Let's Help MiKaYlA-AnImE! by Bully Free Zone

"hey, yeah me again '_' i just needed some help on something. so im dating someone and everyone is making fun of me because im....different. im bi and im dating a girl and not a guy. everyone in my school found out and are making fun of me for being bi. they call me harsh words and bully me. idk why they hate me for being me. i love her to death and i dont want them to ruin us. how can i make them stop?!"

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painted on a Nintendo 3DS
14 Sep, 2014, 11:07 pm
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TFmel

14 Sep, 2014, 11:14 pm

there's nothing wrong with being bi, but some people don't realise that. there's no real way to stop someone from saying things, it's out of your power. if you're ok with being you then that's all you need to worry about. just try to ignore what they say. yes words can hurt, but only if you let them. stay strong!

Rogue Ranger

15 Sep, 2014, 5:45 am

If they are making fun of you, then aren't they also making fun of her? After all, if they know you're dating her and are teasing you for that, then she's also a target. This is something you are both going through, not just you, so tackle it together. If you love her, then you'll put her feelings first, so see how she feels. If she loves you back, then that's stronger than the comments of others. I know you're afraid they will try to drive you apart, but this could actually bring you together if you can both agree on an approach. My suggested approach would be to avoid too many signs of affection in public for your own safety, but don't try to hide or lie. If she feels unsafe, though, consider her feelings if she'd rather try to pretend just to be friends in public. If, however, you two can both agree that the opinions of others aren't worth being miserable over, then you can be more open. It all depends on how safe you both feel.

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