I remember you said you except any request given, but declining is important for several reasons.
Constantly having ppl request things from you can be very stressing.
You nvr get the chance to draw what you want, and usually the last thing other ppl think about is what you want.
Drawing is fun, but it takes a LOT of work, work that many will take for granted, they must understand that drawing for yrself is just if not more important so that you can keep it fun.
If there's something you don't feel like doing then go ahead and decline, drawing is hard, & can become stressful if every second someone is asking you. 'Hey, i know you prolly have a bunch of other things you really wanna draw, but can you draw my thing instead?'
That doesn't mean eveyone thinks like that, but aren't they following you for what YOU like to draw? not what they want to see you to draw?
Re: Sweety, if it was to much work for me or a waste of my time, i would've decline. The thing i'm doing has to be just as fun & rewarding for me as it'll be for the requester, or else how will i share in their joy?
I love creating children & i love seeing how happy ppl get when they've recieved their child from me, that something i created can make someone happy.
Your happiness is just as important as everyone else's, take a break when you need. don't do it if you don't want to. Even cry if you need to.
I can tell when something's said out of dipression, so im still doing your request. even if i can't actually see yr smile, i still want to imagine it, that same smile i get when someone makes something for me, weather by suprise, request, or even them asking me if i want this, i want you to feel those same feelings.
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23 Oct, 2016, 2:07 pm
I remember you said you except any request given, but declining is important for several reasons.
Constantly having ppl request things from you can be very stressing.
You nvr get the chance to draw what you want, and usually the last thing other ppl think about is what you want.
Drawing is fun, but it takes a LOT of work, work that many will take for granted, they must understand that drawing for yrself is just if not more important so that you can keep it fun.
23 Oct, 2016, 2:11 pm
If there's something you don't feel like doing then go ahead and decline, drawing is hard, & can become stressful if every second someone is asking you. 'Hey, i know you prolly have a bunch of other things you really wanna draw, but can you draw my thing instead?'
That doesn't mean eveyone thinks like that, but aren't they following you for what YOU like to draw? not what they want to see you to draw?
23 Oct, 2016, 2:18 pm
Re: Sweety, if it was to much work for me or a waste of my time, i would've decline. The thing i'm doing has to be just as fun & rewarding for me as it'll be for the requester, or else how will i share in their joy?
I love creating children & i love seeing how happy ppl get when they've recieved their child from me, that something i created can make someone happy.
Your happiness is just as important as everyone else's, take a break when you need.
don't do it if you don't want to.
Even cry if you need to.
23 Oct, 2016, 2:25 pm
Sorry about rambling, but it's how i feel.
I can tell when something's said out of dipression, so im still doing your request. even if i can't actually see yr smile, i still want to imagine it, that same smile i get when someone makes something for me, weather by suprise, request, or even them asking me if i want this, i want you to feel those same feelings.
Sorry, still rambling...
23 Oct, 2016, 5:42 pm
Re: you should prolly take a break for now ari, i mean your best friend just died, it's best to be alone around in times like these.
23 Oct, 2016, 5:49 pm
And your not worth anything less than anyone else.