I know how that feels. (I'm an aro/ace too btw)

btw this doesnt happen to ME very often, most of the people i tell are accepting, only a few people have responded like that ;v; but i see those red questions all the time, whether its to me or someone else :'v

aight anyway im gonna answer some of the questions bc why not!

'asexual means an organism that reproduces on its own, like a plant, its not a sexuality'

just look up the word on google :>
it has two meanings, one of them being a person who doesnt get sexual attraction

'youre too young to decide that!'

sexuality is fluid, it can change. its not a desicion that you have to stick with for the rest of your life. yeah it could change when im older and if it does thats fine.
and if a teenager said they were straight, would you tell them their too young to make that decision? nope

'you just havent gotten it yet, youll get sexual/romantic attraction when your older'

maybe i will! we cant tell the future. but as of now i dont, and i hope you can respect that. ;v;

(cont!!!)

'well, youre broken then'

dont say that to people..... thats just not accpetable really?? telling someone their broken for something as small as their sexuality??? sure, theres stuff wrong with all of us, but no one is broken :V i mean sure, you can
think that aroaces are broken, but why would you say that?? its mean and what is there to gain by saying that?

"thats a lie, your lying"

idk why id lie about something like this. and there isnt really a way to prove im not lying, so ok, you can think that if you want. but thats also something rude that you should keep to yourself :'o

'EVERYONE gets sexual/romantic attraction, so asexuality doesnt exsist'

thats just not true, sorry. if everyone did, why would the concept of asexuality even exsist, and why would so many people lie about it??? thats kinda like the people who say 'everyone was born with hetero attraction, and gay people are gay by choice, they just do it for attention'

(cont!!) ;v;

me: *finally finishes typing the last part*

internet: *communication error*

me: well FRUCK FRUCK DIDDLY DUCK

I feel the same way tbh
"one day you're gonna have to" how bout I just shove this pencil up your ass instead

[gotta retype that whole thing rip]

(OH i forgot to add this to 'youll get it when your older': theres many asexual adults, its not just teens!!! ;v;

'that doesnt exsist, EVERYONE gets sexual/romantic attraction'

thats just not true. if everyone experienced sexual/romantic attraction, why would the concept of asexuality even exsist?? and why would so many people say their asexual if it was a lie? i know i cant prove that asexuals exsist and you cant prove they dont but yeah. saying that everyone gets sexual/romantic attraction is like those people who say 'everyone was born with hetero attraction, gay people chose to be gay just for attention' and i mean, come on, we all know that statement is bigoted and false.

'thats just a stupid made up tumblr trend sexuality'

um no? there were people who didnt experience sexual/romantic attraction WAAAY before tumblr exsisted, but the term asexual didnt exsist back then, so they didnt identify themselves as so. (cont.)

(cont. from 'thats just a stupid made up tumblr trend sexuality')
but i mean, i see where your coming from i guess. theres many sexualities on tumblr that most people havent heard of. but theyre NOT fake!! theyre just overly specfic. and really, you shouldnt call them made up, thats pretty mean and its not that hard to just be accepting :'o

so yEAH i guess thats it!! that took WAAAAAAY longer then expected, but i feel like it needed to be said. if you have any questions feel free to ask!! ;w;

Tis how the world works.

Every little opinion you have that others don't means you freaking murdered Jesus.

Question:

Wouldn't you get lonely without someone to spend your days with?
or do you plan to like... have a room mate who you aren't in a relationship with?

yo same when I say i'm demi or I say I don't wanna have kids like ok... then what is the age I can decide? why would I be able to decide that age? why are you telling me how to live my life yo

awww im sorry

If aro/ace people are fake then why are they on an official definition page for se.xualities and attractions riddle me that-

@revo

uMMmM well i dont want to be alone but the thought of getting married makes me wanna barf sO i guess id want to live with a roomate or a few cats and dogs?? (wait not a few cats and dogs, aLOT OF CATS AND DOGS)

@revo

do u mean like, people having negative opinions about asexuality :0
bc its fine to have those, but its not ok to be rude and hurtful about them
like as an example, lets say u really like john cena. someone comes up to u and screams 'I HATE JOHN CENA HE SUCKS' its fine to hate john cena and think he sucks, but its rude and unnessesary to say that to someone who loves john cena

that was a really dumb analogy but

yeah <xD

I hate when that happens to another aro/ace person. OUR S3X LIFE IS NOT OF THEIR INTEREST GOD.

@wingless

yes omg!!! i dont understand ill just be like 'im ace' and someone will pop out of a bush screamin 'NO THAT IS NOT OK'

and its just like

woah??? did i ask?? :v

HAHAHAHA BYE

@Foxgurl here's an answer to ur question on @/chiisai_Hoshi's post

same happens to me, I'm definitely old enough to decide that i am aroace. im also Christian, and Catholic, so ppl think I'll be rude to them bc of that, but im not like that, im all good with ppl from all races, spectrums, communities and the like. idk why i'm made fun of just bc of how i am.