"Hello! Sorry to interupt what you are doing but I have a bullying issue that I need to get off my chest. As all my teachers have said, school is supposed to be a place to have fun and feel safe! Well for me, its the complete opposite. I don't feel safe because in my class theres a kid. He has anger issues and he beats people up for no reason. Now hes never beaten me up but when we talk I feel really uncomfortable." (continued in comments)
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05 Jan, 2016, 1:58 am
(continued from description) "And it doesnt help that the person that used to bully me still talks to me and is always there. And the bullying starts with a group of kids. I will call them K, C, and J. So all of them bully me for my acne, my voice, and my personality. I've told my mom but she says if I dont want to be bullied than I should take better care of my face. She said that if anyone says anything about my voice to insult them back. I do insult them back but I get in trouble. And one day I even got slapped and I threw things at him and I got in trouble. I talk to my counsler but im too embarresed to tell her. Does anyone know how to make school a better experience for me? And sorry for taking up your time! OoO"
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05 Jan, 2016, 2:28 am
...Okay.
You say you're too embarassed to tell your school's counselor?
Well.
MAN-UP (i know you aren't a man but) AND TELL HER.
The only way you might be able to get rid of this problem is if you tell her if your mom won't help.
Also, maybe you should try explaining the situation to your mom better. Instead of just saying the /reasons/ why you're being bullied, try telling her /how/ they are bullying you, what they do, what they say, how they hurt you, not just what the bullies feel justifies the bullying.
...This bit... /may/ be a bit difficult but...
Try not to give them a reaction. Don't fight back, don't try to defend yourself with insult and physical violence...That's what they want you to do. They want a reaction. They want you to be in pain. They want to laugh at our failed attempts to defend yourself...Trust me.. I would know...B-but that's not important now...
Keep your head up and try to stay strong, okay?
05 Jan, 2016, 3:10 am
i dont have much experiance being bullied, though i was in a summer youth group, i was just to oblivious to realize it,names are just words, though they hurt the surface, it shoulnt dictate who you are, your apearence is perfect, that is how God made you, and to him you are perfect!!!
physical bullieing, tjats the one part i did see clear, my head was dumped in a garbage can, i still made it out to be a practical joke, though it wasnt. for you, id say its easy for cowards to band together, and pic on the one, theres no solution in my mind other than avoiding said individuals, if they corner you, keep you hands out, and if one is going to strike push them in the chest, it shouldnt get you in trouble, it should keep their mitts off of you.
hope i helpped
Duke
05 Jan, 2016, 5:09 am
I would say @GreenNookie's advice is the best one.
When you're being bullied, don't throw fuel to the fire. Be patient and they will get bored over time. Don't give them a reason to bully you. Maybe hang out with friends so they don't gang up on you. As long as you treat others with respect, they will respect you. Even if they don't, teachers/counselor/adults won't have doubts about the fact that they are bullying you for no reason and will side with you. (Some people are simply mean, we must deal with them.)
And about your acne, it can't be that bad. Everyone has it. I don't know what's the big deal. Still, I would like you to take care of it not because of the looks, but because of health. That thing sometimes leaves some weird "holes" on your skin. You could try putting tomato on your face for some minutes once a day before sleeping; then, wash it of. That's the cheapest way. There are also some pills called Isoface that dries acne up in a few days.
05 Jan, 2016, 5:12 am
Anyway, your school experience will be a good one as long as you keep being positive like you are right now.
"A little perspective, like a little humor, goes a long way"
Be strong! And if you ever need something, most of the Colors community will be happy to help you. Myself included. Even if I can only offer a few words n_n''.