I'VE FAILED!!! by VelvetBlue

WHY IS IT SO HARD FOR ME!? THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE A GIRL, IT'S FREAKIN ADORABLE BUT I WANT THIS CHARACTER TO BE MALE SO BADLY, I LITERALLY CAN'T RESIST A BISHI!! :'y i already know the answer but pls help me, what gender do you think this bab would be? Please.

#RuiMC #MilkChanOC

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painted on a Nintendo 3DS
16 Aug, 2017, 5:55 am
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TheUn-noticedKohai

16 Aug, 2017, 5:57 am

to me it comes off very feminine lol

Nyctophilia

16 Aug, 2017, 5:59 am

Make her a trap :y I love traps

Nyctophilia

16 Aug, 2017, 5:59 am

She is smexy trap *steals & flees* xD

Nyctophilia

16 Aug, 2017, 6:00 am

Him or her* surry m8 :'y I failed

Milk-and-cookies

16 Aug, 2017, 6:08 am

@Ash I could actually agree with the gender queer, she? doesn't really care what gender people call her?. (i add question marks because i still confused)

@Kohai xD honestly i agree, Ru (Characters name) looks really feminine, :u i was creating a girl when i decided to make ru... should prolly stick with that.

@Alex xD that's what i was going for when i started creating her, i wanted to make a trap character, :'u but somehow i ended up getting indecisive about her gender. xD and naw you didn't fail, i think i might just end up going for what i originally planned.

VelvetBlue

16 Aug, 2017, 6:16 am

'-' i'm honestly surprised... usually when i post things like this i end up still being indecisive about what i want to do. :y this actually helped me, a lot. Thank you so much everyone. (xD i only posted this a few minutes ago, i decided unexpectedly fast thanks to you all)

:'u now i need to think whether to put her in amoura or not.

Hollow_Souls

16 Aug, 2017, 6:21 am

Hdbdudbdjd must be male do it e.e

Hollow_Souls

16 Aug, 2017, 6:22 am

But lol seems like you already chose xD

Milk-and-cookies

16 Aug, 2017, 6:24 am

XD Ye, Ruhi's gonna be a girl like i originally planned. :'u tho i want to make male trap now to. @Max

Milk-and-cookies

16 Aug, 2017, 7:07 am

Why would i do that?
Trap is just an anime term used for someone who looks like the opposite gender, it's kinda like opening a treasure chest only to find out it wasn't, it was a "trap", basically it means it's a trick?
:'u un...less, you didn't mean you didn't understand the meaning but something else?

xD you don't have to be nerveous about saying your opinion tho, it's fine ash.

Milk-and-cookies

16 Aug, 2017, 7:34 am

i don't end friendships on disagreements.

i'ma try to put this in a way that makes sense best i can. it's like this.

People are killed over someone not getting a job, or over a woman being pregnant, but it doesn't make the words involved with those things inherently bad. ok no, this isn't the right way to aproach this.

People use words that others don't agree with, i don't believe in jesus, but i've never condemned or thought someone wrong for saying it, just because i as an individual doesn't like something doesn't mean i should put down other for using the word. it's up to them to believe what they want to believe, not me. the person isn't inherently bad because they don't agree with my beliefs.

Same thing in this situation, i use the word "trap" happily without worry. (obviously thats not an excuse for murder, a person still a person no matter what) but if someone else doesn't like the word then by all means don't use the word, no one should be forced to do or not do something.
not sure if i worded what i meant to say correctly but i mean like, any word can be bad or good depending on context, or even depending on person.

Milk-and-cookies

16 Aug, 2017, 7:42 am

Uhhg i can't find a way to word this right.

Like, just because someone says something different doesn't mean you should call them wrong or say their wronging you? (for lack of better words) After all the most important beliefs are your own, changing another to think your way doesn't mean good, it just means you don.t want to accept those that are different.

Tho know that i am sorry, i hope this comment didn't offend you, & if it did i'm sorry for that as well.

:'u i wanted to find a none serious more jokingly way to word this. (Cause people usually think i'm mad when i write serious) but i couldn't really think of any. I hope you don't feel you have to avoid me cause of this.

Milk-and-cookies

16 Aug, 2017, 7:52 am

(Op, didn't see your comment at first)
No no it's fine ash, you didn.t cause anything, people are always going to get offended by pretty much anything. thats unavoidable. i accept that.

;-; if you need to vent i'm fine with listening tho.

THIS WAS SUPER DIFFICULT TO WORD THO.

Milk-and-cookies

16 Aug, 2017, 7:53 am

NOT YOU I MEAN! Just people out there in the world. :'u slap me if i'm making this worse.

Milk-and-cookies

16 Aug, 2017, 7:58 am

Oh well, welp on a less serious note i hope to have your girl done by tomorrow, :y you've been so excited about her & i really wanna finish her soon for you.

Milk-and-cookies

16 Aug, 2017, 8:01 am

x3 ye, thats makes bodily hormones go crazy, i get more irratible (spell) on those days.

Milk-and-cookies

16 Aug, 2017, 8:17 am

Mines last for a whole week, so same. :'u it's to darn heavy.
Speaking of sleep it's 4am here. i should prolly do that.

I hope so, :'u i wanna try my best.

Demon Angel

17 Aug, 2017, 2:52 am

I think girl, but there are many ways to make it more male if you want such as jaw line or more intense look like thick eye brows and darker around the eyes. To me I think it looks nice how you have it now ,but it's really up to what you want it to be.

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