That. um. by illusion gem

ya. im gay. um. i just need to tell someone cuz its kinda bugging me how like family and friends will be like "Oh well when you get a girlfriend you'll see" like. i just want to scream at them that its not gonna happen cuz. i. dont. like. girls.
and oh my god. is this hard for me to just think about let alone telling people. kinda. like i know i am and im ok with it. but actually trying to tell people like freaks me out. and i really do wanna tell my friends/family but im not sure how to or-

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14 Jul, 2015, 10:40 pm
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illusion gem

14 Jul, 2015, 10:46 pm

when to. and how they will react like. i dont want to be thought of differently like im still the same me but. this is just something else thats also me. and posting this is making me cringe cuz i dont want u guys to think less of me or anything (smoothmovetellingtheinternet>.>) but like. i need to tell someone so i can start telling more people. and i dont think it gets easier than telling a bunch of people behind screens so. ya. this is also me.. dont hate me

illusion gem

14 Jul, 2015, 10:47 pm

imma leave this up for like 2-3 days cuz. ya. so for the people who read this and know. yay for ya

Azire

14 Jul, 2015, 11:21 pm

People just really need to understand that se'xuality doesn't define a person.
I may not support gay stuff, but that doesn't mean that I'll see you as a different person. :>

Neapolitan_Cat

14 Jul, 2015, 11:24 pm

You're gay? I had no clue. I'm ace but I care more about romance. I understand the irritation behind the whole "you'll see when..." because I'm 21 and I still can't get the desire from man or woman. I'm with my man but I don't care for being turned on. I care about spending meaningful time with him

sushisnatcher

14 Jul, 2015, 11:49 pm

Hey welcome to the gay club
Yeah coming out to friends was super hard.

AliasLycan

15 Jul, 2015, 12:39 am

i wont think less of u. some of my frends and someone in my family r gay, and im happeh for them. so im happeh for u too =)

SkyVolts

15 Jul, 2015, 1:16 am

Full support here ^-^ I was in the same spot with my friends too, but they turned out to be pretty accepting of it. If they're your real friends, then you don't have to worry about a thing ^^

Snowwolf

15 Jul, 2015, 1:20 am

It is totally fine by me. One of my really good friends is gay.

illusion gem

15 Jul, 2015, 1:50 am

xD i was so nervous about posting this and i didnt even wanna come read the comments but now its like the best feeling reading these from you guys xD just. idk thanks for not.. rejecting me i guess is the word

illusion gem

15 Jul, 2015, 1:55 am

its so funny for me to read this now since i was so nervous about telling this but now im like. yay. xD

ponopzop

15 Jul, 2015, 2:00 am

If you do decide to tell your family and friends, I wish you the best of luck and I hope they understand how awesome you are regardless of sexuality, be proud of who you are always!! :) I know it's not much coming from people you've never met but we're here for you as much as possible and you aren't alone !

illusion gem

15 Jul, 2015, 3:10 am

thanks ;u; and i will tell them eventually. i just dont know when a good time is. probably before school starts

-Master Serris

15 Jul, 2015, 4:05 am

so? it's fine! /i couldn't guess btw/

but really, it's fine that you are g,ay! i mean, it is legal throughout the USA now so, tons of ppl are coming out! it might just be the best time to do so, but hey.
take baby steps, kiddo! you'll get there :)

Krazy Katt111

15 Jul, 2015, 7:12 am

youre gay? that doesnt change a single thing for me, youre still a pal. :B
whether someone's gay, straight, bi, pan, whatever, i dont care.

-Rax-

15 Jul, 2015, 3:58 pm

even people who react badly at first (like my dad) often come round after they've had time to calm down about it. I hope your parents and friends are supportive and stop that stupid "you'll find a girl one day" stuff!

Bowpmsas

15 Jul, 2015, 9:47 pm

Even if a person comes out of the closet, I'd never treat them differently. I completely understand on this situation and I appreciate that you told us. ; )

Pyrolusite

17 Jul, 2015, 1:33 am

(This is @*Lillian* or @SilverSkies if you remember, hahaha, sorry I never came back to talk to you!)

Dude, its totally chill! I didn't expect you to be like this, naturally, but still, more power to ya .u. Support!

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