Let's Help RoseClaw70115! by Bully Free Zone

"im RoseClaw70115 and i get bullied almost everyday and i end up crying by the end of the day. i try to be nice though everyone just brings me down saying that i stole art and that im a little kid and i dont know anything. that i should sleep on dirt and that i should die. well im sick of it though i just dont know how to stop it. Could someone give me any advice plz. thanks for your time to help me."

INSTRUCTIONS: Comment below with advice.

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04 Jan, 2016, 11:01 pm
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J35t3r

04 Jan, 2016, 11:29 pm

Tell your parents/ someone you trust. It may seem hard, but that's the best way to take care of it.

ArtsyyWish

05 Jan, 2016, 1:11 am

i do tell my parents though they just tell me to ignore them though i have adhd and ocd i cant just let it go

Rogue Ranger

05 Jan, 2016, 2:10 am

You can't force people to be nice to you because their feelings and behavior are their own responsibility, but you can make yourself more likely to get positive reactions from some people. It won't work for everyone obviously, but you've already got the first part down by being nice. People also like someone with a sense of humor, who is funny, but it has to be genuine, so don't try to be funny if it doesn't come naturally. Another approach is that people like someone who is mellow and easygoing, who doesn't stress out no matter what happens. This level of emotional comtrol is where concepts like being cool and being mature come from. Maturity has nothing to do with age. That's just a number. If you want proof, just look around at the wide range of maturity differences regardless of age. Now, you may thing, "I can't control how I feel." That's true, but you can learn to control how you react. This isn't about holding anything in. That doesn't work. It just comes out later.

Rogue Ranger

05 Jan, 2016, 2:16 am

It involves letting it go, realizing that, in the grand scheme of things, it's not that important. Think about what matters in your life, like your loved ones, etc. What if they weren't there? When compared to insults, it's easy to put things in perspective and see what really matters most to you. Also, it helps to realize that everyone has issues they're going through. Sometimes they redirect their own insecurities outward onto others, like you. They're not you though, so that means their feelings say more about them than you. They are their feelings after all, so they're in them and they have to carry them around like you have to cary yours around. In time, seeing things from a new perspective does help. You do at least have control over that much.

Rugrats777

06 Jan, 2016, 10:32 pm

Dang... RoseClaw is this just happening on Colors or do you mean in general?

You have to fight back & I don't mean by fist fighting. Fight with your words & actions.

I learned years ago when I had problems at school & people were giving me problems. The first thing I did was make friends with the bullies. Talk to them & see why they were considered bullies. The second thing was go straight to the principals office when there was an issue/problem. If you do that no one will bother you because they'll be to afraid of what you could do lol.

Sorry its not the best of advice but people tried bullying me in school for years & I just had all I could take at the time.

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