If anyone is on, just want to state what my sad feels like. It like constantly makes me depressed. I recently moved schools which was pretty hard and i got so depressed that I let my grades fall to sh*t. I'm in a bit of pickle w/ that and on top of that my mom maynor may not have cancer and my social anxiety has been eating my up like a donut. *sigh* im just tired of it. Then i realize that I have nice things and am in a good home, but yet I still get sad and lonely. Eghh...any thoughts?
@Quint: Yah its been like that since i switched schools. I was uber depressed and now Im just adequately depressed? I dunno. That or just super stressed out
@Tropeifier: I recently befriended the Theatre department a couple weeks ago and I love them all. I feel kindmof like an outsider sometimes when I come to school, but still I made friends that are awesome. It definitely beats sitting on the side eating nothing and alone for 2 months.
With time that isolated feeling should fade. Even faster if you, if not befriend, at least get to know people outside the Theatre Department. Knowing the people better ought to give you a sense of true belonging.
@AceWolves: I usually just listen to some ACDC or Metallica. @Tropeifier: It might. I even visited old friends on Halloween and about 4 actually were excited and happy to see me, the others were like "Hey". It made me a little sad but my new friends help mebrealize that I am still well liked amongst my peers. Its just the fact that I still feel like an outsider I guess. My feels are the fritz: emotionally and mentally. Its like pfffft stop it my feels cant take it
Not much of an idea, but often or daily quiet meditation helps calm me down when necessary. A few minutes of reflection every now and then can do wonders.
I usually will sit and think about things. Usually like sitting on my bed or sitting outside. Drawing is the one thing that keeps me busy and unstressed. Im currently drawing a fnaf picture and its been keeping me occupied
But I read your situation, and I know how you feel. I've moved several times from my loved ones and I was depressed as well. But moving gives you new opportunities to make new friends. Speaking from experience, even from a shy girl. No matter where you are, you can make awesome friends. I'm not in contact with my friends from places that I've moved from as much anymore, but that's okay. Life is tough, but you can pull through it. ^^
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06 Nov, 2014, 3:45 am
Alright, so... what do you guys want to talk about?
06 Nov, 2014, 3:47 am
If anyone is on, just want to state what my sad feels like. It like constantly makes me depressed. I recently moved schools which was pretty hard and i got so depressed that I let my grades fall to sh*t. I'm in a bit of pickle w/ that and on top of that my mom maynor may not have cancer and my social anxiety has been eating my up like a donut. *sigh* im just tired of it. Then i realize that I have nice things and am in a good home, but yet I still get sad and lonely. Eghh...any thoughts?
06 Nov, 2014, 4:03 am
Not sure what to say here, but I'll try:
Try to change the things you can for the better. Grades in particular, as they're said to be important down the line.
Maybe look for good friends at this new school? They're there for support more often and more directly than us online folks.
06 Nov, 2014, 4:03 am
@Quint: Yah its been like that since i switched schools. I was uber depressed and now Im just adequately depressed? I dunno. That or just super stressed out
06 Nov, 2014, 4:05 am
Try to find people with the same intrests.
06 Nov, 2014, 4:05 am
(as you)
06 Nov, 2014, 4:06 am
@Tropeifier: I recently befriended the Theatre department a couple weeks ago and I love them all. I feel kindmof like an outsider sometimes when I come to school, but still I made friends that are awesome. It definitely beats sitting on the side eating nothing and alone for 2 months.
06 Nov, 2014, 4:13 am
With time that isolated feeling should fade.
Even faster if you, if not befriend, at least get to know people outside the Theatre Department.
Knowing the people better ought to give you a sense of true belonging.
06 Nov, 2014, 4:20 am
@AceWolves: I usually just listen to some ACDC or Metallica. @Tropeifier: It might. I even visited old friends on Halloween and about 4 actually were excited and happy to see me, the others were like "Hey". It made me a little sad but my new friends help mebrealize that I am still well liked amongst my peers. Its just the fact that I still feel like an outsider I guess. My feels are the fritz: emotionally and mentally. Its like pfffft stop it my feels cant take it
06 Nov, 2014, 4:26 am
Not much of an idea, but often or daily quiet meditation helps calm me down when necessary.
A few minutes of reflection every now and then can do wonders.
06 Nov, 2014, 4:34 am
I usually will sit and think about things. Usually like sitting on my bed or sitting outside. Drawing is the one thing that keeps me busy and unstressed. Im currently drawing a fnaf picture and its been keeping me occupied
06 Nov, 2014, 4:52 am
Drawing is a greay hobby for self expression and personal occupation. Sharing your work online helps even further.
06 Nov, 2014, 4:53 am
I must go offline for the night, but we can continue this tomorrow if you'd like.
06 Nov, 2014, 4:54 am
Sure! and Thanks friend :)
06 Nov, 2014, 12:58 pm
Sorry I wasn't on when this was posted.
But I read your situation, and I know how you feel. I've moved several times from my loved ones and I was depressed as well. But moving gives you new opportunities to make new friends. Speaking from experience, even from a shy girl. No matter where you are, you can make awesome friends. I'm not in contact with my friends from places that I've moved from as much anymore, but that's okay. Life is tough, but you can pull through it. ^^
06 Nov, 2014, 10:23 pm
^^^ Well said.