Cant really explain myself well here like I can in person. When I get like this finding the right words get really hard to just do in general..

Just curl up in my blanket and sleep for ever.

I know the feeling kohai. I'm naturally a sweet crybaby who wants to be friends with everyone. And when they don't like me anymore,It makes me feel guilty for what I've done to make them dislike me.
I like to make people happy as well,but when It doesn't happen,I just take a deep breathe,think about what I've done wrong and look at what they done wrong. If I know it's not my fault,I would still cry but will try to persuade myself that it's not my fault. And if it's my fault,I take responsibility. I also go talk to people who will understand me and give me some tips. For example, I'm known for being direct and that sometimes makes people dislike me because the way I word things and it makes me feel guilty,and I'll start disliking myself.

What I'm saying here is,it's ok to feel guilty for what you've done,you learn from your mistakes. If it's not your fault,don't bring yourself down so much. Yes,it hurts,but sometime you gonna have to cope with things,knowing not everyone is going to be please by you. If they are not pleased by you,find others that will be.
If this info doesn't help then I understand,just hope you feel better. :')

hey, everyone feels down sometimes. <:)
my sugestion, go do something you love to do. :)

Your sad cause your always pushing your happiness back for the sake of others, you let others move ahead of you in line but because you do you never get to have the thing you want. i understand this so well you don't even know.

The thoughts go through your head "I don't want anyone to be down because of me" And people say "You can't please everyone". But what about the question as to "Why should i try please everyone? am i really getting back anything from this, is this actually worth it? Do i honestly feel better about myself by doing this? Do i really want to do this?"

People pleasing is a problem... a very bad problem, it leads to unhappiness, exhaustion, loss of self worth. it's just not a good thing. It's something that takes away your freedom, you never feel free, like you have no choices in life. Like your a caged bird doing tricks to make others happy... The first step is saying no, once you do it once it feels better, once you have your own free will it's like you can-

Finally spread your wings & take off towards the sky. do you want to continue being a caged show bird? Or do you want to touch the clouds, smell the roses, basically be free?

:'u welp no idea how that long sentense is going to translate to... well, anyone really, but i said what i had to say, hope i helped in some way, if i didn't then at least i tried my best?

Basically hope you feel better & realize you should take what you want a lot more often?

:'u not sure how good i am at speeches like this.

I hope you feel better soon. But pleasing everyone really is impossible. Helping people is all well and good, but you should do things for yourself every once in awhile. You'll be happier for it. I hope that makes sense. ^-^'

I am so sorry I came to this thing late! I fell asleep early yesterday D:
I understand how you feel. Everything in your life seems perfect. Your parents love you. Your colors friends love you. But for some reason you still feel sad. Now, it could be your just going through a blue period of your life, everyone has those sometimes. But you also have to take into the fact that you just recently moved from the place you grew up all your life. It feels as though you have left all your fond memories behind. I moved from where I originally lived and this feeling came to me as well. It seems so long ago, but I do remember those feelings. They are downright confusing.

But there is also a chance that your a tad stressed about something in the world. Whether its hearing stuff about politics or stuff overseas or even the troubles that have popped up occasionally in Destria. It may be that you are feeling obligated to direct a majority of your attention to destria, when you in actuality, want to do something else. My suggestion is to do something that is out of the norm from your usual daily routine. Maybe go to the library and read. Go to the mall with a close friend and eat/talk etc. Or go bike riding. Write poetry while it rains, something. Start playing an instrument/new instrument. :D

I am sorry you feel bad, but all my other points aside, you might just feel sad. And that sometimes in unavoidable. Maybe your picking up on something between the lines? Or maybe your just sad. I get that all the time. I just try my best to do stuff to get my mind off it. Sometime it works, and sometimes not. But what matters is that usually sadness with no actual cause goes away faster than other forms of sadness. I know you'll pull through!

I try to please people by meeting them halfway on something. A compromise. I personally do not find it as a problem to to please others. I do it all the time. But the question is: To what lengths do I go to in the efforts TO please someone. Is what I am doing to please them not going to upset someone else? Or is it going to harm me in anyway. As long as the thing you are doing to make someone else happy is not harming you in anyway, it is fine to do so. But then on the other token, you must do things that make you happy. And if pleasing others makes you feel happy, then by all means don't stop. But if helping people tires you out or distracts you from other things..... Maybe start taking some free time to just relax. Drink some sweet beverages. Watch some good movies/TVshows/Cartoons/Anime/etc and hang out with friends or family. Or if alone time is something you lack, go huddle yourself up in bed and enjoy a good book or two. Or maybe an online game or video game. ^0^

Re-No need to worry about that! It is good to confide in someone! I do not care how long the post is, I will read it through and through and reply to it! I am here to help when I can. What actually surprised me is how identical your problem is to mine xD I often get down for no explainable reason. And only later on in the future when I look back do I realize something I never realized before :-;

If you ever want to ramble, Ramble on my paintings. Its is not like I am a stranger to reading xD As it were, I would hardly call what you did a ramble. You were just talkin
And I was listenin! :D I'm here for ya ^0^

I feel the same way ;-; and like the truth is hard and it hurts :' the fact that I keep trying only hurts more knowing that nothing can be done but like you want to care and care too much? I feel it all the time :'D I hope you get better :'0 you are an amazing person and deserve to be happy!

Re: You're welcome. I hope I could help at least a little bit. ^-^'

Re:// I'm glad your feeling better :')
I like to sugar coat things too,trust me xD
But your welcome, I'm glad to help ^^

re: no prob. :)
make time for the stuff you want to do. everyone needs that on ocassion. :)