People will look for pretty much any excuse to bully someone, often just being different from them, so try not to take it personally. I've seen people bullied for something as superficial as hair color. In fact, she may not even care that you happen to be bisexual and just is using it as a reason to talk to you un a way that makes her feel better. Often times people bully because of self esteem issues. They don't feel good enough, so they think putting people down will make them feel better. Of course, it doesn't work and they only feel worse, but sometimes people get stuck in a cycle and don't know how to get out. She probably doesn't really hate you but hates herself or something in her life and has two options: keep that hate inside and hate herself, or push it outside onto someone else (although people can do both).
Ask yourself what you can do. There's of course the easy option, which is to remove her from your friend list in ACNL, but will you just stop thinking about her or will things feel unresolved? Also, will she just go on to bully others? On the other hand, if you feel you have the strength to do so, before deciding to remove her, you can try countering every negative thing she says with something positive. Emotions spread like fire. For example, when someone is angry, they can start yelling at someone else and make that person angry. But, kindness also spreads. If you try being kind and patient no matter what, she may learn and change, helping her, you and anyone else she meets. And, if not, at least you can say you tried and then when you remove her, you won't have unresolved issues that you keep thinking about. The choice is of course up to you.
no one has no bussiness bullien' someone fer such a foolish reason! do they claim to be christian? if so, there not! im a christian i would know! Jesus didnt hate those he didnt agree with, and niether do i, and niether should they! ets wrong to hate! fer any reason! and you are not a victim of hate, but a witness to someons sel degredation, have pity on their souls and wish them the best, because they need Jesus the most! hope i helped! Duke
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04 Sep, 2016, 10:43 pm
People will look for pretty much any excuse to bully someone, often just being different from them, so try not to take it personally. I've seen people bullied for something as superficial as hair color. In fact, she may not even care that you happen to be bisexual and just is using it as a reason to talk to you un a way that makes her feel better. Often times people bully because of self esteem issues. They don't feel good enough, so they think putting people down will make them feel better. Of course, it doesn't work and they only feel worse, but sometimes people get stuck in a cycle and don't know how to get out. She probably doesn't really hate you but hates herself or something in her life and has two options: keep that hate inside and hate herself, or push it outside onto someone else (although people can do both).
04 Sep, 2016, 10:49 pm
Ask yourself what you can do. There's of course the easy option, which is to remove her from your friend list in ACNL, but will you just stop thinking about her or will things feel unresolved? Also, will she just go on to bully others? On the other hand, if you feel you have the strength to do so, before deciding to remove her, you can try countering every negative thing she says with something positive. Emotions spread like fire. For example, when someone is angry, they can start yelling at someone else and make that person angry. But, kindness also spreads. If you try being kind and patient no matter what, she may learn and change, helping her, you and anyone else she meets. And, if not, at least you can say you tried and then when you remove her, you won't have unresolved issues that you keep thinking about. The choice is of course up to you.
05 Sep, 2016, 12:51 am
no one has no bussiness bullien' someone fer such a foolish reason! do they claim to be christian? if so, there not! im a christian i would know! Jesus didnt hate those he didnt agree with, and niether do i, and niether should they! ets wrong to hate! fer any reason! and you are not a victim of hate, but a witness to someons sel degredation, have pity on their souls and wish them the best, because they need Jesus the most!
hope i helped!
Duke
05 Sep, 2016, 3:21 am
Thank you for helping me! <3 :D
05 Sep, 2016, 8:44 am
You're welcome! :)
27 Nov, 2017, 5:02 am
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