Yeah, I know what that's like, I was friends with a bully long ago, and she were the only person that talked to me so I just defended her... Of course I haven't seen her since.

Re: I see, that sucks... I've been hated all my life so I can tell that must be horrible.

Re: Well thanks, you're an amazing friend too. And yeah... I don't know how they could either. And if you don't mind, can I vent to you the things going on lately with me?

That sucks, I have had people hate me before as well but I had no clue why they did. those people should not hate you, but rather look at you in a different way as in you are a loyal person who defends your friends.

Re: Alrighty then... So I have been talking to the love of my life a lot, and we kinda talk about how we want to have s.ex... But now I'm not so sure that I want to, and I started talking to a cousin of mine on facebook and he likes me in a romantic way and I like him too... he told me to send him pics, and I did. (he returned the favor by sending pics of himself to me as well...) And now I feel bad because I might be giving him false hopes because I still love the other guy and my heart doesn't know what to do! I'm so utterly confused by the fact that I like two guys and I'm falling apart...

Re: Yeah, I kmow for sure that he'd respect my opinion but he really needs it with how much I give him bo.ners... Anyway, in the past I had to choose between Jay, the adult, and Marcus, the guy my age... I loved both of them so much, I kept going back and forth with them and then they just kept getting their feelings hurt by that so they beat me up with cruel words, I don't think I should be given the power to choose a guy to be with... I'll mess things up again.

It's so sad that we as a species have reached a point where kindness and joy is treated as some sort of crime if it's for the "wrong" person.

I'm so sorry you and your friend had to go through this...