Let's Help Cobalt-Otaku! by Bully Free Zone

"Uhhh... looks like I'm back for the 3rd time.
Anyway, I've actually come with a BULLYING issue this time around, unlike the other two times I was here. So, there's a group of kids at my school. I'll just use the stereotypical label of 'the popular kids' because, well, they're kinda like that. I'll give myself the 'nerd' label, too. Anyway, you know how 'popular kids' pick on 'nerds', right? Well, they're always talking about me behind my back (or that's what they think)." (cont. in comments)

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18 Nov, 2015, 11:57 pm
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Bully Free Zone

19 Nov, 2015, 12:04 am

(cont. from description) "2 of them were recently inflicting physical harm onto me about a week ago. A boy was kicking me in the behind and a girl pulled my hair. They both blamed it on someone else and thought I believed them. Seriously. I'm the smartest kid in my class and you think I'm gonna fall for that?? I seriously hate it when people underestimate my knowledge. Now of course, I don't think like the mindless ghetto monkeys at my school, so all I did was move away. I didn't tell the teacher or anything, because telling teachers when kids mess with you messes up your reputation, and mine is already terrible. This has honestly been going on since elementary, but back then I thought everyone was my friend and blah blah blah. Now I know that girls are horrible vicious (mind you, I am a girl) and people overall, suck. I hope I can get good advice..."

INSTRUCTIONS: Comment below with advice for @Colbalt-Otaku.

Ita-chan

19 Nov, 2015, 1:06 am

@CobaltOtaku Here is some advice that kinda-not-really (Its probally NOT worth a try tho) proved helpful to me, I would just share a few snide comments about them behind their back or to their face (But, sadly I am one of the biggest kids in my classes so, that's where my help is not as useful) Or you could bring it up to someone but, state your are anonymous(? I think that's how you speel it XD) so they can't hurt you for telling anyone.

ewaffs

19 Nov, 2015, 1:59 am

BABY STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. You gotta look em in the eye next time they pick on you, and just be as sassy as you possibly can and not get pushed around. Turn the insults back at them. Fight back. Defend yourself. I literaly cannot find another way to explain it than "be the alpha" because thats exactly what needs to happen. BE SAFE!

Rogue Ranger

20 Nov, 2015, 10:02 am

By not being willing to tell teachers or school authorities, you're taking this on yourself, so is that alright? What about involving your friends and sticking together? They could have your back (in the case of being kicked from behind, this may be literal) and you'd have theirs. Aside from that, it sounds like you look down on these people, so you would know they don't have control over you. You have power over how you react and they aren't going to bring you down, but it's still bullying and stiff anoying. Sometimes people bully out of boredom or because they see an easy target. Sometimes people even bully their friends. You may be able to use your intelligence to figure out their motives and use that to calculate a response that reduces it. For example, if they do it out of boredom, make your responses even more boring. I do think you're right though to avoid retaliation or fighting. It could turn a minor physical thing into something that leaves you severely injured.

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