Let's Help Krystaaa! by Bully Free Zone

"uh...
Ever since I started school I've been bullied.Mainly for the way I look. :/
People have called me ugly, fat, loser, stupid, and sometimes they've thrown rocks at me.It has gotten to the point where I'm too shy to say anything and where I have harmed myself.
The school year ended, so my only actual friend had to move...So when I go back to school, I'm gonna be all alone.:<"

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painted on a Nintendo 3DS
09 Jul, 2014, 3:00 am
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Rogue Ranger

09 Jul, 2014, 3:16 am

I want to encourage others to give advice, so I'm going to wait and then give advice a bit later. :3

PancakeKitty

09 Jul, 2014, 4:20 am

Bullies are either victims of bullying or are trying to put up a show for people. I know its hard to ignore bullies but sometimes if you ignore them enough they will just leave you... Its really hard but you can get through it. I know you can :) I know you will find friends someone like you definatly will.

PancakeKitty

09 Jul, 2014, 4:22 am

and like Toon-o-Clock said, try finding people with similar interests and/or personality

KilljoyKrysta

09 Jul, 2014, 4:31 am

^ The thing is, I'm singled out as a 'freak'... t(._."t

Rogue Ranger

09 Jul, 2014, 5:53 am

You're bullied, so you withdraw into yourself, but as you do that, you only become an easier target for them. It's a cycle that will continue until you break it. I know this will be difficult, but think of what you've already been through. Aren't you willing to do a lot to break that? Well, the key to breaking the cycle you describe is in changing your attitude. I know, you feel like your attitude would improve if the bullying stopped, but in this case, to stop the bullying you must first change your attitude. They think you're weird? Embrace it. They insult you, shrug or laugh it off. If you give people the impression you accept who you are and the hurtful words don't affect you, then you're no longer an easy target. See, if they see that their words hurt you and bring you down, they feel encouraged to continue, but if it looks like their words are hitting a brick wall, what's the point? Always act friendly and easygoing no matter how you are treated.

Rogue Ranger

09 Jul, 2014, 5:59 am

Treat others how you would want to be treated, with kindness and respect. There will be bullies, yes, but there won't be as many and you'll find that fewer people will think of you as an outcast and more people will be willing to be your friend. I did say this won't be easy. At first, it will be like taking on a very difficult acting role because you are expressing a level of comfort you don't really feel, but as time goes on, it will become less of an act because you will feel some more sense of ease, especially after more people are willing to be your friend. See, the emotions you give off affect others. It's why if someone's angry, you can either get defensive and angryback or be afraid. Their emotions affected you and your emotions affect others. Remember that you are uniquely you. No one else has your set of personality, values, hopes and dreams. You matter. Keeping that in mind will help you in your acting until it really sinks in and you realize it's true and accept yourself.

Rogue Ranger

09 Jul, 2014, 6:00 am

Remember, you've been through enough. It's time to end it and you can do it. :3

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