so yeah i was at a birthday party and i was gonna sleep over but around 11 my friend breaks out the weed and the two other girls there have their pipes and i just couldnt. i told her i wasnt comfortable and if she would mind doing it when im not there and she kept making excuses and trying to get me to smoke.
'no one will know!'
'it wont hurt anything!'
'i do it all the time!'

i eventually just left the party and drove home. she wouldnt respect my decision, either. she got all butthurt when i let her know that i was leaving if she decided to smoke...

im extremelt unmotivated now and im super depressed about her decision to get high instead of just hanging out like normal people.

may be less active. sorry u-u'

-hugs- im sorry :[ she really should have respected how you felt on the matter.i hope you feel better.

I had something similar happen, except I can't drive. Luckily we didn't have any and the people around couldn't hook up with a dealer

cant tell her mom, she already knows and doesnt care. im super frustrated and im kinda close to just dropping her as a friend. this isnt the first time shes made me uncomfortable and sad.

Whoa Thats pretty ruff..
hang in there ' n '

Thanks For the follow through...

You made the right choice.
And if they'd rather smoke than hang out with you, they're not your friends. You dont need people like that in your life.

Yeah, I remember on my last birthday my brother and friends got really drunk. I'm very not cool with alcohol, it kinda messed up my family... twice. It's just a strange feeling when you see your friends transform into depressing idiots. Hearing them was an interesting way to start off age 18 to say the least.
Anyways, it's not generally worth dropping a friend over, at least, not this early in life. Not until it takes over their lives that is. I know completely functional weed smokers who don't do it around me, but then again, if they're consistently refusing to acknowledge your opinion on it, that's a different story.

omg :O i would smash the pipes in half if that happened to me...

Good for you!! Don't you dare let them drag you into that filthy, worthless habit. I greatly admire your strength of character - keep being you! Your awesome, sober, independent you! I could go on and on about how stupid weed is, but I think you're smart enough to already know how much of a complete waste of time it is, so I'll leave you with this: find new friends. Stoners aren't worth your attention, especially if they're going to try to drag you down with them.

And oh my god how I feel your pain. Over the years, since I was really young, I have gotten sooooooooooooo much s*** for simply refusing to drink or do drugs. Like, I've seen again and again the effed up stuff it does to people and I don't want it to happen to me, how the hell is that so wrong? GAH! PEOPLE!

yeh, wut elsola said >:O! [sry ;v; i just didn't feel like typing much, and i wouldve just said the things that he said.]

I wouldent.................. I smoke vaper its not weed and it has no nickatene but if i was spending time with u id probably quit...........