Let's Help (Anonymous)! by Bully Free Zone

"Uhh... this isn't really bullying but i really need your help with something...

I had this friend on a site that i got really attached to and actually started dating, but afer a while they broke off our whole relationship all together for some reason of them feeling stressed or something. This was last year and im still really attached to this person. I kinda stalk this person on a few sights now...i mean to just check on to see how this person is doing." (continued in comments)

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painted on a Nintendo 3DS
06 Mar, 2016, 10:47 pm
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Bully Free Zone

06 Mar, 2016, 10:55 pm

(continued from description) "This person is very unstable, delusional and really needs support? honestly, this person has another friend but i really think he won't do anything. uhh I really want to confort this person but this person, they blocked me on every site possible. I can't just try to forget or anything, I've tried everything like that, i think about this person and how much i really want to help them to the point I'm having trouble sleeping and dealing with every day activities. I'm really worried about them...

This person doesn't really like me anymore and i know if i try to speak to them they'll just say go away, or vent or something like that...their friend dosent like me that much at all either.

But I'm also really frustrated and mad this person, uhh..

Um i dont know how to put all this.. Can you guys help me? Sorry for not explaining very well um" (cont)

Bully Free Zone

06 Mar, 2016, 11:14 pm

"Also this is the first time I've cared about someone this much, I've never really liked anyone and ive normally just pretended to get along with everyone..but...

if i try and comfort this person i might end up hurting this person with my choice of words.. aghhhgh idk what to dooo"

INSTRUCTIONS: Comment below with advice for (anonymous).

DiamondKeys

07 Mar, 2016, 6:10 pm

Well, I would say to stay away from that person for a while. People need their space. I know you really want to help that person, and you can. It's just that you need to know when.
If hold something too tight, it might break. That's what the person might be feeling. Try to put yourself in that situation. You're unstable and want some time alone to put your thoughts in order, but there is this person that doesn't leave you alone and tries to keep talking even though you said, "Leave me alone" quite clearly. It gets annoyin even though you know that person doesn't mean any harm.

Let some time pass and try again. When you know that person wants to talk, hear everything he/she wants to say.
Just don't be too insistent and everything will be fine. Sometimes, people simply don't want help. You have to wait until they want it, but let them know you're always offering your help if they want it.

I think that's the only advice I can give. Other people might give you more options.

DiamondKeys

09 Mar, 2016, 3:45 am

I had no idea where to reply. If you check this, I replied on your latest painting. If you would rather want me to reply here, just say the word n_n.

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