"I don't know if this is really a bullying issue, but it's bothering me so much I can't stand it... In my groups of friends I'm usually the 'innocent' one, I don't understand dirty jokes and comments, so I'm never really included in conversations.. Even when the topic has nothing to do with sexual or just weird highschooler things, I end up getting left out and ignored because I'm boring and have nothing good to say." (continued in comments)
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25 Feb, 2016, 3:01 am
(continued from description) "I find it difficult to make any new friends because I'm afraid of getting ignored and left alone again... How should I talk to others when they won't even listen to what I have to say?..."
INSTRUCTIONS: Comment below with advice for @Lulura.
25 Feb, 2016, 4:16 am
I have a similar life. I like to talk with friends online since they act like friends. Close, but so far away. I've just tried to keep up with life and hope that my future is greater.
Hope this was helpful!
25 Feb, 2016, 10:34 pm
You're not boring. You just have different interests than your friends. The first step to finding new friends with similar interest will be to not assume they will ignore you. Be open because the feelings you project out will either draw people to you or push them away. It's like how people feel drawn to positive people and not negative people. Next, aproach people who are by themselves or are quiet because they will be less likely to be like the friends you describe. Shy people often have interesting hobbies and interests because they have more time to devote to them by not talking, so look for them. Also, people who don't have many friends will be less likely to take a new friend like you for granted. It's all about looking for those who are hardest to notice, but they make great friends. :3
26 Feb, 2016, 2:13 am
Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it ^-^
19 Mar, 2016, 3:47 pm
OMG I HAVE THE EXACT SAME PROBLEM LULU! qoq