Such cruel words hit me too...but it's from my step father D: Just ignore your brother like he's not even talking to you.Or pretend that it's funny...nvm about that part.I hope you can get through it... <:D
Well, hopefully he'll get through this OK. I think he just needs someone to lean on. Young boys go through a lot around that time, and society puts a lot of pressure on them to act a certain way. (Not saying it's any different for girls, but they have very different social norms to deal with or live up to) Alot of young men feel they just can't live up to it. They bottle up their emotions because to express them would mean they're 'not a real man'. I think he just needs someone he can talk to and trust, that's going to let him know that expressing himself is healthy and shouldn't damage his pride. I know my brother has gone through this, but since I was only a year older at the time he had no one to help him. I'm sad to say he's sunk into a very dark place, and the only way he knows how to let things out is by letting them fester into bursts of rage. I'm not sure what you've grown up against, but where I live this is the culture we face. It's mostly centered in the Americas and Asia :/
Wonder what makes him so upset at you. :/ I mean, your really great and all with nothing bad in you! Like what @8-bit (something something) said, spend more brotherly time with him and maybe he will open up to you. <:)
My sister's 11 and one moment she'll hate me then a few minutes later she's a happy lil' dope. I would say to give your brother some time to cool down then when you think it's the right time, try to make up. Other than that I've got nothing :T
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03 Sep, 2014, 2:31 am
How old is he?
03 Sep, 2014, 2:33 am
12
03 Sep, 2014, 2:37 am
i suggest ignoring his b*tch as$
cus ur awsome
NOW SHOW IT TO THE WORLD
03 Sep, 2014, 2:45 am
Such cruel words hit me too...but it's from my step father D: Just ignore your brother like he's not even talking to you.Or pretend that it's funny...nvm about that part.I hope you can get through it... <:D
03 Sep, 2014, 2:46 am
Well, hopefully he'll get through this OK. I think he just needs someone to lean on. Young boys go through a lot around that time, and society puts a lot of pressure on them to act a certain way. (Not saying it's any different for girls, but they have very different social norms to deal with or live up to) Alot of young men feel they just can't live up to it. They bottle up their emotions because to express them would mean they're 'not a real man'. I think he just needs someone he can talk to and trust, that's going to let him know that expressing himself is healthy and shouldn't damage his pride. I know my brother has gone through this, but since I was only a year older at the time he had no one to help him. I'm sad to say he's sunk into a very dark place, and the only way he knows how to let things out is by letting them fester into bursts of rage. I'm not sure what you've grown up against, but where I live this is the culture we face. It's mostly centered in the Americas and Asia :/
03 Sep, 2014, 2:47 am
I hope that made sense :/
03 Sep, 2014, 2:53 am
I feel for you there. I wear my heart on my sleave half the time and that just makes me a walking target... sux.
03 Sep, 2014, 3:32 am
Woe, Woe, man! :U I will, man.
But just by curiousity what did the boy look like? .o.
03 Sep, 2014, 3:39 am
Ahh, yeah, no man. My brother's got blond hair. Anyways, thanks.
And thank you everyone up there in the comments section.
03 Sep, 2014, 3:44 am
k man, but it's so hard to make him understand. .-.
03 Sep, 2014, 3:55 am
Wonder what makes him so upset at you. :/ I mean, your really great and all with nothing bad in you! Like what @8-bit (something something) said, spend more brotherly time with him and maybe he will open up to you. <:)
03 Sep, 2014, 8:19 pm
My sister's 11 and one moment she'll hate me then a few minutes later she's a happy lil' dope. I would say to give your brother some time to cool down then when you think it's the right time, try to make up. Other than that I've got nothing :T
04 Sep, 2014, 3:17 pm
my older brother says things that really hurt me. you're not alone here u^u
04 Sep, 2014, 11:10 pm
Re- Thank you and I hope so too ;u;
And tell yo Bro to stahp ;n;
04 Sep, 2014, 11:45 pm
Re- Awwwwwww ;n;