(unrelated to last post)
this is going to sound reeally dumb but i'm too nervous to tell my parents what kind of haircut i want. like, id rather come out than that and thats saying a lot.
i'm not even entirely sure what i want but i dont like my hair where its at and especially after that bad haircut... and school's starting soon.. i dont want to look like this anymore but my dad was against me getting short hair in the first place. The first haircut I got after it was already short he was kind of mad that I didn't want to grow it out again. When i told him earlier i wanted another haircut he said "Isn't your hair short enough already?". He thinks it makes me look too much like a boy or a lesbian (cough) and my dad is borderline homophobic. He's always been against dying hair unnatural colors or piercings or short hair like mine. And not to be a stereotypical but i want all of those
I dont know. this is dumb. I just need to tell him i want my hair super short and a part of it dyed blue..
but he could reject it and i'd be stuck with this hair the whole school year
gjdfhjghd this is so dumb why am i like this help #vent #ssbynder
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20 Aug, 2018, 10:38 pm
It´s not dumb, you want your father to accept the real you, and your hair is just another part of you.
21 Aug, 2018, 12:30 am
Uh, this is gonna sound like a really stupid idea, but maybe just uhh, just do it..? That way yeah you might get grounded but at least your dad can't do anything about it lol
But, uhm,,
Maybe when you come out, (assuming you want to) you should bring the hair up as well-
I dunno, I'm bad at this stuff
21 Aug, 2018, 5:21 am
It doesn't seem dumb to me, I think it's pretty reasonable.
Then again I'm not a reasonable person