"So, I have a friend (I will call him F.), and that friend is male. We enjoy staying together and we never fight. In my class, everyone thinks that he's my boyfriend (even if he isn't). Everytime I talk or meet him, there's ALWAYS someone who says bad things about us, that we're dating, we're doing "stuff"..." (continued in comments)
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10 Oct, 2014, 11:05 pm
(continued from description) "Yesterday, we were meeting in the square (with my true bf) to chat, and two classmates found out, filmed us and created a chatrooom, inserted ALL of our classmates, and sent the video. I can't take it anymore. I just want to meet my friend, because I know him since I was very little. I just want to end this... but I don't want to be alone again...
Also, at school, there's a popular guy who's ALWAYS very mean to me.
When I meet some of my old classmates (from my old school), they avoid me and say that I'm a monster, that I should die... that kind of stuff.
Why me? What did I do wrong?"
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10 Oct, 2014, 11:50 pm
Well, For Me.. I'm the same way. I just avoid them & Stand up to the popular kids. I don't know if this may help because I don't know if the kids In America Are totally different in Japan. But I hope this may help you in any good way. :)
11 Oct, 2014, 3:15 am
I... Don't go to school. But being a decently ethical kid, (compared to most people my age, at least) If anybody brings up any false information to ya, tell them the truth, and if they don't believe ya, say something along the lines of "I told you the truth, now you choose to believe it". If they don't say anything to you...
Good. Nobody's gonna bother ya. There are probably several things I didn't consider, (and may not be aware of being homeschooled) but I hope I helped at least minimally.
11 Oct, 2014, 10:52 pm
I wonder how your boyfriend feels about them saying you're dating someone else. It seems like that kind of thing would affect him a lot too. And, obviously it means your friend is made fun of for the same reasons too, so the three of you are in this together and at least you have each other to bounce ideas off. If you seem like you don't care what they think, it may be less interesting for them to make fun of you in that way than if you react, because usually those kind of people do it to see you suffer. As for the popular guy, I've found that popular people tend to be that way because they are slightly more attractive than everyone else, making them arrogant and stuck up. He could be used to getting everything he wants and he's frustrated because you're something he wants, he could see you as an easy target to boost his popularity even more because just like with money there's no such thing as too much popularity, or he could be mean to a lot of people and you just happen to be one.
11 Oct, 2014, 10:56 pm
Whichever is the case, do your best to avoid him, but don't show him fear, just in case that's what he's after. And as for the others, they may have heard a rumor that isn't true about you and think you're a bad person, but I'm sure not everyone is so quick to believe things, so look for other people, maybe more quiet people, to befriend. There are other students out there who are made fun of and have false rumors going around about them, so find them and you can all help each other together. Remember, you have friends. Some people have none, so if you can help them, you can change their lives while helping yourself.
12 Oct, 2014, 9:58 pm
^ ( I second everything you said ranger xD )