(continued from description) "So I said one time to a friend, who was bullying another girl (she has got a bad mother, so she always wore old clothes), "Hey, I won't lie from now on for you." Then she said: "Yes. Then play with your new friend!" : C But the other girl, wasn't my friend. We had a big argument a long time ago. And now it's Summer Vacation, and I don't know what to do, when they will do this even next year. The "boss" calls me bad names, so the others agree with him. I spoke to my parents and my teacher, but nothing helps. Can somebody help me? :'C"

Some people will find anything to bully someone over, so the key isn't to change for them because they'll just come up with something else, but it's to be comfortable being yourself. If you feel positive about your life and project that out, others will pick up on those feelings, but if you feel bad about yourself and project that negativity out, people will pick up on that and feel negative around you, making them either not want to be around you or to be mean. Not everyone is affected in the same way by the feelings of others, but most people are, so being positive and open will make it easier to make friends and friends are a good buffer to reduce bullying as well as make you even more positive. Imagine it this way: Who would you be more comfortable around, an open and friendly person with a positive attitude or a closed and depressed person? So, be the person you want to be and you'll find friends, maybe even some who are bullied too that you can help feel better about themselves.

Also, if you act like the names are funny or you don't care, you'll be less of a tempting target than if you react strongly.

Thanks so much. I´ll try to do that. But I´m a closed person, I can´t do anything against it. But only the boys are the problem, but anyway: -THANKS-

Auch wenn´s schon ´n Jahr her is´:
Mache dir deswegen keine Sorgen. Die Schule geht ja nicht ein Leben lang. Irgendwann bist du schon raus aus all dem und verliere ja nicht dein Charakter und deine Persönlichkeiten wegen diesen Dreckskindern. Sie machen nur andere runter,um sich selbst besser zu fühlen.