"at school, everyone thinks that im just a weird and dumb girl. they always look at me like im not from earth and they call me names like, "fatty, as*hole, worthless, ugly, stupid, and a lot more..." i just wish they can see me as a normal girl and not say that im not worth to be alive..."
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30 Jul, 2014, 1:31 am
"hugs" that's terrible...i know words can hurt but only if you let them to. at the end of the day it doesn't matter what others think about you, it's what you think about yourself that's important. try to ignore what they say because none of it's true in the slightest
30 Jul, 2014, 2:00 am
There's nothing wrong with being weird. Normal is overrated. :P The real issue here is how you see yourself. Sure, they say all these things, but people insult others regularly to the point that it's not about others, but about whatever insult they come up with at the time. It's up to you to believe what they call you or not believe the lies. Who you really are is not dependent on what other people say or even think you are. Think of it this way: If you say someone is clumbsy, will that make them trip? If you say someone always loses, does that mean they can never win? Do your words or beliefs make other people change into different kinds of people? Of course not. So why should their words become absolute truth in your life? Now the secret here is that how you feel about yourself actually changes how others treat you. For example, someone insults you and you feel bad about yourself, so they insult you more because you're acting like you deserve it.
30 Jul, 2014, 2:02 am
Some kids are just plain mean and pick on others to feel good about themselves, you're a nice person who deserves happiness
30 Jul, 2014, 2:13 am
It's like saying, "They're right. I'm pathetic." and basically opening yourself up for someone to hear you and agree. But it doesn't have to be spoken. If you hang your head in shame, you're projecting out to others that you don't deserve their acceptance. So, if you instead act like you like yourself, you will be projecting out that you should be accepted. Sure, some people will still make fun of you, but if you laugh it off and keep being positive, even they will eventually come around. It doesn't matter if others insulted you first and then you felt bad about yourself or if you felt bad about yourself and then they insulted you. What matters is that you got stuck in that cycle of negativity, but you can break it by changing your outlook and then you'll create a cycle of positivity, where you feel good about yourself so others do too and that encourages you to feel better. Sure, maybe at first it will be hard or even feel fake, but it will still start the cycle and get easier.
30 Jul, 2014, 4:21 am
dang... i know how you feel about the looks. its though. but even if others say those things, its not true! other peoples opinion on you doesnt matter at all, its all about your opinion on yourself. like me for example, im not pretty, im social-ly awkerd and shy, but i have other talents that make me speical. so over all, i think im an ok person, and thats my opinion. what other people think of me, i dont give a crap. EVERYONE has a talent or skill that makes them different from everyone else. Everyones special and bueatiful, even if its not on the outside :3 so just be youself, and maybe try and make a friend. :{3
30 Jul, 2014, 6:58 am
I know this feelings all. And I bullied a girl too, so I can say what I thought there: I am cool now for the others.
Because I was bullied too, but bullieing isn´t cool ! You just have to think: They are thinking now, that they are cool. And I should ignore them. They need a brain by therself ! xD
But really, everybody deserves a happy life !
-Naw
30 Jul, 2014, 7:13 am
ive been bullied be for and im barely entering midde school dont feel bad :>
31 Jul, 2014, 3:48 am
I used to get bullied all the time and be called weird. So i know your pain. If you ever need help you can talk to me. Trust me ive been through it all...
03 Aug, 2014, 5:24 am
i know how you feel... ive been called those those names before. but you know what you gotta do? NO ONE IS NORMAL! be yourself! I've found that if you dont act normal, thats ok. it just depends on the aura of it. if you act in a negative way, the bullying will stay or get worse. but, if you act positively, and stay that way, they cant get to you. happiness is the ultimate guard against bullies. i wish you luck! :D