Let's Help reshigal454! by Bully Free Zone

"I'm not sure if this is called bullying, but here we go:
I feel like I can't trust my best friend with photos that are not current or recently taken this year. My best friend showed my second, third, and fourth grade yearbook photo to some people in our History class. When I confronted her, she said...(similar quote)

'You looked hilarious!! You also showed my third grade picture.' UNDERLINE THIRD! Not second, or fourth. I feel like I can't trust her." (continued in comments)

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08 Jun, 2016, 10:17 pm
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Bully Free Zone

08 Jun, 2016, 10:21 pm

(continued from description) "I've changed my phone password from one she knew to a long one because she used to be able to look at my photos. I want to know how I can tell her to stop without her getting all sulky and mad. Thanks in advance :>"

INSTRUCTIONS: Comment below with advice for @reshigal454.

_Aria_

08 Jun, 2016, 11:20 pm

You can only ask her politely. If she really is your best friend, she'll understand.

GoastHauntsAll

08 Jun, 2016, 11:58 pm

yea, do wut you think is right...

Rogue Ranger

09 Jun, 2016, 2:31 am

If you're afraid of hurting her feelings and making her mad, it means you think she'll take it personally, so maybe try to make it less personal for her. You can say that you know it shouldn't hurt you but you're sensitive to her behavior and you can't help it, so because of your sensitivity she can help you out by being more respectful. That would make it feel less about her and more about you. If you just tell her to stop, she may think you're too sensitive, so you're beating her to it by saying you shouldn't feel so hurt but you can't help it. You pose it as your limitation more than her fault. Let her realize she was wrong. If she's really your friend, she'll be sympathetic to that.

reshigal454

12 Jun, 2016, 2:35 am

Thanks for your help! I have told her and she understood. :D

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