"*please excuse the language in the following*
This is like my 3rd time here, I apologize for that.
So, school's comming up, last year there was this kid, he was a huge dou.che! He'd make fun of my "accent" and my un-natural hair colors. I'd sworn I'd physically harm him one day.
He'd also cuss left and right and I'd politely tell him "Please watch your languagw." He'd say: "Make me!"" (continued in comments)
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05 Aug, 2014, 10:31 pm
(continued from description) "My friends would be around me whenever that would happen, and they'd stop me before I could take any action.
One day-this Spring-Jay and I were walking to lunch he was dropping the F bomb left and right. So I politely asked him to watch his language, he then says "Make me b:tch!!" I reply to him saying "First off, one of these days when you refer women to b:tches' your as.s is gunna get beaten so hard you... Die!" Jay then pulls me away telling me that she saw everyone staring at us and that ahe thought I'd put him in his place. Many others told me the same throughout lunch. The story spread the school like wildfire. Many are scared of me now. He didn't bug me for the rest of the school year.
I've come here today, so that I can hopefully ger some advice about how to deal with him this upcoming school year if we were to have the same lunch periods and be on the same team."
05 Aug, 2014, 10:56 pm
if he keeps that up i reccomend telling an adult in authority of his bad language uses. ;l not really much i can say...
05 Aug, 2014, 11:32 pm
It's been my experience that people like this are after one thing and they don't even consciously know it. They want to trigger that angry outburst, which is why they'll keep going until you snap. It might even catch them by surprise, but that's what they've been working toward and it's how they truly win on an emotional level. If he starts up again, tell a teacher or councilor. Don't let him provoke you to anger again. Words, even curse words, are just vocalized sounds designed to be offensive. I could make up a word that sounds bad pronounced and say it's a curse word and a decade later everyone could be offended by it even though it's just a made up word. He's just trying to get attention and may even think he's being funny. Try not to be offended by him or drawn into anger. Let go of negative emotions and embrace peace and love. He may have stopped after last year, but if not, ignore his words or tell a teacher/councilor. Words aren't worth becoming filled with negative emotions.