How should I handle this... by Spark

I've expected it for a while. My Mom has now officially announced she will be moving out of my Dad's house.
I'm faced with the choice of who I'm staying with. I said to my Dad I'd stay with him even though I've said my Mom in past. My sister & brother said the same as I did. I don't think my sister will keep that up though...
None of us are really nice to my Dad, so I have guilt and would like to stay with him. He truely loves me.

My Mom is usually mean and she is the cause of this. --

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17 Nov, 2014, 6:47 am
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Spark

17 Nov, 2014, 6:51 am

--But I still love her. She is my Mom.
I just can't live happy knowing that one was dead or that I wouldn't see one much anymore.

My best friend already goes to a private school so I rarely see him.

Suwako dang it!

If you have a suggestion to what I should do, lemme know. I can choose who to stay with I think. But, how will this work. I don't know what I'll do living like this.

PantherPaw

17 Nov, 2014, 10:39 pm

ooh nuu >n< im sorry to hear that... im bad with advise, but if this was my situation, it would probably depend on how far away is your mom moving?
is she gonna have money to support you and your siblings?
and i don't know about you, but i would definitely worry about my pets and where they would be staying. sorry this probably doesn't help at all...

randomouscrap

18 Nov, 2014, 1:57 am

Oh sparky, I'm so sorry to hear this. I don't think your choice should be influenced by your parents; you should choose whomever you want to stay with.

Spark

18 Nov, 2014, 6:10 am

Some stuff:My Mom apparently spoke to my sister about this, apparently my sister will only go with my Mom if I went as well.

Also, I'm not completely sure where my brother is going. As annoyingly mean as he is, It'd be strange without him.
I've thought about some things. With my Mom, maybe I'd get to be a new student, and get a new reputation and friends. I wonder what that is like often. But I'd lose all my friends, even my best friend.
I'd also get to be with our pets I love. But I wouldn't see my Dad much.
With my Dad, I'd keep all my friends and my best friend, Stay at a house I'm ok with, and keep all my stuff. But, I wouldn't get to see my Mom much.

@PantherPaw
Most, if not all pets will go with my Mom. I have no idea where she is moving to.
@Randomous
Thank you, but if my parents weren't influential in my decision...Wouldn't my choice basically be...random?

Spark

18 Nov, 2014, 6:16 am

@Depressing Insanity
Well, you replied as I was replying to others, so this is seperate.
Um, I can't really remember what your internet comment said...

I think I can support myself in my time of need. I think as long as my brother & sister don't end up staying at the same place, both could support us. I think...ummm I don't know what I think.

I guess I'm not emotionally scarred yet. I can still act like myself at school and chats and other stuff. I passed off as fine until my Mom told me not knowing my Dad already did, then I was crying.

J u l i a n

19 Nov, 2014, 6:29 pm

Describe your problem on
@Bully Free Zone
They can give you some advices at least.

Well, sounds like a hard decision. But decisions have to be made. Your parents probably have a reason for devorce. I think it would be worse if they force themselves to stay together though they do not get along with each other anymore. They would shout at each other all day long and you would suffer more than now. There is no other solution. I know a women who is deeply unhappy in her realtionship but she can´t divorce because she depends on her husband... However you have to decide. Who do you love the most? Just think of your mum and dad, not of your friends or animals. I know it sounds hard but you can find new friends. But you can´t find a new mother or father. That´s a fact. Think of it. Good luck.

Spark

19 Nov, 2014, 9:12 pm

@Julian
Thanks
My Mom, but she is pretty mean often unlike my Dad. My Dad loves me usually all the time. He's not mean often, but when he is, he is meaner than my Mom. So I really don't know who is meaner or nicer. I don't even know when I have to decide by.

Spark

09 Jan, 2015, 8:12 pm

Hi Sparky.

Spark

25 Jun, 2017, 9:34 am

Ugh. I'm such a stupid crybaby

even one of my friends from a certain place read this

i wonder how stupidly pitiful i look to them

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