnt ask for it he just suprised me with it. that brings us to now. im waiting, im stoic, and no trust amoung the parents or much anyone else. my sister is cool though.
08 Oct, 2022, 1:35 am
hello its hard to explain but im genderfluid , lesbien , gay and bi! @20sparklove
03 Dec, 2022, 12:31 pm
@-CannabisCrossing- yeah kinda same here. im still qeustioning my $exutity currently.
12 Dec, 2022, 3:50 am
so, i stated feeling atracted to females at 3rd grade and thought i was les. but in around 5th or 6th grade i felt like i could be bi because i felt attracted to a guy. a yr later i noticed i was pan and i was happy abt it. i came out to my followers on tiktok but go nothing but hate. i came out to my dad and he is kinda **** phobic. no biggie tho. i came out to my mom in 3rd grade when again, i thought i was les. she seemed happy much and said she was pan! i never said to my mom that was les.
12 Dec, 2022, 3:52 am
pan*
12 Dec, 2022, 3:55 am
when i came out to my brothers, they did not seem chill abt it. started asking me awkward questions like what i would s3xuâłlÿ do w/ a girl. we were in 5th so it was weird? found out a month later that he was joking ig? my friends dont support me i think. anyways, dont make fun of meh
25 Dec, 2022, 6:18 am
oh boy,, well i was a srt8 ally, lesbian, pan, genderfluid and pan, then trns and bi, then a lesbian demigirl, trans and mlm, then non-binary and nblm. then trans ane mlm. then agender and nblm, thenn agender qnd ********** qnd im nlw agender pan, catgender ad polyam! (they/it/he/meow/purr <3)
25 Dec, 2022, 6:18 am
poly*
25 Dec, 2022, 6:23 am
so one time my mum was driving me home from school, and i told i was non-binary (when i was nb and nlm) she told me abt whqt made a boy and girl, and that theres only 2 genders. but kinda in a nice way??
we didnt talk for the rest of the ride, but when we got to walmart she sqid ''lets go girl''
like btch- i just told im not one :/
so im technicaly closeted again??
also today i tqlk3d to my cousin for the first time. (trans ftm and bi i th8nk) so yea?
stay safe yall! ilysmm <3 /p /gen
23 Jan, 2023, 11:42 am
@ColorsForPride i think im bi.
14 Feb, 2023, 7:18 am
im ace/ho.mo.romantic and im demigirl, ghost, galaxy, and poison gender!
31 Mar, 2023, 2:27 am
My identity just popped up as trns cause magic, but not everyone(family/some friends) were accepting bout it so i started identifying as genderfluid to save some trouble which didn't help, my peference toward people smashed in face as pan and poly hurt like h*ll but in the end love is love and no one tells you your identity but you. :)
15 Apr, 2023, 1:25 pm
update: so i been figuring it out for a while now and i think i might be aromantic/lesbian.
31 May, 2023, 8:02 pm
i figured out that i was bi and poly when both of my female bff's said that they had a cruwh on and eachother at the time i was straight, but thought " ya know im gonna try it out" we are no longer together but one of tehem and i have been off and on. I just old her that i liked a guy though
14 Jun, 2023, 11:27 am
This Was all in a two year radiace btw. Thought i was pan for half a year, then pan ace. At some point bi? I watched the bay-max show on disney+, rellized i was trans-masc mlm after doing research and such. Im also demiaroace, nonbinary and Xenogender. As for coming out? I would want to, i have attempted to, but hearing some of the things thet talk about trans and such, im very unsure, so no, not yet.
14 Jun, 2023, 11:28 am
My parents, i meant, i havnt came out to them
30 Jun, 2023, 2:44 pm
I'm bi but im not ready to tell my parents
04 Jul, 2023, 8:14 am
for my gender, i never really knew i COULD be somethng differemt until around 8th grade, then i thought i was trans but wa like nah thats too much im genderfluid but then a year later i wa trans again and then at the start of 11th grade i realized i was actually a demiboy. still in the closet tho bc my family is ether too transphobic or didnt believe me. like, how am i old enough to drive but not old enough to chose how i want to be called ? -_-
16 Jul, 2023, 5:52 am
peepee
-gay person
15 Oct, 2023, 7:12 pm
im pan :P
29 Oct, 2023, 11:16 am
i'm staight and i respect gays
22 Jan, 2024, 3:04 am
im genderfluid :D
26 Jan, 2024, 5:39 am
I came out to my dad as non-binary when I was 12, his response WAS LITERALLY "(Insert long pause here) oooookay." There was a long silence. Then, he says "So anyway, your great aunt has cancer." FUNNIEST AND MOST DEPRESSING GARBAGE I'VE DEALT WITH.
10 Mar, 2024, 2:03 am
@-YandereJakey- i just liked girls and boys
and then i just got offended whn ppl called me she/her and he/him so im lik, my promouns are they/them :thumbsup:
10 Mar, 2024, 2:35 am
@-YandereJakey- ye :3
10 Mar, 2024, 3:02 am
@-YandereJakey-
i was afraid of seggs since i was a kid lol
also i've never felt romantic attraction to anyone who is real, and the thought disgusts me
10 Mar, 2024, 8:32 am
@-YandereJakey-
I simp for loads of ppl, dw, you're not the only one :L
10 Mar, 2024, 8:36 am
@-YandereJakey-
I found out cause I met you
Thats the only reason :0
10 Mar, 2024, 3:40 pm
@-YandereJakey-
REALLY??? LMFAOO-
10 Mar, 2024, 5:57 pm
@-YandereJakey-
:astonished:
11 Apr, 2024, 7:45 pm
i recently came out as non-binary
and had to tell my parents
they looked at me and said
...
my dad seemed..confused
but
my mom just nodded and said
''good job sweetheart''
my vrchat sister was happy bc shes non-binary as well
:D
im proud of myself
FOR ONCEE
07 Jul, 2024, 7:28 am
so im non-binary and lesbian and i came out to my dad but not my mom and this is how it went (i havent told him im non-binary yet btw
*me and my dad just chilling in the car*
me: dad im gąy
my dad: cool
12 Jul, 2024, 4:33 am
me: '' Guess my secret.''
brother: '' ur part of pride.''
me: ''which one?''
brother: '' non- binary?''
me: '' no.''
brother: '' omni?''
me: ''yeyessssss.... dont tell mom :sweat:''
hehe my story
31 Jul, 2024, 4:20 pm
I came out as trans masc by singing to my family "BILL NYE I AM A GUY" XD
06 Aug, 2024, 4:33 pm
lesbian but haven't parents yet cuz theyd burn m at stake. not joking theyd thnk im a unholy witch.
21 Aug, 2024, 6:21 pm
I was like "I'm Panromantic because I love everyone ROMANTICALY, not sěxual. But when I realized you can be Asęxual AND Panromantic, I was like ya that's me. I'm Asęxual because I don't like the sěxual part ew.
well ya
25 Aug, 2024, 1:21 pm
im bi,
but im questioning now, im bi? i think im bi but if i am pan? or ace? idk but i think im discovering myself this days. so ye, im bi but i want some time for think
30 Nov, 2024, 9:23 am
im pan, originally bi..i never came out to my parents becase there ******ðbíç and highly into religion but iv toold my friends and there mostly chill with my choice which regains my hope in humanity
30 Dec, 2024, 2:48 pm
im a demigirl lesbian
21 Jan, 2025, 7:56 pm
I'm straight and I know bc that's what's right. :thumbsup:
28 Feb, 2025, 7:40 am
@splatfan92 dangggg
10 Mar, 2025, 6:39 am
Ugghhh..... I'll just come out and say it. I, uh... I'm demisèxual and demigirl.... :blush: THERE I SAID IT! I haven't told anyone, I'm too scared at the moment. any advice?