Let's Help Brooksby3D! by Bully Free Zone

"ok, ok. I really didn't want to do this, because i don't want people to pity me for some dumb reason, but this has been a problem of mine most (not all though) of my life.
So after i moved to a completely new state right after graduating first grade, i was apparently cursed to be really bad at being friends with people... of my own gender. I only know of two or three irl friends of mine, that i actually enjoy hanging out with that were girls, and when i moved away..." (continued in comments)

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27 Nov, 2015, 8:50 pm
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Bully Free Zone

27 Nov, 2015, 9:01 pm

(continued from description) "...one of them betrayed me, and stole something very dear and sentimental to me that we 'lost' at her place, and it wasn't even something a normal girl would value, which makes it feel more like she just did it because she could... oh, sorry, back on topic. So at school, i'm only making friends with guys, whether i realize i'm going to or not. in second grade, not too many people cared, and everyone respected the fact that a guy and girl could hang out often & not be a couple. Then the same in third grade... but then in fourth grade i met an AMAZING dude. we liked a lot of the same things, mainly gaming related, and he had been the closest friend of mine i had in a really long time, so it was a really strong friendship. but that year, questions/comments about our nonexistant dating relationship got much more frequent and much more annoying, 'are you two dating?' 'hey, Brooksie, (his name) likes you.'" (cont)

Bully Free Zone

27 Nov, 2015, 9:10 pm

"then i moved near the last four or so months of school. at my new school, i didn't make a single friend, but i didn't mind either, because no one really bothered me. then fifth grade starts, i end up making about four or five new friends, and we start a group. of course, i'm the only girl. people tried starting rumors about me dating various people in said group that i just hung out with, which really gets me ticked off, at one point, i even yelled at some kid to just shut up after he kept teasing and teasing about me and a not even very close friend of mine being a couple. and finally we get to right now. i only really talk to one of my friends anymore, besides, he's really the only person who shares alot of my current fandoms with me, and we sit at whichever table is empty at lunch time everyday to do this. And now, it happens nearly everyday. it gets extremely annoying, there's always at least one person that asks us if we're dating." (cont)

Bully Free Zone

27 Nov, 2015, 9:19 pm

"and the worst part about it, is that if we answer, well 'yes means yes, and no also means yes'
im in the seventh grade now, it's been five years, or more. i'm just a 12 year old girl. i want to find a way i can get all those 'popular people' to leave me & whoever my friend(s) is/are alone. i'm just a 12 year old girl, who really only desires to have people respect a guy and a girl... just being friends, NOT being boyfriends or girlfriends. i'm not sure how many people can relate to this, but i know someone out there does. and i don't want anyone to have to live like this. i've been ignoring it for most of my life... but it's tearing me apart now. i NEED help. & i don't really care when or how, so long as it's before school starts back from our current break.
also, i'm sorry if i'm interrupting your Thanksgiving, but at least i'm done talking now, thanks in advance."

INSTRUCTIONS: Comment below with advice for @Brooksby3D.

happybrick

27 Nov, 2015, 9:22 pm

well all my friends are boys except for one or two, which i dont exactly consider my best friends. its been like that for me since preschool, and yeah i get asked, "do you like so and so?" every day. i honestly think the boys in my grade make better jokes and are less boring. xD you just stare them in the eye and awnser honestly and eventully theyll accept it.

happybrick

27 Nov, 2015, 9:24 pm

stare at people who ask you i mean

Caruko

27 Nov, 2015, 9:37 pm

Okay, so I really know how you feel. I'm finishing up high school now, but I was in middle school, too, when something similar happened to me. It was the biggest crisis of my middle school career: see, I had this friend who I became very close to- I also had a hard time making friends with girls, too. So, everyone thought my friend and I were dating, and so many people asked me if we were- it used to get under my skin so much, I just wanted those folks to shut their traps. It's really only a thing that happens in middle school. Fret not, just keep your calm, middle schoolers are like that. It'll stop soon enough.

TotallyBlooktacular

27 Nov, 2015, 9:46 pm

okay, i'll try to do that stuff. i'll get to see if it helps anything on Monday.
thanks again for the help/advice.

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